Does playing hard to get really work?

Does Playing Hard To Get Really Work?
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  • I don’t play hard to get, I don’t see the point. If i want someone/something, I show it so that the other person knows where they stand. If they’re not into me they’ll let me
    Know and neither of us will waste any time.

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  • Nope. If someone acts like they're not interested in me. I would assume that they aren't and move on.

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  • Guys are either really dumb or really smart when it comes to knowing who is and isn't attracted to us. Playing hard to get doesn't work, it just makes the dumb ones go away because they think you hate them, and it doesn't impress the smart ones because they can see right through it. If you like someone just be honest about it

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  • I asked my brother and he said "if a girl wanna play hard to get then she ain't worth my time I ain't on that shit, if you like me and I like you then what's the point of playing hard to get we could just be together, playing hard to get ain't cute". I agree with him.

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  • It does work to some extent and can create more passion/attraction but its still toxic behaviour.
    I think that playing hard to get is the reason why so many people feel lonely and sad.
    It's also not something nice to do, especially if you are a grown man/woman. If there is a person who shows genuine interest and wants to be serious with you then dont play games with that person.

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  • If you're playing hard to get for a short amount of time it's fine. If you're doing it constantly, it gets annoying. Think of it this way, when your boss yells at you for something stupid, you can tolerate it a bit. When it happens for the 100th time, you're probably extremely pissed.

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  • Never. I've went through this many times and never worked as the girl would show interest, then not show interest by staring at another guy, then show interest in me again and the cycle repeats.

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  • I've never played hard to get but if I wasn't interested in someone, they seemed to get more interested when I turn them down. I'm thinking yes.

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    • They are just testing how far will you go.
      Or they think evey guy can break into any girl. Which is stupid.

  • I lose interest and respect. I am also the type of person that wants what I want now, once I wait too long I develop a taste of something else.

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  • I don’t like it. I also don’t like it when a girl throws herself at me. Make me do the asking out and catering and being a gentleman. Just don’t play games with me. I hate that, have no patience for it. Deuces.

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  • Playing hard to get only works if the guy is really into you, and not willing to quit. Otherwise, is can lose you a good relationship.

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  • I think it generally works with a guy used to yes n not no but rarely if ever. mstly dsnt work but if you're faking it i think guys can sense that

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  • It pushes me away. I don't have time to play these games. LOL I have other women in line.

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  • Sometimes but it's only if that person is really into you.. other than that it just gets annoying and losing interest suddenly appears

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  • Not with me, no.

    Absolutely don't have time for silly games.

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  • Not usually. Especially when it's a guy playing hard to get

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  • It's all a game. You have to get your skills up and play well.

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  • It works on people who are more confident, alpha-ish from my observation but doesn't work at all on more timid-shy-introverted people.

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  • No, it just makes the girl look like a total bitch to me.

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  • I don't think so it's frustrating more than anything.

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  • Everything works when you're hot.

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  • Yes it does to an extent

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  • I think it's stupid lol

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  • yes it does.. trust me she will love you more :/

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  • I don’t know

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  • Not with me.

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  • it depends

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  • Sometimes. It is 50/50.

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  • Yes, but you know short time relationships.

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  • Not for guys.

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  • sometimes

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  • Yeah, to some extent.

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  • Nope. It makes me move on

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  • I don't know

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  • No just stop

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  • in my personal experience, yes

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  • Yes it does

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  • I know it wastes my time. From personal experience

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  • ima go with a maybe lol

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  • Terrible idea. Be real.

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  • Never ever dude
    don't be that guy

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  • No, it doesn't. Statistically, the majority of the time it makes you seem unfriendly and in that way undesirable for knowing beyond one night. The only aspect in which it has more success than just being friendly is when you want to have a one night stand and never see the guy again, that's the only situation it's better for. It creates a kind of "spite fuck" vibe. So if that's what you're looking for then go for it, otherwise just be a normal person.

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  • WIth women crave challenge, whether they admit or not. You better learn that now.

    Playing hard to get works well in the early stages.

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  • Wish it was easy to learn.

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  • Not for me. I find it annoying. I am 27 years old. If you are still playing those kind of games, I will find someone who is mature enough to talk and handle a situation like an adult.

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  • He played hard to get, and it worked. Eventually, I was exhausted.

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  • if a girl plays hard to get i immediately lose interest because i hate girls that think they are so great that you have to do everything in your power to get them. bitch you ain't special lol

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  • If a guy plays hard to get , usually to me it means he is annoyed with me and doesn't want me.
    I prefer the guy do the chasing , it's biologically wired that way , men chase women and women choose from than men that chase her. And there also has to be mutual attraction of course but you get my point. It may work for the woman to play hard to get ( not too much though until it seems like she isn't interested) but if a guy is playing hard to get to me it just means I'm being clingy if I don't forget about it and let him go.

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    • If a girl plays hard to get I'm dropping her. This also holds for true for if a guy plays hard to get with a girl unless she did it to him first. Same thing if roles were reversed. Basically, if you play a game WITH SOMEONE YOU LIKE, you don't deserve to complain about getting played by them.

  • no because while the bitch wants me tho chase her, im quit and going onto smashing like 10 next 1s

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  • Well I don't know if I would call it playing hard to get, but ignoring women seems to be the most effective approach to getting their attention, and keeping their interest.

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  • It depends on the guy really. Some men LOVE the thrill of getting a girl who claims she doesn't want him. Some men like me can usually see right through it and can tell when a girls into you or not.

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