So i regret ever doing this but it just happened... my mom is a very lovely person she puts me before everything i really don't deserve her. But i messed up real bad this time when i got into a relationship with my step dad i know it is wrong but it just happened! I know this is really bad , but i don't know what to do now to fix this if it can even get fixed. Should i tell my mom? If yes HOW?
Most Helpful Guy
Make a cut. Do it straight to the point. You did already enough harm and can't come out a winner. Thus you have to do damage control.
- End it with him
- Sit down with your mom and tell her
- Expect her being angry and disappointed with you for a long long time3
Most Helpful Girl
Be honest. Tell your mom. And don't speak to your stepdad again. What makes you think he hasn't done that with others. And hopefully you learned your lesson. There are boundaries in life. You should have respected the fact that he was your mom's man. He is just using you and you should go to a psychiatrist and get some help. You need to check yourself as something isn't right. Your mom can be the worst person in the world, but doesn't mean you cross that line. If you can't see it, another reason to seek professional counseling. If you were brave enough to be with your "dad" be brave enough to tell you mom and admit your fault. Karma is a bitch and well just be ready for the consequences.0