I just got back from a 3 years stint studying in China and now that I am back I am struggling to find girls that I actually like. I would kill to find a nice white girl who acts like Chinese girls but its so freaking hard. Personally I would date Chinese girls if I was Chinese. Through experience though I have learned that the language, cultural, and distance barriers are much more pronounced then you would think. When your dating a girl who's family lives 7,000 miles away from your family things get hard as you can imagine. If I could meet an American girl that would be fantastic because all those barriers would be far less pronounced. I just can't for the life of me find good ones, in China half of the girls I met would invite me over to their house and make me delicious food, or leave me little notes and cute things like that to make me feel appreciated. American girls never do that, most of them I meet can't cook at all, I haven't had any go out of their way to make me feel special or appreciated (although it seems like I am expected to make them feel special), and its hard getting along with them because they are so opinionated, selfish, or a combination of them. Whats worse is that a large portion of the female population sleeps around, and drinks, 2 things that your average Chinese girl is extremely opposed to doing. It seems like its a bad thing to be more "feminine" here in America. The American girl idea of dressing up is wearing a short tight skirt and tanktop, which is just trashy, and then if you say "I think you look better wearing more modest attire" they get mad at you and go off on you about saying "You can't tell me what to wear" instead of changing things up to please their guy. I would gladly change my clothing for my girl if she didn't like it, and I would gladly act more masculine if thats what she wanted. But here it seems like its bad to change for your parnter. I know there are great American girls out there, but why is it so hard to find them?
1 day of walking down the streets of a Chinese city and I guarantee I will meet dozens of attractive young women who would be great people to date, but walking down the streets of an American city I just dont get that vibe from any of the girls.