It's only been a week and I miss him so much. I know that I made the right decision or at least I feel I did. But it's still hurts so much not being able to talk to him. I did text him on Christmas, but that was it and he replied.
I know this will get better. I just hate this part of a break up. This by far has been the worst break up I've had to go through.
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I know breakups are super tough, especially right after it happens. A week is still really fresh - it's totally normal to be feeling crappy missing him.
But it does get better with time, even if it doesn't feel like it will. The first few weeks are always the worst. But before you know it, a month will have gone by and the pain won't feel as raw.
Try staying busy - hit the gym extra hard, spend more time with friends, pick up a new hobby. Anything to fill your mind and time so you're not dwelling on him 24/7. Staying active really helps it pass quicker.
Maybe write out all the reasons it wasn't working and re-read that when you start feeling sad. It can help remind you the relationship wasn't all perfect and it really is for the best in the long run.
And don't be too hard on yourself for still caring - it's normal to grieve the end of something meaningful. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other. You got this. In another month or two, I promise it won't hurt so much anymore. You'll get through it!
I feel sympathy. Hownis it possible for you to remember. A decade ago long time ago. I dont what happen I went threw a hurtful vreak up in 2012 andnits like I black out I do not remember who I was friends with at the time who I spoke to what I eat and No I am not an individual who drinks. Maybe the rrauma was to much it was as if acurtian was pull up in my face and I couldn't see what had happened.