My boyfriend is perfect but I'm not ready to settle down?

[Anonymous]

This is really selfish but I feel really young, he is 6 years older than me and he wants to settle down, I love him and I'd love to have kids with him but also i just don't feel like I've seen the world or dated enough, he is the first guy I've been this serious with and i don't know what to do. What would you do?

[Neyila]

settling down doesn't mean having kids straight away. travel the world and explore together. regarding 'dated enough', why would you want to if you have found the perfect guy? if you want to go out and date more, then you don't deserve him, because he's obviously not good enough for you to make you stay.

[Asker]

You are right 💖 I don't know why I feel so scared haha

[Anonymous]

give him to me. he is not worth being wasted on you.

[Opinion Owner]

tasting different shapes and shades of cock won't make you any more fulfilled in life. human development is not about selfishness is about what you offer to your fellow humans.

[southboy]

well u Côme to me

[Asker]

Hey um mine. Well I'm not really looking to sleep around, just meet more people

[southboy]

Nice to meet u but i am hère if u need

[Opinion Owner]

the unwise try to find the problem in others. the wise knows she only has to fix and advance herself. im not implying you should stay forever with the first man you find, just saying if he is goos there is no reason it won't work. only reason will be your head. if redflags exist, and core beliefs and life goals aren't alligned, and the structure won't hold in the longterm, then find someone else.

[Anonymous]

stay with him and don't ruin it
sleeping around is not attractive and would just mess up what you really want

[Asker]

I didn't mean sleeping around just the ability to get to know someone else on that level

[DizzyAster]

Break up, see the world, find another guy to settle down with.

Ain't nobody got time for that.

[Brutal_Honesty]

how long have you been together?

[Asker]

A year

[Brutal_Honesty]

definitely way too early to settle down!!

[Girlie15]

I'd settle down with him.

[AzureGirl]

Tell him how you feel. He should understand.