Girls, Why do girls hate guys who do not drink, do not smoke, and do not take drugs?

[Straightedge_Atheist]

Other than you think we're boring and religious despite me being an Atheist.

Why are you more attracted to guys who smoke, drink alcohol, take drugs, vape, smoke weed? Those things don't make them tough or a "real man".

Also why do girls say that if a guy does not drink alcohol then it is a dealbreaker for you? I don't understand how not drinking alcohol is offensive or an insult nor do I understand how a man buying you juice or soda or any beverage that does not contain alcohol is an insult to you.

Any claim like alcohol/drugs helps socialize or is fun is not a fact and nothing but a placebo effect. I could give you a juice, tell you there's alcohol in it even though there isn't and you would act drunk and think you're having "fun".

I refuse to follow the crowd, I refuse to do things because other people do it, I refuse to do things because the majority do it, I am fine being a boring loser who doesn't go clubbing and doesn't vape/smoke weed/get wasted.

[RaeSheBae]

The girls you have been with hate good guys but not all girls are like that.
You are not a loser because you're not doing these things.
This gangster behavior, not so many people get far in life with this lifestyle so the girls that are in love with these guys will eventually experience something so awful that they will realize that good guys are for the future and bad guys are just for the moment.

Never heard the term 'vape' I got some googling to do.

Anyway at the end of the day we all have our preferences, give less shits about people who judge others. It's their preference, it's their bodies and it's not your problem.
you'll find a woman (not a girl) that won't judge you because you don't do drink.
Stop over thinking it and focus in what you want, positive vibes!
Good luck

[denok22]

Who said that? I personally don't hate them. I "never" think they're boring.

Pardon, I don't know you but seems like you've ever met a person or maybe people who assumed something bad to anyone who doesn't drug, smoke, and drink. I saw you commented on one of a person's opinion in my timeline and you guys talked for a while about this thing. Please don't assume that everyone of us who smokes/drinks/drugs thinks that you (or people) who don't do what we do are boring. Not everyone of us thinks like that. So stop assuming/making conclusion by yourself. Thanks for understanding X

[LisaMia]

I prefer guys who don't smoke or vape right do drugs. I definitely wouldn't want an alcoholic either but a guy who drinks every now and then is fine. I'm a atheist too so this isn't because of religion. I think most girls think if guys don't do any of those things they'll get judged if they do.

[Straightedge_Atheist]

Yet guys get judged for not doing above mentioned. Ever heard of the saying "you don't drink? you must be fun at parties" and the old adage "real men drink beer".

[LisaMia]

Guys judge other guys just as much as girls do. Not all girls are the same not all girls will judge you

[SHEKNOWS]

Honestly there's nothing attractive to me about a guy that does all that shit. Not doing all those substances tells me that a guy wants to live longer and that he's not insecure about his image.

[Anonymous]

I don't. But I knew a lot of ASSHOLE straight edgers in HS. Not people I find pleasant at all. My guess is that you're being evangelistic about it and can't cope with other people being who they are. That's why they come to dislike you.

[Brianna14]

I would prefer a guy who doesn't do that but I hang out with guys who do that as friends but u just don't know now a days who does it and who doesn't

[jul4a]

Uhh, who the heck said that? I'm not attracted to guys who smoke, do drugs & all that. Shows you are careless.

[sailorjupiter]

why do girls want her guy to do drugs? She's just plain dumb if she's attracted to that kind of guy

[thesoundoflorel]

I would adore someone that doesn't do all the above.

[Sparklegemz]

No i do love guys who dont smoke and drink

[Anonymous]

We don't...