Is it bad to leave a partner for someone better? (Page 2)

Question

If a better opportunity presented itself. is it ok to leave your current lover though the relationship is good and your partner love you so much you will end up breaking their heart. Is it ok to just leave or you should stay with your current partner and get to know the other person better before leaving?

Jessington · Answer

Why not just get with someone you really want to be with in the first place

Nobi-Wan840 · Answer

You don't deserve any men in your life. I hope he realizes how weak minded you are

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes cause the grass isn't always greener on the other side.

zaipei · Answer

I saay yes hypergamy sucks! what ruled your thoughts?

Anonymous · Answer

if you dump them just to find someone better why are you dating someone just to find someone better in the first place? look for your life partner first off so you save someone the heartbreak

scruby · Answer

Well, I will say it harshly the dude choose wrong partner, his fault for being blind and choosing you.

opurba · Answer

Yes dear... if u do so... u can expect same thing can be happen to u so... be well prepared mentally... or next one get married with her.

tattooedhandfet · Answer

If you leave strictly based on looks, you're shallow. J/S

harleydude202 · Answer

I would hate to be with a piece of crap who thinks like that to begin with...

Gingerguy33 · Answer

If your looking for someone new in a relationship then you shouldn’t even be in the relationship in the first place..

Acid74 · Answer

If your current one would be the right for you there would be no such question. Thinking of the second guy? Go for him...

Brand6n95 · Answer

Absolutely not, you only have one life so you must do everything you can to be the happiest you can be

IrishAyy · Answer

It's a free country but if you leave for someone better and they do the same to you you deserve it and it's your fault

TheWombRaider · Answer

No that is what life is about unless u have kids married and time money spent into it... if u just boyfriend and girlfriend no thats what dating is testing.

Hun9man · Answer

it gets complicated when there are other factors involved like children and houses and stuff. Otherwise it is important to be happy in your life and relationship.

sheikalana · Answer

Jumping from one relationship to another never ends well.

kaskas19 · Answer

Yes, it's wrong to just up and leave someone. Unless they did something worth leaving.

LowkeyLaufeyson · Answer

Well the bond between you and your current boyfriend has already weakened severely. Chances of a healthy relationship has decreased. Break up is the solution regardless of your decision about the better candidate.

Anonymous · Answer

No it is not okay if the relationship is good. All your reasons for wanting to leave will be a sham. In my case I was in an abusive relationship and I developed health issues so I left to save myself!

winterfox10 · Answer

Of course it's bad! Especially because you don't even know if the other person is actually better.

thottiana · Answer

Obviously the relationship is not good if you are leaving them for someone else.

Dylan0901 · Answer

If the relationship is right then there is no other guy. So if you want another guy take him cause it means you don't really love the first one

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not sure what to say...

This mentality is buried in a Womens mind.

It's just evolution, so you can't blame someone for wanting a better partner.

I will say that nobody is perfect and a relationship is about commitment.

theDarkangel12344 · Answer

If u will keep leaving for better then be ready to get alone for whole life as they will do same... Karma is a bitch... Whatever we do comes back to us too

killmyinnocence · Answer

People always look down on a person who care a lot... bitter truth..

BraveRecreation · Answer

Do it I say being selfish is a good thing most guys are dumb anyway.

SonyaLB · Answer

I think at the end of the day, you have to do what is best for yourself. If it is to find someone else, then that is the decision.

jeepersarekeepers · Answer

Never leave someone you love for someone you like because the person you like will leave you for someone they love.

VictorLove · Answer

Oh, that's a really tricky question, I think it's better to stay with the current person if you're good with it, but you mean "someone better" how? Is the physique better or the rest?

JimZo12 · Answer

It's either you stay and stop looking around, or you leave if you're not happy and then find another person. Other than that it's called cheating and what goes around comes around :)

Nerdvana · Answer

It depends on why you are in a relationship with someone?

asianfreak · Answer

If he or she adds no value to your life or makes you feel alone, then no.

imAMyth · Answer

Not if you consider it right if your partner leave you for someone better!

2opaz · Answer

No im not a piece of shit I agree with @CT_CD though

kenzyeissa · Answer

If you’re really love her you’re not going to break up or give on her imagine someone else love her? Are you happy with it?

DreamLife7 · Answer

If you don't want to be there then leave. Stop wasting the other person's time.

Kacka · Answer

if he loves, why u leave him? if u dont love him, why we even talk about it then

LuWe22 · Answer

If you are fair to your partner and tell him then It's okay

jesse1997 · Answer

It is if you actually call it "someone better" towards other people

Guanfei · Answer

No it's not. If that's what you do, it means you can't be trusted in any way.

anmol883 · Answer

If you r asking this then you should cause this means you ain't happy with your current

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Why would they be spending one on one time with another man/woman if they’re in a relationship?

Barrydekmar · Answer

I'm old-fashioned if you marry the woman you stay with the woman there's no such thing as divorce in my shoes

Anonymous · Answer

If you actually love your partner, you wouldn't even consider upgrading...

Anonymous · Answer

My girlfriend would have left me for better person anytime in past 4 years. But she didn't. Even i will not leave her for someone better looking than her. Totally depends on how much you love your current partner.

crazyjay87 · Answer

I wouldn't cause that means i gave u on someone that loves me

Seppelson · Answer

I don't think so. If the relationship is good there is no need to change

victoriagold · Answer

get what you deserve girlfriend

weaverman · Answer

If you think about leaving the relationship is not working

TheGlennMan · Answer

Women do... They stay with you just long enough until they find something they think is better

Slim57 · Answer

When I'm in a relationship no-one is better than my partner. Guess I'm just the odd one out

thomasans2 · Answer

Gotta go with your heart but sometimes things are not what they seem

GirlHere · Answer

End the relationship otherwise you ate really unfair to your Partner. I think it's like cheating

Cshmks8 · Answer

Get to know the other person some more. Take some time. Don't rush straight into it.

hugzy · Answer

You have one life only , very short at that... Everyone have the right to be happy!

gayskixxj · Answer

That means you don't love the other guy who you left

PolitesaurusPecs · Answer

How would you feel if you were discarded for someone "better"?

madpsychologist · Answer

The better partner also can leave you in future. Just do empathy

wingattebaby16 · Answer

no... esp if it is not good for you...

jessture · Answer

Women do it constantly so why not?

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