How do you know if someone is in your league?

[Anonymous]

What ways can you tell if someone is in your league? What determines if a girl/guy is in your league?

[Rob199]

Easy if you're attracted to them or not. You could be attracted to one woman i might not be attracted to her and vice versa. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. And a lot to do with pheramones and body chemistry and a person's physical DNA and facial and body features. It all varies from person to person. Its like sushi some people like it some dont. But that's a general rule if a person is a homeless unshaved bum wearing filthy unwashed clothes hitting on an attractive woman like i seen a few times at the mall then you can't but help to feel bad for the poor woman being hit on and think to yourself guy she's clearly not interested save what little dignity you have left and walk away. But those situations are out of the norm. Majority of the time if you're attracted to the woman she'll be attracted to you. Unless a fat chick likes you and you dont have a fat fetish but once again a situation out if the norm.

[OlderAndWiser]

"In your league" is a limiting, self-defeating attitude. It is something that you tell yourself as a consolation when you simply weren't enough of a man to ask the girl for a date. In the meanwhile, the pretty girl is sitting at home on a Friday night because everyone thought she was out of their league and no one asked her out.

[Anonymous]

I honestly don’t know. There was one guy that I was insanely attracted to, but others said I was better looking than him, when I genuinely thought he was too good for me. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I guess it’s all just a matter of perception.
Also it’s not just based solely on looks, it’s about compatibility of personalities too, so I imagine that element impacts the variability of this too.

[Asker]

Why were you insanely attracted to him? Was it his personality or looks? It sounds like to me that there was something about his personality which got you even though he wasn't as good looking as you.

But in my opinion, leagues are 90% based on looks.

[Opinion Owner]

It was both! I know it was his looks too though because I felt it from the start before we had interacted much!

[Opinion Owner]

Plus he has a lot of traits that women find physically attractive. Tall, dark, handsome etc.

[Asker]

Oh okay, that makes sense.

[BestUserName100]

Ohhh lucky him so what..

[AquaBoo]

You. You determine whether or not a guy or a girl is in your league. You determine how you feel about that person. If you like somebody, go after them.

[BlueTears]

I don't believe in league's. It shouldn't matter what you look like or what that person looks like. I go off the person's personality.

[Eikz1000]

Ask them out and let them decide. Your opinion of yourself. may not be accurate and you could miss out on a great relationship by rejecting yourself before they do.

[KeyShinobi]

Ask them and find out lol leagues don't exist. Only the insecurities that put a cap to what you think you can pull off

[weaponsdude]

If you whip out you cock and she wraps her lip around it, she's in your league.

[Bandit74]

Depends on how attractive, intelligent, and wealthy they are.

[StableMind]

There are no leagues no-one is above or below anyone it boils down to personal preferences and confidence

[LegateLanius]

When you play baseball and they assign you to big league camp, you are in the same league as Derek Jeter.
Dating leagues don't exist.

[Jesus215]

Don't worry about that and just go for it. Rejection is only as bad as you make it to be. My motto is: "never regret the things you've done. Only the things you haven't.

[BestUserName100]

Just because they didn't reject you doesn't mean you are in their league. They are just faking.

[studDMuffF1n]

If you feel like a peasant and the other person doesn't even acknowledge you

[nick463]

The way they look, if your both the same ie both ugly then they are in your league

[sp33d]

if you insist on this league crap, in college, you're all in the same league.

[GrimReaperDX]

I dunno. I dont go in leagues cus my girlfriend is cute af and im not

[CuriousMufuxka]

Forget about leagues.. Concentrate more on attitudes.

[Anonymous]

When they're not superior to you in attractiveness, intelligence, & personality wise.

[jiothecat]

Anyone with a heart and genitalia is in your league

[Anonymous]

Hoes on my dick cause I look like Matlock
Bitch kiss my radio, yo' baby daddy is a mascot
Hoes on my dick, cause i'm white like Asher Roth
Bitches on my dick, cause my rims chop like applesauce

[mzgreko]

By what Pokemon they have

[Daniel96B]

There is no such thing as 'leagues'

[LasPlagas]

If she is a hot party girl and me a nerdy gamer

[galaxy_s14]

No such thing as a league

[outside_Toronto]

Talk to them

[kwikwi]

Just ask