@Corerue True they also judge men based on race. Im sure women wouldn't want to date you if your race was portrayed as apu, taxi driver, tech support and "rape culture".
Then set your bar higher for yourself. Start working out, do something to change yourself to better yourself. Also, be more confident. I'm white af but I don't place myself in Nazi culture because I'm white. Nor does every woman I'd meet, they often judge by actions not just type alone.
Often times women pick up on your nervousness and lack of confidence. It's a major turn off. Self deprecating is not attractive. So do something to make you better and eventually you will meet a woman who want you for you. But being negative I'd not attractive man.
@Corerue Yes you are right it is all my fault and never women's. And tell me how can someone not be negative about himself when everyone around him is negative about him.
You are a white guy so you will never understand. You are portrayed as muscular dudes who save mankind from aliens etc meanwhile my race is portrayed as taxi drivers, nerds, etc.
Women don't judge you because you are white but they like to judge Indian men and put us all in the same group aka "creepy smelly pervert who harasses women" because if X amount of Indian men are assholes it means all Indian men are assholes.
Dude, I never said it was your fault. I'm saying stop judging yourself based off stupid stereotypes and whites are hated on a fair bit nowadays. I'm not muscular nor anything special. My kids get judged on their skin and they're not even seven years old.
If you live in America and think whites aren't hated on. News flash we're the devil, racist, etc. :(
Again, just focus on yourself, make yourself better and you will meet a girl who suits you. But negativity is a cancer. Gotta let it go and your right, I won't understand because I don't think that way about people/race.
I just see that we are all quick to judge each other and that's wrong. If you are around people who do that to you then that really sucks. It's hard to change that situation if it's at work but if those are friends then they aren't your friends.
Friends don't do that. wasn't trying to upset you, nor out you.
Also, what I said about confidence and such, is because I was like that. It took my wife to realize I was really hating on myself when I didn't need to.
@Corerue Ok look at the movies. Do you see any attractive Indian men in the movies? Why is there no Indian marvel superhero. Ever watched deadpool? In the opening scene the hero deadpool is in a taxi with a stereotypical Indian. There is no positive representation of Indians in the media.
at least you white guys have captain America, brad pitt, and (insert all hollywood actors here) to represent you. And who do I have to represent me? Rajesh from big bang theory? kumar from harold and kumar? Apu from the simpsons? The sikh turban guy in every taxi scene in every movie?
TruthOfCoral If you're on the home page of the app. At the very top is a + sign. Go ahead and push that. You can ask your own question there. Ok thank you.
this is where we get into intelligence now people! I want you to ask yourself the question I just asked you, go ahead, maybe, just maybe you will get the answer yourself because women and men are not two extremely different kinds of people, like we both have so many common interests, men get lonley and so do women, men want money oh hey so do women, that girl over there is looking for a relationship to feel loved? oh hey so is that guy! like even wikipedia could have answered this question so simply and we all know how it isn't very much of a factual place known for being right. but why bother asking something so pointless when you can easily ask yourself in reverse about it and get your answers. now tell me how a 37 year old needs to ask this question because you should be old enough to know for yourself that we are all human and everyone is looking for something.
I so agree with you. You shouldn't even need to explain yourself here since what you meant was very obvious!! I honestly don't know what is wrong with her but since she's asking the question it must be because she herself hate women, prettier than her women XD
Most of them are stuck between a rock and a hard place. They want to improve themselves but they don't know where to start, how to start there, or why they should start in those places. They're trapped in a way and the frustration builds up until it turns to bitterness.
Now, do I commend the things they say? No. But I can relate to the sentiment. Information and insight into how a guy can work on himself to boost his success is hard to come by. Note that I'm talking about the clear, honest and constructive stuff. It's pretty rare right now to find a woman who both understands women better than most other women, as well as speaks fluent Dude. Hell, I had to really dig for years before I started to figure out what I'm innately geared towards as a lover.
For other guys though? It's a constant battle between how much they want help, and how dissatisfied they are with the available help. If I hadn't busted my ass scrapping up all the insight I could and connecting certain dots, I'm sure I'd be like them.
So they don't stop simply because they have a place they want to reach. They don't really hate women ((generally)). It's really just self-frustration.
What you're describing is typically completely unrelated. Normally when a guy is putting up such a front, he'll appear to not care at all. If anything, he'll seem even more confident with women rather than bitter about them.
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I only date tomboys, but I'm with friends with girly girls as well
I wish I could have a woman but Im ugly so that will never happen.
Never say never, not every woman is going to judge based on looks alone. So keep looking.
@Corerue
True they also judge men based on race. Im sure women wouldn't want to date you if your race was portrayed as apu, taxi driver, tech support and "rape culture".
Then set your bar higher for yourself. Start working out, do something to change yourself to better yourself. Also, be more confident. I'm white af but I don't place myself in Nazi culture because I'm white. Nor does every woman I'd meet, they often judge by actions not just type alone.
Often times women pick up on your nervousness and lack of confidence. It's a major turn off. Self deprecating is not attractive. So do something to make you better and eventually you will meet a woman who want you for you. But being negative I'd not attractive man.
@Corerue
Yes you are right it is all my fault and never women's.
