Would you date someone with vitiligo (leukoderma)?

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dangerDoge · Accepted Answer

I don’t think this is really an automatic yes or no question. But if you’re asking if vitiligo is a deal breaker, I’d say no.

Ultimately, “dateability” boils down to two things: physical attraction and attraction to their personality. One cannot be dateable to me if they have one but lack the other. Although some people may claim to be 100% personality focused, I cannot claim to ignore physical attractiveness and focus solely on personality. I would like both in a potential partner.

Going back to the topic at hand, if someone has vitiligo, I apply the same standards as I do to everyone else. If I find her attractive and I like her personality, I consider her a dateable person. If I like her personality but don’t find her attractive, I consider her good friendship material, but the romantic attraction wouldn’t be there/wouldn’t be the same. (Hence, not dateable)

That is why it’s not quite an easy yes/no answer. Each person with vitiligo is going to look a bit different. However, I don’t think (from what I know of it) vitiligo wouldn’t really deter me. That isn’t a 100% generalization— some people do look less attractive to me with vitiligo... but generally speaking I think it’s fine.

NineBreaker · Accepted Answer

Absolutely! I have no problem with it at all. To me, it actually looks unique. It's an autoimmune condition that is among the least problematic, and it's not contagious, so it's not a big deal.

I think the only serious precaution someone with vitiligo should take is against sun exposure of affected areas of the skin.

LLils · Accepted Answer

Personality. It's the same as asking would you date a fat or a thin person. That's irrelevant to me as long as I like their personality.

snowshy · Accepted Answer

Of course I would. I wouldn't have any baring on our relationship or love

LunaJ · Accepted Answer

no.  but if it'd turn out only later that he has it, i wouldn't mind.

PrincessPie · Accepted Answer

Sure if i still found there features and them in general attractive :)

TheUglyMonk · Answer

I can date someone with almost any disease if I really like them but I wouldn't have kids with them (depending on the disease) no offense but I wouldn't want the kids to be born with diseases and you know how kids with diseases are treated by other kids; wouldn't want that on my kid now, would I?

RuthAnn1781 · Answer

Yeah, it's not a big deal. It's actually kinda cool. Besides, if I really liked a person then I wouldn't wanna miss out on being with them because of something as silly as skin

1SkraaBoi · Answer

Yes. I mean, it's just skin. I care about the inside more than the outside, as should everyone else. I feel like this world would be a better place if people judged each other based on the inside bs looks and appearances.

robske · Answer

It’s not always about appearance
I think I’d have more difficulty with a girl who simply doesn’t present herself as neat

Like doesn’t shower and carries a smell that makes birds fall out their trees

Astronautalophitecus · Answer

Absolutely, my English teacher has it on her arms and the back of her neck and I find it very sexy. Maybe I have a fetish lol.

jtr135 · Answer

Yes, of course. This is absolutely not a problem for me. It doesn't determine her value or her personality, and she can still be beautiful. Thank you for asking ;)

Cuteusernamehere · Answer

I'm obsessed with small details and I would find the different lines and tones fascinating.

LionBill · Answer

Depends, I probably won't want to date any girl with vitilogo, but its not something that bothers me.

JDavid25 · Answer

Yeah, I would.. If they looked good to me regardless of the condition..

PandaMania · Answer

... I don't get it... it's not contagious... why would this be a bad thing?

Schrodingerscat · Answer

I'm not hung up on looks as most people are. So sure, I would do it

Anonymous · Answer

Would take a while for me to get used to it, but it's not a deal breaker.

Franitz · Answer

If she looked like the chick on that picture hell yeah.

Smegskull · Answer

Had to look it up. Yes, I care about shape not colour.

jon28805 · Answer

Yes I would date someone with that... it wouldn't bother me.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

I don't see that as any sort of a problem.

Helena26 · Answer

Yes but he should hit the spots. No pun intended

Hans222 · Answer

If I love her? Totally yes :D

fauchelevent · Answer

Sure, that doesn't bother me.

mattmanyah · Answer

depends on their personality

weilejosh · Answer

Depends on personality and how bad it is.

HamAndCheese · Answer

No maybe option? Come oooooooooooooooooon...

Dxk007 · Answer

No problem, actually it looks kinda cool.

Wonderingfool · Answer

if they were hot

woooooooo · Answer

no and I'll stick with that

MyAtlantis · Answer

Sure.

alice55 · Answer

I wouldn't

cinderelli · Answer

yeah sure..

TheChocolateWriter · Answer

Yeah.

Decentguy · Answer

Sure i would

cupidkisses · Answer

Yes.

Juxtapose · Answer

Sure, why not?

Insanyx12 · Answer

Yes of course

Tohru · Answer

What Is that

Anonymous · Answer

Yessssss

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