So I met this guy in one of my college classes at the end of September. We have this class every single day, and we didn't talk for like a month...but we found out we took the same bus and he lives really close to me (one apartment complex down from mine) so we started talking more. Then, he asked me out one day and I said yes. But he's more experienced than I am (he's had sex) and I'm Christian and I told him I want to save sex for marriage. But yeah..we just started dating two weeks ago and to me, we've moved kind of fast. One day we kissed, and the next, we were making out. And the day after that, he had his hand up my shirt and was fondling my breasts under my bra while we were making out. I kind of told him that I felt a little weird after that and he slowed it down a little.
I keep telling him this is a fling because I know he's going back to Australia at the end of March but he says he's serious about this relationship and wants to continue it when he goes back to Australia. But I'm extremely cautious about letting myself get involved with him mainly because 1) he's Christian 2) he's not a virgin 3) he's going back to Australia...but he keeps telling me he'll wait for me and asks me to wait for him. -_-
For some reason, I think this relationship is mainly physical for him...cuz the class that we took together...there were 3 other guys who also liked me and one of the guys was his really good friend and now they don't really talk because of me. His friend told me after we started going out that he thought I was the cutest girl in the class and he was going to ask me out but he instead told the guy I'm going out with to ask me out... but I don't know.
We just got out of school on Thursday for winter break (it's 3 weeks long) and he wanted to go somewhere with me for like 3 days. I thought that was moving kind of fast...cuz we just started going out. But he was like we should go to New York or Socal or something. I told him I probably couldn't though, and we'll probably go to San Francisco to hang out sometime next week, then go back to school and stay there for 2 days. Then I'll come back home and he'll still be there because he's exchange student.
Also, he parties and drinks and stuff. And he's smoked before. And I've never done either. He kind of seems like the bad boy type but not really? He doesn't really swear around me, but he told me it's because he tries not to when he's around me. But I even swear around him sometimes like once in a while...haha. He always calls me innocent and I call him shady :P and I say he's trying to corrupt me. And he has a tattoo of Latin words on his chest area. And he wears a leather jacket a lot, haha. And skinny jeans -_-
By the way, we're both Asian.
Tell me what you think!
I keep telling him this is a fling because I know he's going back to Australia at the end of March but he says he's serious about this relationship and wants to continue it when he goes back to Australia. But I'm extremely cautious about letting myself get involved with him mainly because 1) he's Christian 2) he's not a virgin 3) he's going back to Australia...but he keeps telling me he'll wait for me and asks me to wait for him. -_-
For some reason, I think this relationship is mainly physical for him...cuz the class that we took together...there were 3 other guys who also liked me and one of the guys was his really good friend and now they don't really talk because of me. His friend told me after we started going out that he thought I was the cutest girl in the class and he was going to ask me out but he instead told the guy I'm going out with to ask me out... but I don't know.
We just got out of school on Thursday for winter break (it's 3 weeks long) and he wanted to go somewhere with me for like 3 days. I thought that was moving kind of fast...cuz we just started going out. But he was like we should go to New York or Socal or something. I told him I probably couldn't though, and we'll probably go to San Francisco to hang out sometime next week, then go back to school and stay there for 2 days. Then I'll come back home and he'll still be there because he's exchange student.
Also, he parties and drinks and stuff. And he's smoked before. And I've never done either. He kind of seems like the bad boy type but not really? He doesn't really swear around me, but he told me it's because he tries not to when he's around me. But I even swear around him sometimes like once in a while...haha. He always calls me innocent and I call him shady :P and I say he's trying to corrupt me. And he has a tattoo of Latin words on his chest area. And he wears a leather jacket a lot, haha. And skinny jeans -_-
By the way, we're both Asian.
Tell me what you think!
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***I meant he's NOT Christian and I am...and yes, we would be sleeping in the same bed if we went on a trip together.
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