And tell me how can someone not be negative about himself when everyone around him is negative about him.
You are a white guy so you will never understand. You are portrayed as muscular dudes who save mankind from aliens etc meanwhile my race is portrayed as taxi drivers, nerds, etc.
Women don't judge you because you are white but they like to judge Indian men and put us all in the same group aka "creepy smelly pervert who harasses women" because if X amount of Indian men are assholes it means all Indian men are assholes.
Dude, I never said it was your fault. I'm saying stop judging yourself based off stupid stereotypes and whites are hated on a fair bit nowadays. I'm not muscular nor anything special. My kids get judged on their skin and they're not even seven years old.
If you live in America and think whites aren't hated on. News flash we're the devil, racist, etc. :(
Again, just focus on yourself, make yourself better and you will meet a girl who suits you. But negativity is a cancer. Gotta let it go and your right, I won't understand because I don't think that way about people/race.
I just see that we are all quick to judge each other and that's wrong. If you are around people who do that to you then that really sucks. It's hard to change that situation if it's at work but if those are friends then they aren't your friends.
Friends don't do that. wasn't trying to upset you, nor out you.
Also, what I said about confidence and such, is because I was like that. It took my wife to realize I was really hating on myself when I didn't need to.
Was just speaking from experiance.
Peace.
@Corerue
Ok look at the movies. Do you see any attractive Indian men in the movies? Why is there no Indian marvel superhero. Ever watched deadpool? In the opening scene the hero deadpool is in a taxi with a stereotypical Indian. There is no positive representation of Indians in the media.
at least you white guys have captain America, brad pitt, and (insert all hollywood actors here) to represent you. And who do I have to represent me? Rajesh from big bang theory? kumar from harold and kumar? Apu from the simpsons? The sikh turban guy in every taxi scene in every movie?
Because we like them.
Good answer. 👍
why do women bother with men anymore?
You beat me on this one. Truth
well she's asking something that can be answered easily with a gender flip
Nicely done sir!
TruthOfCoral If you're on the home page of the app. At the very top is a + sign. Go ahead and push that. You can ask your own question there. Ok thank you.
this is where we get into intelligence now people! I want you to ask yourself the question I just asked you, go ahead, maybe, just maybe you will get the answer yourself because women and men are not two extremely different kinds of people, like we both have so many common interests, men get lonley and so do women, men want money oh hey so do women, that girl over there is looking for a relationship to feel loved? oh hey so is that guy! like even wikipedia could have answered this question so simply and we all know how it isn't very much of a factual place known for being right. but why bother asking something so pointless when you can easily ask yourself in reverse about it and get your answers. now tell me how a 37 year old needs to ask this question because you should be old enough to know for yourself that we are all human and everyone is looking for something.
I so agree with you. You shouldn't even need to explain yourself here since what you meant was very obvious!! I honestly don't know what is wrong with her but since she's asking the question it must be because she herself hate women, prettier than her women XD
Can you perhaps explain a bit deeper?
I'm asking because I'm disgusted at the over whelming bitterness men project on to women. I'm curious to why not just give up?
Most of them are stuck between a rock and a hard place. They want to improve themselves but they don't know where to start, how to start there, or why they should start in those places. They're trapped in a way and the frustration builds up until it turns to bitterness.
Now, do I commend the things they say? No. But I can relate to the sentiment. Information and insight into how a guy can work on himself to boost his success is hard to come by. Note that I'm talking about the clear, honest and constructive stuff. It's pretty rare right now to find a woman who both understands women better than most other women, as well as speaks fluent Dude. Hell, I had to really dig for years before I started to figure out what I'm innately geared towards as a lover.
For other guys though? It's a constant battle between how much they want help, and how dissatisfied they are with the available help. If I hadn't busted my ass scrapping up all the insight I could and connecting certain dots, I'm sure I'd be like them.
So they don't stop simply because they have a place they want to reach. They don't really hate women ((generally)). It's really just self-frustration.
Do you think a lot of guys are putting up a front because they don't want to get hurt?
What you're describing is typically completely unrelated. Normally when a guy is putting up such a front, he'll appear to not care at all. If anything, he'll seem even more confident with women rather than bitter about them.
But do a lot of guys do that? Yes.
I can only speak for myself, and I never bothered with them because they don't bother with me.
Fair reason.
sex? food clean socks
I'm attracted to women and still date them but I don't bother with marriage anymore and I feel free.
because girls make our penises seem influential.
We still want them. Unless they're feminists
Not all women are feminists. I think feminists are ruining a mans perspective of women. Thank you for seeing the difference.
Because I can't suck my own dick
Hahaha Aahhh hahahahahahaha aahhh hahahahahahaha
I hope it's because we are worth the trouble.
Men are just as troublesome as women. Lol just in different ways, in my opinion. But it's called life. You can go it alone or with a companion.
Hahaha, @KatherineJ! Yes, you are worth the trouble. Totally worth it. I just hope we're worth the trouble, too.
^ what he said lmao
no trouble at all,,
That's just it. Men are just as much of a pain as women are. But a good person is worth the pain.
I don't
Good
Cuz why not
tried once and stoped there
Ummm... Sex. Duh
Is that all?
Nah, I mostly deal with dancers.
why not