Long story short- so I’ve been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years now, we are late 20’s and live at home.
He’s from a more traditional European family that doesn’t like sex before marriage or even living together unmarried, my family don’t care at all.
The issue is that we both want a future but he won’t commit fully to it... he says he does but doesn’t know how to leave his parents and they make him feel guilty.
They are older and he worries about who will look after them etc, but how are we supposed to have a life of our own?
We’ve spoken about what we both want and expect and he talks but I don’t see any action, he knows I’d like marriage and kids one day and we want to move in together soon but I’ve said to him I don’t think it will happen when he won’t fully commit to me... what do I do?
He’s from a more traditional European family that doesn’t like sex before marriage or even living together unmarried, my family don’t care at all.
The issue is that we both want a future but he won’t commit fully to it... he says he does but doesn’t know how to leave his parents and they make him feel guilty.
They are older and he worries about who will look after them etc, but how are we supposed to have a life of our own?
We’ve spoken about what we both want and expect and he talks but I don’t see any action, he knows I’d like marriage and kids one day and we want to move in together soon but I’ve said to him I don’t think it will happen when he won’t fully commit to me... what do I do?
