Hi, I've been talking to a guy for a few months. We met briefly while abroad and kept in contact ever since via texting and facetiming for hours. My problem is he is lovely, interesting, respectful and everything what a woman wants in a man except he smokes weed. I have never done drugs and I always imagined my future husband to be someone who was 'clean'. I'm sad at the thought of stopping talking to this guy because I've enjoyed getting to know him (and we have a certain energy or spark if you know what I mean) but the weed would really be a problem. Oh and he also has something little on his criminal record which he is expunging and has a child who he doesn't see to avoid putting them through court proceedings etc because the mother is difficult apparently. I know this all sounds bad on paper but when I met him I didn't get the vibe he was a creep at all and he does seem a genuinely good person who has done stuff in his past he now regrets. Do you think people can change for the better? Would he stop smoking weed for me? Or would I be better off cutting my losses and moving on? I'm so frustrated that he seemed like the perfect catch until I found these things out... :/
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