Is it common for women to like hurting men?

[Mireillechouette]

I've met several who gloat about it and brag about it! Just recently.

[hecouldbethe1]

yeah actually my ex because an ass after me, so I do call myself a bitch because he became a jerk.

i treated him like sh*t in the end, I took him for granted. but I didn't do it on purpose, I did it for a number of reasons which he deserved and I had plenty of fun enjoying myself when he was in pain; because I didn't care anymore about his feelings. I put so much time into our relationship and all he gave was nothing in return of what I wanted. only what he wanted. so really I will enjoy a guys' pain..ONLY if he deserves it.

now you can rate me down and comment bad about me, but its my opinion and ill follow through it.

[Mireillechouette]

No, I'm not going to rate yu down....sometimes there's a reason for some women to be hurtful whenever they can.

[CobraSVT93]

Men too are justified in being vengeful at times, but I suppose taking the high road is too hard for some right? It's not like you're trapped into anything. You just leave. Karma's a bitch. If you actually enjoy getting off on hurting others and embracing their pain as an achievement, you are a real piece of shit.

[KrakenAttackin]

Maybe you are a CU next tuesday?

[joeblow123]

@CobraSVT93 Thumbs up.

[joeblow123]

@KrakenAttackin Good one.

[lafeeverte]

like someone already said - behind every bitch is a man who made her that way. maybe some really are cruel and hurt men for fun, but most women I know are just fed up with all the BS guys have put them through so now they're not as sensitive anymore and don't really care if they hurt guys in return, cause most guys have proven to us that they don't really have feelings anyway...

[Daggermouth]

Damn, most guys? lol

[barkmoon]

And most women go for the wrong guys thinking they can change them. When things go bad, they start to blame MEN. A bitch is a bitch.

[lafeeverte]

Yeah, "most guys" just from my experience... they don't seem to give a damn... but yes, a lot of women do try to change the bad guys. the problem is a lot of men also pretend to be nice and lure you in and then turn into assholes, so even though I try to go for the nice guys I end up getting screwed over.

[anynymoooooose]

Way to absolve yourself of any responsibility. So I suppose a man who treats women poorly or with little concern, because a woman once did it to him, isn't really a jerk, just the result of a woman who made him that way? You women need to grow some balls, stop playing a victim.

[anynymoooooose]

Ok I just read your response comment, sorry, you seem a little more reasonable than I thought. Just don't use that saying, it's kinda half-assed. I'm really sorry guys have messed with you like that. Make sure you're looking in the right place too, use your head. Women aren't born victims.

[barkmoon]

Believe me, if you really go for the nice guys, you won't get screwed.

[barkmoon]

Screwed over*

[barkmoon]

The 'behind every bitch is a man who made her that way' part is such a lame excuse is not even funny

[chiefnavarro]

And since women choose the man they are with it would seem that their own bad choices in life lead them to being a bitch. SO my logic wins because I have flawless logic. flawless.

[dx021]

Sure, but behind most bastards is a woman that's been a bitch

[joeblow123]

Why would a guy pretend to be nice when being nice gets him nowhere with girls?

[Yadi_18]

Yes. Mostly because they have been hurt themselves. When a woman is hurt and is yearning it's only natural for her to find happiness in someone's misfortune, especially if they are the ones causing it.

[KrakenAttackin]

NO, it is NOT natural for women who have routinely made bad decisions to take out their anger of random men. Wow, you seem like a dangerous CU Next Tuesday.

[confused4now]

I don't let it bother me. Ever heard a 35 year old drunk woman in a bar crying about "why can't I find a good guy?" Yeah... they make me smile because they wasted all their chances by being mean little ball busters. All you good girls who find yourselves good guys and treat them well are SMART.

[KrakenAttackin]

Absolutely true. Real justice comes when these women hit "the wall", with their looks rapidly fading, their c@ck count way up in the double-digits, often an illegitimate kid (or two) from an alpha, their market value is really poor... "where have all the good men gone"! I'll tell you where they are sweetie, the married good women in their twenties... not skanks like you.

