Thoughts on girls with a flat chest?

[Anonymous]

Ok so this just happened. I was in a post and I happened to say that I'm not attracted to facial or body hair and would make my theoretical husband get laser hair removal all over his face and body. Anyways this guy told me "that's sad" and then proceeded to tell me that "my chest is so flat that I look like a teenage boy". First I'm not sure why my preference warranted such an insult. Next of all I know I have a flat chest. I'm 28 so it's not getting bigger. That being said I've come to accept and like my body. Not having a chest or any curves allows me to be more mobile like jogging to stay in shape and I'm also more flexible in the bedroom. So give me your thoughts. Is having a flat chest and straight figure that much of a turn off? Are there any guys or girls that it would be a deal breaker for? Honestly just want to know.

[Spelling95]

Depends on what you mean by flat chest. If you mean just small B cups, that's okay. If you mean you pretty much dont need a bra then it's a dealbreaker for me.

He got insulted because men have tons of hair, it's one of the big things that makes us different from women. Particularly our beards. For you to have the gall to say you'll make your husband get laser hair removal everywhere is pretty ridiculous. It's tantamount to a guy saying his future wife will have to get lots of plastic surgery to make their body as perfect as possible. Thats not cool.

[Asker]

I'm pretty much completely flat. In my picture I actually stuffed my top and I still got told it. I don't see why the hair thing is so offensive. I've heard lots of gay men do it.

[Spelling95]

Yeah, gay men. Are you looking for a gay guy? Removing body hair is permanent. We can't undo it and it'll definitely change our appearance significantly. Not to mention it's something huge we'd have to do for you when you should probably accept his body like he accepts your breasts as they are. If you dont accept it then the guy probably isn't for you.

[Asker]

lol all guys have hair though. And guess what girls do to and we get laser done to please our partners. Gay men do it to please eachother so why can't a guy do it to please a girl he's planning on spending the rest of his life with.

[ohshee]

for me your flat- chest would be a turn-on depending on the amount of sensation you get or have when your nipples are being sucked slow and seductive with deep passion you're getting turned on when that's happening then there's nothing wrong with being flat-chested

[Asker]

They are actually really sensitive. I think my nipples are connected directly to my clit.

[ohshee]

lol that makes it even better is that you in your picture you're not that flat chest so if that's the case then when you get your clit lick your nipples must get erect

[ohshee]

I I've always believed girls with similar breasts we're better lovers just because of their sensation level

[Asker]

lol that's a padded bikini top but thanks.

[ohshee]

yeah but your body's not padded it looks like you were given and born with everything else that's hot so I really wouldn't worry about it wood enjoy the ride and if your nipples connected to your clitt that's even hotter two for one

[Wonderer89]

I think he's completely out of line and wrong to say it, it's incredibly rude and wasn't asked for at all. Many guys like smaller breasts and it's been stated here particularly really often.

Side note though, it's a biiig ask to "make" your partner get laser all over their face and body

[whyisitnotworking]

I agree , Small boobs are better. Why is she so insecure about it, I don't get her.
by the way what's wrong in a woman asked her man to her whole body laser hair removal forever?

[Asker]

I'm not insecure if you read my other responses. I just didn't appreciate being told I look like a teenage boy. And I was expressing my preference for smooth hairless bodies and he asked me what I would do if I was with a guy who had a hairy chest and back and all over his body. I've gotten some laser and would get more if my partner really wanted me to.

[Wonderer89]

I never said you were insecure but righto

[Asker]

Not you sweetie the guy who responded to you.

[kenkenobi]

You look alright to me 😁😁

[Wonderer89]

@kenkenobi sorry?

[kenkenobi]

are you asking if I'm sorry because gosh darn it I'm not!!

[Wonderer89]

@kenkenobi i have no idea what you're talking about lol

[kenkenobi]

My plan has been successful. the cake is exquisite 👌🏼

[Wonderer89]

@kenkenobi the cake is a lie

[kenkenobi]

I'm not even angry.
I'm being so sincere right now

[Wonderer89]

@kenkenobi me too! Completely

[kenkenobi]

the cake is a lie... listen to the song... from the game. 😉

[Wonderer89]

@kenkenobi 😂😂 that was a joke haha
Fat chance

😜 So got me, I shouldn't play right after waking up. Well played sir

[kenkenobi]

I remember playing that game through in one sitting. the orange box was awesome!!

[moontimemagic]

You insulted the patriarchy and in return received an insult over your non sexual organs designed to feed babies.

Don't mind him. You have a proportioned frame that am sure 100% that is desirable.
Large breasts are fetishised in our culture. That is all.

[Asker]

lol your awesome. You look like you have a nice frame too if you don't mind me saying so.

[moontimemagic]

haha Thank you!
Sorry you had this experience. Especially since the guy asked you for your preference and then proceeded to insult you over it..

[cavmanier]

Common liberal and feminist logic: stereotype the privileged male while ignoring the woman's or other perceived victims role. Stereotyping the evil males is virtuous (because some males at some point did bad things), but if it happens to a "victim" the person's a bigot-fascist.

