Thoughts on girls with a flat chest?

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Ok so this just happened. I was in a post and I happened to say that I'm not attracted to facial or body hair and would make my theoretical husband get laser hair removal all over his face and body. Anyways this guy told me "that's sad" and then proceeded to tell me that "my chest is so flat that I look like a teenage boy". First I'm not sure why my preference warranted such an insult. Next of all I know I have a flat chest. I'm 28 so it's not getting bigger. That being said I've come to accept and like my body. Not having a chest or any curves allows me to be more mobile like jogging to stay in shape and I'm also more flexible in the bedroom. So give me your thoughts. Is having a flat chest and straight figure that much of a turn off? Are there any guys or girls that it would be a deal breaker for? Honestly just want to know.

Spelling95 · Accepted Answer

Depends on what you mean by flat chest. If you mean just small B cups, that's okay. If you mean you pretty much dont need a bra then it's a dealbreaker for me.

He got insulted because men have tons of hair, it's one of the big things that makes us different from women. Particularly our beards. For you to have the gall to say you'll make your husband get laser hair removal everywhere is pretty ridiculous. It's tantamount to a guy saying his future wife will have to get lots of plastic surgery to make their body as perfect as possible. Thats not cool.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

for me your flat- chest would be a turn-on depending on the amount of sensation you get or have when your nipples are being sucked slow and seductive with deep passion you're getting turned on when that's happening then there's nothing wrong with being flat-chested

Wonderer89 · Accepted Answer

I think he's completely out of line and wrong to say it, it's incredibly rude and wasn't asked for at all. Many guys like smaller breasts and it's been stated here particularly really often.

Side note though, it's a biiig ask to "make" your partner get laser all over their face and body

moontimemagic · Accepted Answer

You insulted the patriarchy and in return received an insult over your non sexual organs designed to feed babies.

Don't mind him. You have a proportioned frame that am sure 100% that is desirable.
Large breasts are fetishised in our culture. That is all.

Pomegranate139 · Accepted Answer

Don't pay attention to the insults. It just means they felt you personally attacked them and this is their way of venting.
And lots of guys really like big boobs, but that doesn't mean small are completely off the table, just clutching the table cloth 😂

TadCurious · Answer

Well I don't think it was right for that guy to insult you because of the size of your breasts. But having said that, let me ask you this: If you would "make" your theoretical husband remove all of his body hair by laser, how would you feel if he "made" you get breast implants?

Zer0Ghost · Answer

There's plenty who it would be a deal breaker for, plenty who have a fetish for smaller, some that would at least tell you it doesn't bother them, and many who just don't care. It's not like he was trying to have a conversation, he took the hair thing personal oe ego brusing and attacked back

lia_98 · Answer

i wish I was flat chested its much easier to deal with in My opinion.

and no it wouldn't be a deal breaker i know so many guys and girls that find that attractive. it's really cool to just be... having a big chest isn't fun... like... for some I might be but for others it really isn't.

Anonymous · Answer

Dear girl, I was not offended when you said you would make a man get laser hair removal everywhere. And I in no way wanted to insult you by stating that you are absolutely flat chested girl like a teenager boy. I was just asking and was curious about it. No insult. No offense. I apologise if you took it as an insult. Am sorry.
I infact am curious about your perfectly flat chest and hips. Because let's just say you have got the best of both the genders. Hairless skin like a woman and no worries about big breasts and hips :)
You are lucky woman.
Is it genetic to be flat?

Anonymous · Answer

He gave you an unsolicited opinion, but I guess his preference is worth as much as yours.

I'm not a lesbian, but for me a flat chest on a woman and straight figure are indeed not flattering. Nothing you can do there unless you go for other procedures though...
Hairless dudes are not my preference either and I probably would never date a guy who hair lasered his face.

justlikemike · Answer

I couldn't care less I like different shapes sizes and as I've gotten older its defiantly more about the type of personality you've got

drG_NePhyAplMa · Answer

I am a fan of flat chested gilrs. I've always butts were much more atractive and large breasts just get in the way and or uncomfortable.

cdmist · Answer

Is having a flat chest and straight figure that much of a turn off? I wouldn't care, if you had an interesting personality. Are there any guys or girls that it would be a deal breaker for? some guys.

spaceshuttle · Answer

No, it's not a turn off for me but how having a flat chest will make you more flexible, I am wondering about this.

CaptainSmartass · Answer

It would be a deal breaker if she was a 'person of restricted tittage' However, I would reconsider if she was an awesome person and great fun to hang out with. Simples...

alexandremp · Answer

u are on horinzontal so your boobs seems smaller. i think your are ok. but with smaller chest seems more natural do topless.

DLTN1992 · Answer

Flat chest makes you lighter. Or you you want Jessica Simpsons' tits and add 20pounds to your weight?

LovelyLindsay · Answer

A girl's chest is not the only thing that makes her beautiful so to me it doesn't matter.

haboss · Answer

i used to be a tits or gtfo guy till i met a flat chested girl so tell him to go to hell

Nandor · Answer

I prefer boobs between /AAA-B>C-E/ If you are a flaty then its nice

Anonymous · Answer

Flat chests are fine, if a girl is cute, tiny breasts can actually be a major turn on.  But you can't make someone remove ALL of their hair just because you want them to. That is not right.

Anonymous · Answer

Nah, besides they'll grow a little once you're full of my baby.

Anonymous · Answer

If you are short with a flat chest there are guys that will like that.

Kuraj · Answer

Get implants, problem solved.

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