When should the woman start initiating dates?

[Anonymous]

I've had 5 dates with a guy, all initiated by him. Basically, he asks me when will we be able to meet and I normally come up with an idea on what to do. However, when do you think it's appropriate for met to ask him out? I don't want to come over as needy or claiming. I also dont want him to think he is the only one putting effort.

[random56286]

It is appropriate for a woman to initiate a date the moment she feels like it. You'll be able to read his reaction. Some guys may be uncomfortable having a woman ask them out but others love it. I am one of the latter who likes a woman to initiate things.

[souEu]

I’m sorry to say this, but you’re acting stupid. There are no rules for it. If you like him, just ask him out. We don’t count the times we ask you out.

In fact, grab your phone right now, and invite him somewhere.

[Snuffy]

Whenever you feel like it. I'm too awkward to initiate the first move anyways, so I'd actually prefer it.

[Meninist]

ITS ALWAYS FUCKING APPROPRIATE.

Is it needy or claiming when he asks you out?

The notion that the women needs an “acceptable” time to ask a man out is utter lunacy, just ask him out if you like him and stop playing games.

[aftermydemise]

Whenever you want!

[Asker]

probably the best answer ever someone can give!