This is way too controlling. To be fair I'm guessing she's 18 too so she's probably had little experience with relationships. I think a lot of girls are that way until they really get what the real world is like vs some romance novel or movie bullshit.
She's insecure is my guess. No matter WHY she's acting this way there's no excuse for it.
She has no right to tell you what you can and cannot watch. Once she gets away with that its going to turn into what you can or cannot do. Who you can or cannot spend time with, and that's even I you're allowed to spend time with anyone but her.
You need to talk to her about this and tell her no. I'm almost always the one going on about compromising but this? There is no compromising here. You can't let her dictate this kind of stuff.
She's going to fight you on it I'm sure. She's going to tell you how it makes her feel. You can't tell her how she should feel but you can tell her how it makes you feel. Hint: it makes you feel like she doesn't trust you and that she is trying to control you.
This isn't what a normal relationship is like. Don't stay in this relationship if she can't ease up.
Women vary on what they will tolorate from their boyfriends but I've NEVER heard of this.
When i was 15-16 i was sort of the same. I didn't want my boyfriend looking at naked women on tv. It didn't work. Lol But it really upset me. I was very insecure. She will grow out of it eventually... most likely. You can try talking to her about it. Dont let her be the boss. Just tell her she needs to get over it. Its her you're wanting. All those women are just part of a show nothing more. (Idk American Horror story had nudity.) You should watch Game of Thrones just to piss her off. Lol Im just kidding. Kind of. Its so good. she's being ridiculous. Just when there's a nude scene and she's around school your expression so she doesn't think you're getting worked up. Lol Or break up with her if its a really big problem that won't change.
Tell her that she can't go out in public in case she see's someone more attractive then you. Her groceries can be delivered (and left at the door in case the delivery boy is hot). She can converse with women, but they can only come over if they're less attractive then you so your girlfriend isn't tempted to stray to the other side.
If she doesn't like that idea she should stop being an idiot and realise it's a television
She is being hella controlling and insecure. You need to shut that shit down IMMEDIATELY.
You need to talk to her about it, that's extremely controlling, may have some serious jealousy issues, and that's somewhat of a red flag. Although if she's about the same age as you, that's not completely unexpected.
Talk it through, either come to a compromise you're both happy with or consider ending it, because if you tolerate this it'll set a precedent for future behaviour and what she can get away with, if you're not happy with this kind of diminished freedom its best to get out sooner rather than later - even if that's a hard decision, it won't get any easier.
You need to talk to her about how it makes you feel. There might be an underlying reason for her being this way. If she is controlling just for the sake of being in control then it will get worse. She could not want you to, go a lot of places because of how people dress. Examples: The beach because of bikinis and skimpy one pieces swimsuits. The mall, a fair, a festival, a concert etc because women could wear crop tops, simply shorts, smipy skirts, skimpy dresses etc. She would flip out. Talk to, her then go from there.
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Although I think that's ridiculous, talk to her and ask her why.
If it's not outright porn, then she shouldn't have too much of an issue with it. Besides, she's not your wife. Not yet, anyway. If she wants to be particularly bossy about making sure you only see her naked, then she should earn that right first.
That being said, if she looked anything like the stock photo you posted, and were mine, I'd make a point of filtering my content more stringently, so that no one else can slip me anything.
It depends on why she does not want you watching it. Jealousy maybe, prude not worth getting caught over, religious don't push your luck, just playing odd live with it.
Honestly it is not worth crossing your girl over for what ever reason you want to see it.
As I said before in a question it depends like if you are watching a tits and ass show yes she can complain but ordinary shows I have been rewatching Game of Thrones from the start, that definitely would fail her criteria and you would have missed a great show.
Simply the fact that it means no Game of Thrones is a no go :D
But seriously, talk to her about it. It is of course a sign of insecurity, but she should not forbid you to watch TV shows because of nudity.
That sounds ridiculous.
Me and my family ie siblings and parents watch shows like GOT together and a few other shows with nudity and stay relatively unphased.
Thats family where its understandable pepole finding it awkward and embarrassing this how ever is you girlfriend so it really shouldn't be.
I'd dump her on the spot, that's absurd. That just leaves you with G rated movies and shows, but don't watch Spongebob Squarepants it's full of sexual innuendo. How would anyone know that a movie or show is going to contain nudity? A few PG-13 movies/shows do contain nudity.
Lol i am betting she is your age as well. It makes her feel insecure about herself, i have seen it before. Usually with age these girls will eventually be okay with it but for now if you want to stay with her i suggest you don't watch that material at least with her not around.
Uh yeah, that's not up to her. You need to tell her that it's not up to her. If she gets upset, simply explain that you aren't trying to hurt her feelings but she's allowed to watch what she wants, and you're allowed to watch what you want. Simple. Good luck.
Wait till she finds out about your porn, LOL!
Seriously, l agree with @Bliss-taylor.
Well that pretty much 80 percent of movies or tv shows to be honest. Even I don't have the intentions of watching anything sexual most of the time but love scenes make their way in.
It's not porn and I doubt you are jacking off to it.. but anyway that seems a bit extreme. Maybe you should talk to her about why it makes her feel uncomfortable to let you watch it.
Man ! Porn is an industry ! It's managed at every frame. Your girlfriend is demanding you to stay away from unreal and concentrate on the real. She is right. Clear those unreal acts and concentrate on real life
Because she has shy or she does mot want to show her body to u due to age or might she wnt it after marriage but u can force her because it might lead to break up or total sepration of life of both of u but i cn i know ur girlfriend age
Break up with that controlling b*tch and find a woman who wouldn't mind what you watch.
Right. Never let a woman dictate what you can and cannot do. This will not end well.
Over controlling people are so insecure they can't let go of their environment - they want to try and control it.
Consider this may not be a match.
Dude...
And what about Porn?
I mean...
Lose her! Quick!
Do it for yourself dude. She obviously doesn't care for you.
Just trust me on this one. You'll thank me later.
I guess she finds it ok to read 50 shades of grey and other erotic stuff.
I suggest you dumpah and you dumpah fast. This girl will always have irrational demands from you- You will see it soon enough. It won't stop with nudity in movies.
Seems controlling, you should be able to watch what you want, not live by someone elses rules.
Yes, you should be able to do so.
What she's doing is a red flag, it is controlling.
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