From my point of view confession of feelings is important rather than who should confess first. The reason is fear of rejection. We human beings (guys as well as girls both) have fear of rejection. Most of times feelings are from both sides. Just both are shy to #express their emotions.
It is mostly seen that guys express their emotions. We are in 21st century. The girls are performing well in all the fields like STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics). The girls feel that guys should take the move. I agree that guy should take the move. We should also take into consideration that it's always better idea for girls to approach the guy. Who knows the good luck come to both of persons.
It depends on the guy. Some feel good. Some reject the girl rudely. Some accept the proposal. Some ask for time to think. Depending on the guy and his behavior. We should not generalize.
If the person is having courage to love someone then he/she should also show maturity and handle the rejection.
Show some signs to the guy to whom you love. See his response and then approach him. Let him think whatever he wants to think otherwise in future you will regret that you lost a good opportunity.
All the best.
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Both should confess, no point in playing secrets and wait for the other to notice you.
You have the choice of confessing and be successful or rejected or wait for a miracle and regret it once you realize you'll never see him/her again.
I doubt anyone would think of it weirdly unless they're immature or you've done it in a very "Unique" and embarassing manner.
Either can, but I had a crush on a guy a while back and I was too shy to mention it. Couple months later, we were talking and we got onto the topic of who we used to like and I admitted first and he was really happy but kinda disappointed cus turns out he was feeling the same way at the same time, but we were both too shy to say anything. So from my experiences, you gotta risk it for a biscuit cus chance is, he might like you back but you'll never find out unless you go out there and try.
There's no reason girls can't confess. If you like someone and want to tell them then do it. Gender shouldn't matter.
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No one should confess any feelings yet unless you two are already a couple. Just give it time, talk, ask questions about each other, go out and have fun with just the two of you to see if there is a vibe.
Boys shouldn't confess, they should go for the kiss, confessing will just seem awkward and "needy" to the girl. Girls can confess no problem.
just do it as soon as you´re sure about it yourself. your gender doesn´t matter. you don´t find a meaningfull relationship every day. why waste chances by waiting cause you think they should do it?
Whoever likes the person.
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If I like him he will confess to me
That makes no sense whatsoevergeneral tradition is boys proposing as girls have more fear of their self esteem of being rejected so they don't prefer proposing
Whoever has the guts to do it first. Or the lack of patience to wait.
Just remember when you are doing nothing he might gets another girl. My ex asked me first and i must say else i wouldn't have noticed her. So i think there is no problem to ask him.
Not if you frase it like I'm going to a action movie or sum movie they like an say I got an extra ticket do you want to go if no then take a friend
Anyone, but if that person is shy then it could be a waiting game.
I don't really mind if girls confess first
It can go either way.
I don't think it matters. much who does it first.
doesn't mater. who did the wrong? they should
I see nothing wrong in telling a guy that I like.
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