- if you post pics similar to these girls or any sexual pic and guys comment and like it.. This whole issue falls flat.. I hope you are aware of that.
- Its wrong if it's girls he's dated.. If it's his female friends then it's fine
- if its strangers and celebs also fine
- if he says he wants to fuck them it's wrong
- if you are trying to police him that's wrong.. he's like that and will always be I know these dudes so it's your move whether you adapt or leave
- you should unfollow your boyfriend I've done it its best not knowing trust me.
- In this generation 90% of dudes will do this and 90% of girls like you post these picks so the cycle continues.. It's just a part of the times we live in
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Insecure and crazy are not helpful for ltr
That said maybe ask him if there's something more he needs that you're not providing? Something like I'm not trying to be jealous but I want to meet all your needs and in return I want you focused on us. I'm concerned we both are in this together... keep it positive and reassuring not cray cray
1. The male ego is fragile
2. Relationships take work and lots of sacrifice. That said when my girl does what I just said and gives me great sex. I'll do anything and overlook just about anything for her.
I think you're very insecure. You should work on that and understand if it's actually your boyfriend's fault or not. I don't think you would be asking this question if he liked these girls' pics, but made you feel loved and appreciated as his girlfriend and his only love interest. Maybe the problem isn't how he behaves with other girls, but how he makes you feel when it's just you and him.
If my boyfriend did that he probably wouldn't be my boyfriend for very long. I don't care if he looks at their pictures but at least don't like them. So yeah I would most likely end up dumping him if he wouldn't stop. How would he feel if you liked pics of hot guys? If a guy won't respect me then I don't need him.
Woah not okay to be liking overly sexy photos of past girlfriends and crushes. He's obviously still pining over them, which is not good. You need to express to him how that makes you feel, if it was normal photos of them just smiling then i wouldn't raise an eyebrow to it.
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i think you should tell him how you feel. If he really cares about you, and respects your feelings.. he would understand
if it's an ex then yh I agree. if it's just a friend or somebody he knows. then you got nothing to worry about. it's like a form of respect towards the person on the picture. I would be more concerned if he wrote something beneath the picture. like "hot" or "sexy" for example.
best thing you can do is to have a chat with him. but I think you've already done that.
he's respecting others but disrespecting you. at least that's how you feel it is. I'd have him at least stop his connection to his ex. that's a taboo in my personal books. as for the rest it's up to you I guess.
try and work on that jealousy. put boundaries up for you both. he can like something but not comment for example. he can like others but not his ex. stuff like that.
in the end it's all about communication.Honestly, you have to try and disassociate yourself from it. Guys are visual and it's strictly visual entertainment. He's not comparing you or anything like that, also doesn't mean he doesn't like/love you.
Having said that, you should absolutely let him know how you feel about it (nicely) and HOW it makes you feel so he knows this. He absolutely can make the effort for your feelings/comfort if he truly cares for you and respects you.Sit him down, and just explain that to him. Talking things through with a good communication can be very important in a relationship. Most likely there is nothing for you to worry about, but if it really bothers you then talking is the thing to do.
You shouldn't feel that way it's normal for guys to do that
Every guy doesn't it does not affect his feelings for you
And guys don't mean anything by it
It's totally Normal and MeaninglessHey :) I never though I'd find someone going through the same issue. Ignore the guys on here they all seem to have the same excuse? Wanna talk privately?
He's stuck in the past. Proper loving and communication can come more easily when people live in the moment and forget about all baggage/past attachments. Hopefully the next person you find understands that
If its random pics if women, fine. If its women he knows I think you should break up. Ask him how would he feel if you were liking shirtless pics of guys you know. Or maybe just dobt, just leave his ass lol
You're being disrespected and he makes sure you feel insecure. But you know, you're allowing him to do this. Tell him you want him to show you a little respect. See what he says Or dump him.
Why? i bet if a guy posted a pic of his abs you'd take a double peek at his post. It's just a guy being a guy. Booty is booty no matter how much clout it got.
Ouuuweeee. The power of the social media
Back in the day this was one less 'problem' to worry about
Anywhooo - did you tell your boyfriend all this yet?Talk to him about it tell how you feel if it continues break it off he's not worth your time
completely disrespectful. it's basically him letting the girls know that he's interested still
it makes you feel insecure, he's not doing anything wrong. Neither are the women.
Well, would you be attracted to him if you had his undivided attention? Sorry, that's shitty of him, but that's the way it goes.
yes u must bc it may happne that he lost hus interest in you... so its must
tell him how u feel and let him decide whats more imp for him. if he cares for u he will not make u feel insecure n stop tht
you said in tight clothing, do you mean that tight so you see a camel toe on them?
Tell him to stop it's not normal
he may be a perv
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