What does it mean when a guy says don't tell anyone about us?

Uhm I don't know what it is about me that I keep attracting assholes like literally the same people in different bodies ๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„ every guy I've been with or talked to always say "don't tell anyone about us" or don't tell anyone we talk... & im just like whattttt? What do u mean? Why are u keeping it a secret or are u ashamed? Like what is it. It's eating me alive just thinking about it & it really angers me simply because I hear it all too often & it's very frustrating. At the same time I'm bad at expressing myself which is why I haven't asked why. Why do guys say this to me? Fyi I'm not fat ugly or have a bad rep or anything & im in fact very pretty so I'm not understanding why everytime I meet a guy they love saying don't tell nobody about us?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • O dear God. i feel bad for your misfortune to hv u landed always among the badass guys... stop even letting them enter ur life in any way.. u need to b a little concerned b4 choosing them.. but dont lose heart.. u r a nice person n would always b

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    • Ik ur right but it's slowly starting to hurt my self esteem

    • dont let it hurt u more.. u r a 21st century girl.. y would u let others decide about u ur life.. n ur ways to handle things? diy!

Most Helpful Girl

  • Get rid of him, he doesn't deserve you.

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What Guys Said 2

  • Ask him if his favorite song is "Secret Lovers," by Atlantic Starr... it must be.

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  • its a bad sign that's for sure

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    • Please explain

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    • how do you meet these guys?

    • School

What Girls Said 1

  • Don't even give him the time... Don't allow anyone to treat you as a secret

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