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I ask girls over to my place simply because it's so much easier and yea it will be awkward probably. if your guts tell you no then it's a no. if it's because he wants to cook for you. he wants a relationship. if he wants to watch a movie with you. it could be either way but hey, I don't see most guys a rapist like that. snuggly guys are actually more likely to test girls like that. just because it's great snuggling on the couch watching a movie and there doesn't have to be anything sexual about it. with the ease he changed it it does seem like he is a little more serious.
if you want the real answer just dare to ask him why he wanted to go to his place.
I have had many girls over for dinner at my house, it's really up to them. I'm pretty open about these discussions and understand completely. I just enjoy their company on many levels. Do you have some form of idea that he's going to tie you up and ravage you? Maybe you just don't trust him? Age has a lot to do with these things older guys are pretty layed back about these things and tend to let the girl decide on how she wants to go. If you don't want to have dinner at his house for whatever reason he should at least make some very spontaneous reaction to be better venue than a typical boring dinner date.
sometimes cooking for someone as a date can be really fun and just because you are at his house you do not have to have sex or do anything you are not comfortable with yet, if he doesn't understand that then you should find a better guy anyway
So long as you feel comfortable I wouldn't worry too much
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Personally, I would not invite nor accept and invitation to my girl's place on the second date. For me, there's still a lot I would be processing about her and how we match etc.
However, if you are comfortable or have a history with this guy as a friend then do it.
The man does want sex. Its pretty obvious and a bold move on his part. It is better to go out to a public place with this dude. Whatever you decide just be careful.
I feel like that more just means he's comfortable with you than a red flag... it sounds like you are looking for reasons that this relationship will fail though... and maybe that fact in and of itself is reason enough for you end it?
No, but this is a red flag...
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My first date with my ex was at my house and we did not have sex until 2 weeks after. So not necessarily but probably yes.
He could be trying to impress with some high level cooking skill and thats hard to do somewhere else.
If he is an exceptional cook, he may just want to impress you with that. Since not that many guys are, it is more likely he wants something else.
He may want to have sex, but that doesn't mean he just wants sex.
not necessarily hit it and leave. but he probably does want to hit it at least
"hit and leave" He might want to do that anyway. What are you gonna do? Why are you so scared? Maybe it's you who doesn't see the potential of the relationship
He obviously want to have sex with you, it's what dating is for. It's on him to ask, it's on you to decide when say yes. Dating someone without thinking about sex is pretty naïve.
no he just wants to be more comfortable around you. than again maybe he is a serial killer, who knows
honestly it's kind of a "hey I feel comfortable with this girl coming into my personal space" take it as he's opening himself up to you
When I invite someone to mine it's usually because I wanna get to know them and be more comfortable around them
He wants you to meet his patents, doesn't he
Hoe check
you're overthinking this far too much
No .
He wants sex
not necessarily
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