[Asker]

I'm actually a Republican.

[cavmanier]

cutebutterfliez I was taking to the other girl.

"ur non sexual organs designed to feed babies"

That may actually be sexist. According to some feminist logic, "Coupling nature with motherhood can inadvertently support biological deterministic arguments about the roles of men and women in the family." That's not my opinion, but according to some mainstream feminists, breastfeeding isn't considered natural and there are even some SJW doctors with that opinion.

[moontimemagic]

@cavmanier It won't let me expand your original response.

I am not steryotyping. But the guy's bruised ego offended her womanhood.
I simply made a feminist joke referring to his manly Hairyness.

Breastfeeding is natural.
And not all feminists agree on the same topics. Just like not all Christians believe in sex before marriage.

[cavmanier]

I don't think bruising her womanhood was his goal though. He just wanted her hurt in anyway, and he probably tried to invert her preference on body hair by talking about her boobs. A lot of guys seem to use small boobs as an insult I think because they think it's similar to calling a guy's penis small.

I agree not all feminist agree with each other. I'd go much beyond that and say most girls that tend to casually consider themselves feminist are unaware of most of the extreme social and political views they tend to support. When I didn't understand that I used to consider myself a feminist. Once I realized how deep and biased and politically motivated the extreme part tends to be, I disassociated from it. Like I support equal rights, but I don't support a politically loaded group that predominately supports one color or gender. Of course breastfeeding is natural. Did you see this?
www.youtube.com/watch

[Pomegranate139]

Don't pay attention to the insults. It just means they felt you personally attacked them and this is their way of venting.
And lots of guys really like big boobs, but that doesn't mean small are completely off the table, just clutching the table cloth 😂

[Asker]

lol are yours big or small?

[Pomegranate139]

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[TadCurious]

Well I don't think it was right for that guy to insult you because of the size of your breasts. But having said that, let me ask you this: If you would "make" your theoretical husband remove all of his body hair by laser, how would you feel if he "made" you get breast implants?

[Asker]

I would never get breast implants I don't want them and like my chest like it is. But if he wanted I would get laser all over my legs vajayjay and anywhere else he wanted (except my head).

[moontimemagic]

may I just say that hair removal isn't a permanent life threatening operation. And actually brings out defining features.
I let my partner shave my Pubic area so he can see everything. It feels very intimate when you trust your partner to shave you

[whyisitnotworking]

Women don't really have any legs hair naturally!!

[cavmanier]

@moontimemagic His point was about forcing a partner to change their body for the other persons desire.

[moontimemagic]

@cavmanier Then compare something that is related. Body hair and breast augmentation are too drastically far apart.

[whyisitnotworking]

@moontimemagic why even compare anything to begin with?

[cavmanier]

@moontimemagic he could have made a more similar comparison. Like I said though, his point was about forced change for the sake of personal aesthetic preference. Breast implants are rarely life threatening. I don't know the rate, but I bet death from implants is common. Maybe I'm wrong though. I wouldn't have made the exact comparison though. I would have some something like telling her to shave her hair or only have a Marge Simpson hair cut lol.

[Asker]

Trust me I'm bi and I've hooked up with some girls who had such a jungle down their I had a hard time finding what to lick. If we were in a long term relationship I would have told her the same thing. It would have to go. At least around the vajayjay itself. She could keep a triangle up top if she wanted.

[Lissand2004]

@whyisitnotworking wtf yes they do have leg hair naturally

[whyisitnotworking]

@asker see I do know girls have almost equally hairy groin area as men do. But apart from that area women don't really have coarse hair anywhere else except somewhat fuzzy lower legs. Women have it easier in terms of body and facial hair growth patterns.
But I don't know any woman who keeps it has full jungle down'there and it's so dense that one can't see the main point down there!!

[whyisitnotworking]

@Lissand2004 ya girl have somewhat leg fuzz

[Zer0Ghost]

There's plenty who it would be a deal breaker for, plenty who have a fetish for smaller, some that would at least tell you it doesn't bother them, and many who just don't care. It's not like he was trying to have a conversation, he took the hair thing personal oe ego brusing and attacked back

[lia_98]

i wish I was flat chested its much easier to deal with in My opinion.

and no it wouldn't be a deal breaker i know so many guys and girls that find that attractive. it's really cool to just be... having a big chest isn't fun... like... for some I might be but for others it really isn't.

[whyisitnotworking]

You don't have too big boobs anyway! Why want flat chested?

[lia_98]

I have D cups which are stupidly annoying when I'm not in the mood to wear a bra. also my display picture was taken while wearing a super tight sports bra.

when you're flat chested its nicer cause people aren't constantly looking at your chest and guys don't hjust randomly walk past pretending to give you you hug then their hand "accidentally" grabs your boob

[whyisitnotworking]

D cup
Wow
That's huge

[lia_98]

yop they are

[whyisitnotworking]

It must be sexually attractive when you are topless. Isn't it?

[lia_98]

... uhm... ... uhm... uhm...

[whyisitnotworking]

What happened sweetheart?
Sweetie, how tall are you?

[Anonymous]

Dear girl, I was not offended when you said you would make a man get laser hair removal everywhere. And I in no way wanted to insult you by stating that you are absolutely flat chested girl like a teenager boy. I was just asking and was curious about it. No insult. No offense. I apologise if you took it as an insult. Am sorry.
I infact am curious about your perfectly flat chest and hips. Because let's just say you have got the best of both the genders. Hairless skin like a woman and no worries about big breasts and hips :)
You are lucky woman.
Is it genetic to be flat?

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't mean to insult you, ok. Please don't defame me here. It was just compliment.
Hairiness is icky creepy, I agree

[Asker]

Are you the one who said it?

[Opinion Owner]

Ya , it was me. And am sorry if my comment about your chest Being as flat as a teen boy offended you.
Infact you are better than a teen boy because your skin is bare baby smooth hairless!!

[Asker]

So wait do you actually have a thing for teenage boys?

[Opinion Owner]

*sigh* na dear. Nooooooooo.
Please stop putting me down. :/
Please let me know why were you offeended so much? What wrong did I do and say? :/
I guess it's great for you to have Totally flat chest and butt. As I said you have the best thighs of both the genders. Hairlessness of a woman and no worried about big boobs and butt like a man!! :)
You can walk run jump around topless without any worry!! :)
You have small nipples as well?
Hey, is it genetic for you?

[Anonymous]

He gave you an unsolicited opinion, but I guess his preference is worth as much as yours.

I'm not a lesbian, but for me a flat chest on a woman and straight figure are indeed not flattering. Nothing you can do there unless you go for other procedures though...
Hairless dudes are not my preference either and I probably would never date a guy who hair lasered his face.

[TheOtakuMaid]

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[justlikemike]

I couldn't care less I like different shapes sizes and as I've gotten older its defiantly more about the type of personality you've got

[drG_NePhyAplMa]

I am a fan of flat chested gilrs. I've always butts were much more atractive and large breasts just get in the way and or uncomfortable.

[cdmist]

Is having a flat chest and straight figure that much of a turn off? I wouldn't care, if you had an interesting personality. Are there any guys or girls that it would be a deal breaker for? some guys.

[CaptainSmartass]

It would be a deal breaker if she was a 'person of restricted tittage' However, I would reconsider if she was an awesome person and great fun to hang out with.

Simples...

[spaceshuttle]

No, it's not a turn off for me but how having a flat chest will make you more flexible, I am wondering about this.

[Asker]

Haven't you ever noticed how males can typically fun faster than females and have better insurance and stuff? Some of that is hormones but a lot of it has to do with the shape of the femalle body and where fat deposits that males don't have are typically stored

[alexandremp]

u are on horinzontal so your boobs seems smaller. i think your are ok. but with smaller chest seems more natural do topless.

[Asker]

Lol mg top is actually stuffed he didn't even know that.

[alexandremp]

lol ok. they are small yes but, non one will die cause of that.. and if u show confidence about them, that is better than have big boobs.

[DLTN1992]

Flat chest makes you lighter. Or you you want Jessica Simpsons' tits and add 20pounds to your weight?

[LovelyLindsay]

A girl's chest is not the only thing that makes her beautiful so to me it doesn't matter.

[haboss]

i used to be a tits or gtfo guy till i met a flat chested girl so tell him to go to hell

[Nandor]

I prefer boobs between /AAA-B>C-E/ If you are a flaty then its nice

[Anonymous]

Flat chests are fine, if a girl is cute, tiny breasts can actually be a major turn on.
But you can't make someone remove ALL of their hair just because you want them to. That is not right.

[Anonymous]

Nah, besides they'll grow a little once you're full of my baby.

[Anonymous]

If you are short with a flat chest there are guys that will like that.

[Kuraj]

Get implants, problem solved.

[Asker]

I don't want implants and would never get them. I like my body.

[Kuraj]

Exactly, and your theoretical husband is presumably going to like his body hair the way it is too.
We just have to learn that we don't appear perfect to everyone.
There will be people who won't like your flat chest, and there will be people who you won't like because of their hairy chest.

But you can't expect them to change for you and they can't expect you to change for them.

[meatballs21]

Delicious flat chest!

[RedThread]

I don't care to be honest.

[j3388]

I prefer the petite look

[neoagent1]

SO I can't tittyfuck you, no biggie.

[Anonymous]

Omg what an asshole guy!

[harlley760p]

well I love small chested women

[harlley760p]

so I say sexy as hell want to date

[Schumy]

I love all size breasts and you have a great body.

[supergtp]

I enjoy smaller boobs myself

[hot_knight]

for me it doesn't matter. you looks cute nd sexy

[RedGold]

I think smaller is better.

[Anonymous]

yeah it is to be honest

[normielover6969xD]

I love flat chests.

[samsmoove]

Yes for me at least

[disgustingweebtrash]

Nothing

[KingDynamic]

Mehh

[Jay_JvR]

Love ehm

[eagle1951]

not a big deal

[Anonymous]

Useless

[Anonymous]

I like it