Depends if swearing is common in your culture. Some people are brought up swearing like sailors.
It's the "you" part after fuck, makes it seem so much more directed compared to "off". You two shouldn't be fighting that much in the first place for it to happen on multiple other occasions though, i'd suggest sitting down going through your issues together like adults to prevent further fights.
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Yes, it was disrespectful to say that to your girlfriend.
If she's saying it as well, then that's disrespectful to you as well. But that said. If you don't say that to her, would she say it back? If you decided now that you weren't going to do it and next time you had an argument she said it, but you decided to continue to be calm and respectful. How would things go differently?
If either of us say that it's usually the end of the argument because there is only one person left in the room... Sometimes things just get that frustrating that's all you have to say but this shouldn't be a regular occurrence... that really isn't healthy. Me and my OH both know that saying that to the other person means we're really serious, it isn't taken lightly.
I don't get why people think its ok to tell people fuck you and fuck off even in a fight. Its just not necessary, not helpful and is disrespectful.
I say leave that bitch.
You are fighting “bad” you say
She is a hypocrite you say
So, why stick with her?
That may be okay for a guy-on-guy argument, but saying it to a girl is really bad.
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Just agree to both make an effort to fix it. But people get angry sometimes, and that means that certain phrases are going to come out in certain situations. So acknowledge that you both do it and try to change
You should never speak to your woman like that. Conversely why would you want your woman to speak with to you like that so demand respect and give her respect. My last girlfriend cussed at me I cut her loose.
Lmao she got her feelings hurt. If you guys fight a lot just break up
It is a mean thing to say - but if she says it too, then I don't get the issue.
Stop fighting, deal with it and move on. Together or apart.It's not that bad because she says it too. If she wasn't saying it that would be bad.
I don't think it's normal.
If she says "fuck you" or "fuck off" to you, you don't stoop low and do the same. Take the higher ground.I would say it's okay at best. But you should definitely explain whay you cursed at her wen the mood is more calmed
A bit of double standards if she is saying " F you/off" - Possibly you are disrespecting each other
She can say that to you but you can't. Dont hurt her
If you do it it's normal. If it's out of character then it's not normal.
If she can hit you with a bat you can hit her with a bat. Equality.If you can't discuss issues like adults and resort to insults and anger, then consider it may just not be a match. People in love don't do this.
If it were me I would feel disrespected as well.
Instead of saying fuck you, you should have actually fucked her.
Ask her why it's okay when she says it, but disrespectful when you do.
Hmm that would be on the nicer side of what we say to each other in a heated argument 🤔
It would show you respect each other if you did NOT say that to each other
no you werent disrespectful. it is not big deal to say it
It's normal. She's also being a hypocrite.
It's Fine, Dw👍
Sounds like a toxic relationship.
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