Most Helpful Guy
unfortunately he seems to have a few X's that should be red flags.
He's into drugs, he doesn't see his kids and he has a criminal record. I know he has excuses for some of those things but you're only hearing one side of the story.
now I know that people can change but to me 3 strikes and you're out... just promise that you'll keep an eye on him because manipulators can come off as nice at the beginning and that's how they get what they want.
if we are to assume that he is an okay person that truly has feelings for you, then he will give up the drugs and do whatever it takes to be with you.
I truly wish you the best of luck no matter what you decide :)0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
If its a deal breaker for you, keep him as a friend, but look for someone who doesn't smoke weed. That is a deal breaker for me and I know that sucks, but better to find someone who is more compatible.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE