So i know i really am just being insecure deep down but i didn't know if anyone feels the same of has any advice on how i can help myself.
My boyfriend and i are in a very healthy relationships, he knows and understands i am quite insecure about certain things, i speak to him about it and its normally always fine etc. I have this real insecurity of who he follows on social media- around 80% of the people he follows on insta are stunning stunning girls, not like models etc, just girls he's followed from either knowing them or just following them through a friend etc. His entire feed is just full of these girls and it makes me feel so insecure, sometimes he likes the photos , never in front of me (probably because he knows it would upset me lowkey) But i don't want it to upset me, i don't want my boyfriend to have to feel like that!! I know he chose me for a reason but there's always a horrible niggle that if a prettier girl messaged him tryna get with him, i just don't know how he'd react. He is a very very sweet boy and for example his ex (they're still friends) rang him asking if he were out that night to go out with her/ few friends and even though he knew we had other plans he says oh yeah maybe etc (he did tell her i was with him) - but just say no, especially as he knows i do not like her?
He is still adding girls on snapchat etc, i dont ask whether he knows them or not cause he hasn't met anyone new recently so i can only assume he knows them ://
How can i just get over this?
My boyfriend and i are in a very healthy relationships, he knows and understands i am quite insecure about certain things, i speak to him about it and its normally always fine etc. I have this real insecurity of who he follows on social media- around 80% of the people he follows on insta are stunning stunning girls, not like models etc, just girls he's followed from either knowing them or just following them through a friend etc. His entire feed is just full of these girls and it makes me feel so insecure, sometimes he likes the photos , never in front of me (probably because he knows it would upset me lowkey) But i don't want it to upset me, i don't want my boyfriend to have to feel like that!! I know he chose me for a reason but there's always a horrible niggle that if a prettier girl messaged him tryna get with him, i just don't know how he'd react. He is a very very sweet boy and for example his ex (they're still friends) rang him asking if he were out that night to go out with her/ few friends and even though he knew we had other plans he says oh yeah maybe etc (he did tell her i was with him) - but just say no, especially as he knows i do not like her?
He is still adding girls on snapchat etc, i dont ask whether he knows them or not cause he hasn't met anyone new recently so i can only assume he knows them ://
How can i just get over this?
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you're all missing the point- im asking what i can do to help myself stop stressing over this n y'all moaning at me...