[martyfellow]

I think there are more and more such women everywhere. I step lightly around seeral women just where I work, they are like land mines. Emotionally AND physically!

[shes-a-lady]

Yea well behind every bitch there's a man who made her that way

[Killfest400]

Actually, I think the majority of women's problems come from each other, not from men. It's debatable, but possible.

[martyfellow]

Pefect. It's all men's fault, nothing is wrong with ME, I have no responsibility for being a buzzsaw!

The same attittude pervades much of society, but the women are the best example of it.

[KatieScarlettOH]

Not true -

Many immature girls just like to hurt men for the fun of it.

[martyfellow]

Ur right Kate!!!

[anynymoooooose]

Yeah "shes-a-lady", your answer really p*sses me off. I hope there aren't many women like you. Men are hurt all the time by women, you need to buck up.

[KrakenAttackin]

@shes-a-lady That's because women seek the alpha dicks while they are riding the c@ck carousel. Since women have no power over the alpha's they take out their vengeance on the beta's they later date and marry. Women are never, ever to be trusted.

[joeblow123]

@shes-a-lady

Yea well behind every bastard there's a woman who made him that way.

[KatieScarlettOH]

Yes. It is quite common and I know a few friends who love to, ( in their words ) destroy men. I would do my best to steer away from them, they most likely have issues with themselves or men.

[Daggermouth]

Will you be my Hero?

[KatieScarlettOH]

I'm just speaking the truth. No form of heroism here. haha

[Daggermouth]

So that's a no? (sad face)

[chiefnavarro]

How can you tell them apart.

[KatieScarlettOH]

Tell who apart? The girls who like to hurt vs. the ones who want a relationship? I have no earthly idea, lol. I guess it can be obvious at times.

[CuddlyCarla]

Get some new friends in your life, quick. A healthy woman (or healthy man) doesn't take joy out of others torment and misery. Sounds really immature to me. No, it's not common. In people worth your time, anyway.

[Xenophobia]

Some girls think it's hilarious to give a guy blue balls. It's kind of disrespectful.

[SmoothBlue17]

Very True !! its Rude

[tr1xtr]

Some dumb ass men think it's a fucking sex robot that is supposed to follow a program, or else it's broken. Fuck these people. The majority of these comments sound like rapists.

[KrakenAttackin]

These are the same kind of women who scream "rape" when they wake up the next morning and regret f'ing the guy they came home with. These women are super-dangerous and to be avoided at all costs. If a women blue-balls you, LEAVE AT ONCE and NEVER contact her again, she is will destroy you in the end. TRUST ME ON THIS.

[KrakenAttackin]

@tr1xtr Sex robots are almost here and c@nts like you will be completely obsolete. Thanks for playing sweetie.

[Anonymous]

I think my last girlfriend was one of these women, and it is a terrible thing to do. A lot of guys take a long time to open up and when they do its a big deal. Please girls, don't screw us over and f*** us up! = (

[KrakenAttackin]

Dude, that's like asking a jackyl not to eat dead flesh.

[MaLfUnCtIoN]

for those of you saying a guy made the woman that way; which gender is best known for seeking out the lowlives of the other gender because they find it hot?

ladies, you seem to like bad boys. then when the bad boy is, well, bad, you act hurt and use it as justification for being a bitch to the next guy. you sought out the asshole, you stayed with him, and now you expect every other guy to make up for the last one.

its pure bs.

[bwachauer]

Yes, there are quite a number on the site who admit this...ask advice onhw to do it!

ANd I've met them in the work world...some who are really good at it!

[KrakenAttackin]

Yes, more examples of SUPER-DANGEROUS women, avoid women at work at all costs.

I was offered a large promotion which would have involved my managing a bunch of underperforming millennial females, no thanks, I can't imagine a more dangerous situation for a male manager.

[Anonymous]

Feminists, misadrists its a hobby for some or maybe just acting out of hurt... girls love the drama...

