Pros & Cons of dating a shy guy?

Xper 5 Age: 28

Pros: I can't think of any, I guess it can be funny if he make silly mistakes while being shy

Cons: the progress of the relationship will be slower until he start to man up or you take charge

You'll need to give him a chance at everything. If he's the nervous shy kinda type and he's trying to give you a hug or trying to hold your hand, give him some time because he will hesitate, or if he's trying to do those but slowly, just grab his hand and then give him a smile. But at some point you have to tell him to be more confident. Teach him.

JennaxPenn

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I am super inexperienced too, he initiates all of the dates which is super nice. He must like me lol. I will try too, when is it the right time to give him a hug? I definitely want to show him that I like him, but telling him is too boring. Maybe go in for a hug before we depart? He also laughs at my horrible horrible jokes hahahaha, I am trying to be outgoing but I am also a little shy. But I feel pretty comfortable around him.

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KSGML

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It's a right time when you think it's the right time. I was a shy nervous guy but when I manned up to ask a girl to be my girlfriend i also give her a hug before going home. So yes departing is a good time. But when you two are actually in a relationship, you can hug that person whenever you feel like it. You can literally do it anytime. I shoulda woulda could've but didn't cause I was too nervous to hug and now I lost that chance forever. So what I did was nothing, causing my relationship to be boring. All because I didn't have the courage to do anything. I don't want that to happen to you two. Don't be nervous, if you wanna hug him then hug him. He might make the same mistake as me if he's too nervous to do anything so keep in mind, take charge or give him chances. If he can't hold your hand because he's shaking like a maniac, tell him it's okay and have confidence.

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JennaxPenn

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Thank you so much for the advice, and yes you always have to tell yourself "YOLO" cause you never know.. I am glad I got a shy guy tho, shy people have deeper personalities and that's what I love. And yes, I seem that I can only be myself on the internet... behind a computer and when in real life I slack a lot and am missing out on opportunities for sure. But you helped me out, I am trying to be confident and break eye contact when I know he is uncomfortable cause he looks at me then looks away a few seconds later, But I make sure I am the last one looking :)

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KSGML

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If you have anymore questions feel free to ask. And make sure to stay happy, don't ever assume the worst.

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KSGML

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If you have anymore questions feel free to ask

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