Look, this guy is playing both you and her and you're sitting there letting him know it's okay to treat you like that. Obviously, you want his affection for the other girl to end, otherwise there would be no anger/jealousy. You may love him and THINK you are his soul mate and you are his, but part of love, is being blind. You're right, it isn't about age, but it is about fairness and respect, and your boyfriend is by far, not respecting you. He can't love you and the other girl and be monogamous, there is just no way. I honestly believe you should end things with him or tell him to cease all contact with the other girl or you'll be the one in pain in the end and wishing/regretting you had done so sooner. It always ends up worse when you purposely blind yourself and telling yourself things will change. It almost never does.
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oh my lord, this is mildly depressing. sweetie, as much as you think you love him, you don't because before you can love someone soooo much, you have to love yourself genuinely as much first and if you're letting him do this to you for sooooo long then you don't love yourself. he's a douche lord ( sorry, its hard to swallow I know). this is a bit harsh but you've GOT to let him go. you're waaaay too young to get THAT serious with a guy that's creepin on you in plain sight. she's a terrible friend to you. and he's a terrible bf. get out of that relationship A.S.A.P. plzzz :(
Making excuses for his actions will only make you hurt in the end, no matter the situation. He loves the two of you and hanging around the other chick more than he should be, that's explanation enough. It's your life, you do what you will, ruin it how you will, but don't ask advice if you don't want it.
listen your to young for a serious relationship. you may not understand that of even think I'm wrong. from now to you 23 your going to be completely different and a relationship is only going to hinder your growth as a person.
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Are you stupid? Why would you WANT a guy to treat you that way? You are begging for a heartbreak and honestly, if you stay with him, you deserve it. It's best to stand up for yourself than not stand at all. Go ahead and let him control you, you may as well kiss the other girl's feet cause you just became both of their little b****
okay because he said he loved her as well, he shouldn't be hanging out with her. you have every right to be mad/jealous. if you care about him that much you need to tell him that he needs to choose between you guys. you deserve better! good luck!
how is he putting you first though if he also loves that other girl?
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