Would you date a girl who slept around with douchebags in the past but now wants a nice man who'll take care of her and not judge her?

[Anonymous]

Or should i just not tell t he guy i'm seeing that i slept a lot in the past?

Would not date

Will date

I prefer experienced girls like yourself over girls who haven't had sex

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+1 y

TIL most men are desperate and will settle for any girl who shows any interest in them even is she fucked a 100 dicks before them.
Lack of self respect is unattractive as fuck.

[JulieXO]

If he asks I think you should tell him. Sleeping with guys is not something you should be ashamed of. I think it's actually better to sort of enjoy the freedom and fun while you're young, so that when you want to settle down you will have lived a little. If the guy doesn't accept you for who you are, he's not worth it in my opinion.

[Asker]

I've been fucked by every other man in the room, everyone in the room has fucked my boyfriend's girlfriend (me), while by boyfriend hasn't fucked anyone else's girlfriend, they all have fucked his girl, he's nothing special?
You get what i'm saying?

Of course i'll be ashamed of myself, i'm used goods.

I just wish someone would've told me not to let men use my body and save my treat for one special man.

[Miristheiss]

LOL
"Worth" It's not that the two have different value systems and just aren't a compatible couple... no that's not it. It's that the sleep around, give away person is some awesome catch and better than the women who reserve sex for special relationships and the guys who don't want the "been around" woman aren't "worth" it.

Sure, what ever makes you feel better.

[JulieXO]

@asker I really don't get what you're saying

@Miristheiss I'm not trying to make myself feel better. I just think that if the guy is judging me by something like the number of my past relationships or sexual partners, I don't think he's worth crying over cause it wouldn't have worked anyway.

[digitalscrawl]

it'd be a pleasure to be in a room with a girl like this

[Asker]

I get what you're saying, but the men who accept me for my past are always those desperate unattractive dudes who haven't had a lay in a while, the type of men i want bail immediately when they learn about my past.
It's not about whether they're worth it or not, the men i think are worth it never seem to want me when they find out more about me, they know their worth and they don't settle for anything less than they want.
These men are disgusted by my past.

[digitalscrawl]

isn't the sex better if the other person is good at it

[HeAintMe]

@digitalscrawl I don't know about you but i don't want anyone else's dick up my girl, that pussy is for me and me only.

[Asker]

@HeAintMe I wish guys with your kind of mentality found me attractive, but they never do.

[digitalscrawl]

that's when they cheat

[Miristheiss]

Sorry but you made the choices. These are the consequences. I'm sure you'll find someone but your pool of men has be considerably diminished.

[SarahsSummer]

I’m sorry that you feel so damaged. Our past, both mistakes and accomplishments are what shapes us into who we are today. You yourself have learned you no longer want d-bags in your life. Continue your journey of learning and you will find the man of your dreams

[Asker]

the men i want bail as soon as they learn my count.

[SarahsSummer]

Get over it. It’s actually none of their business to know your “count”. maybe if you stop broadcasting your past and letting them know how ashamed you are, they’ll be able to maintain an attraction to you longer. Your insecurities are what may be turning them off, not that you’ve actually dated before they met you.

[Asker]

I don't broadcast, i was seeing a guy for several months and we were getting serious, he asked what my views on casual sex were?
I told him i was fine with it and to which he asked if i had participated in it?
I don't like lying so i came clean.
He just told me mine and his views aren't really compatible and he doesn't think we'll workout?

Even though he dumped me i don't think he's a bad person and i don't blame him..
If you were getting serious with a person wouldn't you want to a bit about them before getting exclusive?
I think it's fair for men to be concerned with how many i've been with, even if it means rejecting me.

[SarahsSummer]

Sorry you feel that way about yourself. There are actually plenty of men confident enough to not care if you’ve dated previously.

[Volvagia]

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[Miristheiss]

No, those are forever types of decisions she's made. There are too many available women out there, too many beautiful women who DO have the same views on sex as me. There is no reason to settle. What I want is abundantly out there, I just have to be patient and go for what I really want and not settle.

[ImMackFreeze]

depends, would I be dating her past or has she grown into a more mature woman? Depends on her character, her values and beliefs. Also if she lives those beliefs out, not just talks about them. I would if she was right, if she was not a good person for me then no.

[Deyoku]

If guy can't accept the way you are in the present he is not worth it. I wouldn't care if girl had active sex life before, if she fell in love me and I to her, ain't no way such thing ruins anything. Honest girls are awesome and well not like guys didint have sex or fantasies with other girls before relationship.

[Dimmu]

So when she was attractive she jumped from dick to dick , and now after she became a left over and ugly and no one wants her she wanna to have me as a prize

That's how it's , but women find different manipulative ways to shame men for having standards that get this type of women off

Women should take responsibility for their choices

[natrickk]

Well, considering how many people I've slept with it'd be hypocritical of me to judge someone for the same thing. So I don't.
Someone's worth is not defined by the amount if people they've slept with.

[Anonymous]

No I wouldn’t on principle. Now I’m not a “nice guy” and I sleep around, use women. But if I was a nice guy I wouldn’t date you on the grounds... that if I wasn’t good enough for you before, I shouldn’t be good enough for you now. If you were easy for other guys why should I treat you any different? You certainly don’t deserve to be treated with respect automatically. Yet you feel entitled to because of feminism right?

[thiagotf]

The past doesn't matter. But try to show your personality and good skills first. :) You sounds like a nice girl now a days.

[HiBye101]

Wait to tell him at a good moment. You could drop hints as well if you want, but be careful when doing it cause some guys don’t like that.

[Anonymous]

''date a girl who slept around with douchebags in the past''

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[SelfIsolated17]

No, I wouldn't accept someone who would have brushed me off before because I wasn't worth the time of day, just because she got bored of sleeping around with more attractive guys and only decided to settle for someone like me after the fact.

[Legiøn]

No. I won't be apart of her trial and error experiences.

[Asker]

Men who know their worth, i find them so sexy but unfortunately they're disgusted by my past.
The guys who're willing to settle with a girl are always desperate that i don't want anything to do with.

[Anonymous]

If she wants to put her wild days behind her, forget it.

If she wants a guy who is wild, fucks her senseless, and also has a great relationship, then I might be interested.

[normalice]

i prefer a girl who has enough experience to know whether or not we like the same things.

[boggboss]

As long as that life is done I see no problem ain't no one's judge

[Anonymous]

It's funny how you say most men are desperate and will settle for any girl who shows any interest, while so many women are complaining no guy will marry them because of their past. Interesting...

[NightOwl_23]

I would date you but, Im not sure you would find it socially acceptable to date me

[Dantheman101]

Unless he asks which he should not I would not say anything

[Anonymous]

Yeah you should tell him I'm dating a girl like that right now

[Cosytoasty]

Another male troll again ¬_¬

[Wi_Fi]

No no no no no no no ! I'm not falling for that.

[TheUglyMonk]

STDS? No thank you. No STDS? Maybe if I like you.

[WeirdoWerdo]

No..