[oliviamerino]

haha its entertaining.. but hurting someone is terrible.. -karma believer lol

[KrakenAttackin]

Entertaining?

[larry69]

I wouldn't know what to do with a woman that treated me good

[bBop345]

They must be very insecure from past experiences with certain men who treated them poorly. This way, they get even, but with the wrong person!

[erinahaa]

no its not normal. unless your just in a really messd up town. girls are expected to treat guys just as good as guys should girls. me myself personally. think girls should treat guys better because they are suppose to tke care of em.

[CobraSVT93]

You are very sweet and compassionate. I wish more people were like you. I needed to hear that. We should treat each other like kings and queens with the sole intention of making each other feel as happy as we humanly can. We should be selfless for one another. A kind soul deserves that type of treatment in a relationship. Why do people always take a good thing for granted? I really don't wanna believe it's human nature, but sadly I do and it makes me beyond depressed.

[CrazynKinky]

Women brag about it cause to men we're weak fragile individuals. So when we hurt a guy or beat them it's enjoyable

[Lockjawx27]

I also find it enjoyable to phsyically beat on women. Its very euphoric. I love the experience of hurting women in this way. Can't wait till I get a wife down the road

[anynymoooooose]

See this makes a lot of sense to me.

[anynymoooooose]

Oh f***, not what Lockjawx27 said, but what CrazynKinky said. I think it's a fight-back vulnerability kind of thing. I understand that much, but I hate when people loose sight of what's important in relationships and start getting mean with each other.

[CrazynKinky]

I have nothing to say to Lockjawx27 cause I'm not sure if your serious or just a jackass. But I hope your balls get shoved down your throat either way!

Thanks for clearing that up anynymoooose cause I thought you were agreeing with Lockjawx27

[chiefnavarro]

What do you call a girl with two black eyes

somebody that had to be told twice.

[CrazynKinky]

No that's just a stupid bitch that doesn't know how to fight back

[dx021]

Roflmao chief . win.

[joeblow123]

@Lockjawx27 Go for it, bro. I understand where you are coming from.

[joeblow123]

@chiefnavarro Cool. Good one.

[KrakenAttackin]

Weak and fragile? You have the entire power of the government behind you? If anything women are the majority holders of power.

[thealpha]

many maNY MANY& still many of such bitches are everywhere

[Jager66]

i know I'm late t the party but in my experience yes it is, many seem to get some kind of mid evil thrill form it.

[Reeses-pieces777]

no it's wrong. to hurt anyone is wrong for no reason is pretty pathetic. it's violence.

[KrakenAttackin]

Yes, well said.

[Anonymous]

Actually, there was this one guy who was telling me how much he enjoys pain and how he prefers to get crushed and walked on and stabbed as opposed to pleasures of sex. I'm guessing that's a VERY small number of men.

[KrakenAttackin]

That is a mentally ill man.

[Linsp]

those are called bitches lol...they live off drama.

[cjwright79]

If they like it, how bad can it really be? The really bad stuff is when everyone feels helpless.

[justcami]

its just like how some guys like to date many women. its like a "proving thing". they like to prove they have that kind of power over someone. like someone said before these kinda people have problems, including the guys.

[KrakenAttackin]

The difference is that only a very tiny percentage of men ever date more than one girl at a time (probably 2% or so), while probably 75% of women like to crush men just for fun.

[Anonymous]

It seems some do. I've heard this from other women also, that some purposely do it. My guess is because it's been done to them so they want to "hurt back", which is sad.

[kittygherkin]

omg I've had a number of circumstances where I've unintentionally hurt guys and I feel terrible for it :(

[martyfellow]

Hooray for Australia!

[kittygherkin]

Haha Aussie pride ;D

[KrakenAttackin]

Seriously? Like Britney "Oops I did it again"? Please don't pretend it is unintentional.

[shes-a-lady]

yea, if you've been hurt in the past...sure.

[joeblow123]

Were you one of them?