I get so insecure when my boyfriend follows random attractive girls on instagram. Am I overreacting?

[Anonymous]

I get jealous and insecure, but other than that he treats me like a princess and tells me I‘m beautiful all the time. but why does he feel the need to follow regular girls and like all their pictures? I‘ve told him before that it bothers me and he said he understands and that he‘d stop, which he did but lately he‘s been following some girls again. I know I’m being insecure. How can I get over this?

[RateThemBabe]

Oh I’ve been there, I got him to stop doing that. Anyway, I understand where you’re coming from, I’m insecure about it too. What you need to know is all these Instagram models photoshop and stuff, so do not feel bad about yourself. As for your relationship, talk to him about it again, and damn ask why he does it

[Asker]

but why should I talk to him about it again and again?

[RateThemBabe]

Well you two have to understand each other better if you want things to work out.

[Asker]

how did you tell him, what did you say?

[RateThemBabe]

I just asked him “who is this and why do you follow her” and he just said how he found her hot and stuff, but I was hotter 😂 Of course every man will have different reactions, but I told him to unfollow the girl because it makes me insecure that he’s following girls because they’re “hot” and he listened to me and unfollowed her to prevent further issues

[ItsTheNephilim]

Since you have talked to him about this and continues to do that despite telling you that he would stop, that's a red flag. You're not in the wrong.

[Asker]

so what do I do?

[ItsTheNephilim]

That's up to you. Break up or talk to him more.

[spartan55]

Over stupid Instagram? Wow.

[Asker]

if it‘s just stupid instagram, then why is it so important to him to keep doing it even though he knows it makes me feel bad?

[spartan55]

If he wasn't looking at that he would be looking at Playboy magazine like I did before the internet. Guys like to look at attractive girls. Some grow out of it sooner than others.

[Asker]

yea but they‘re models who he could never get with.. and the girls he‘s follwing aren‘t famous, they’re from our city and they can see when he likes their photos, is there no difference?

[jennifer_bloom]

Break up with him - he’s not a good guy

[Gedaria]

One thing looking another touching...

[In_Trance]

Stay off of Instagram