A guy is confusing me!! Help please! 😭😭?

[KezHarris]

Its been going on for months now. At the gym he used to flirt with me and pay me loads of attention. Then it slowly started getting less and less, now he just stares at me and doesn't talk to me unless i speak to him first.
I don't know what happened.
I suppose he stares at my bum a lot so he could have just liked my ass and thats it. I feel like shit at the moment cos he showed interest, but i asked him out casually today and he said "why me?", but then he rejected me for being too young!! Maybe he thought i was joking about asking him out. but the age thing makes no sense cos he knew my age months ago (im in england, the legal age is 16 and he's 20 years old)
I feel like he was stringing me along the whole time. Its weird cos i get a lot of guys call me attractive, but then i always get rejected by guys 😭😭 it makes me feel like im ugly or not good enough.
I've posted some photos of me to help you answer the question. He does stare at me a lot (the gym has loads of mirrors) so i thought that maybe he fancies me but, was to scared to ask me out, but now i dont think he likes me, its so confusing

He's not interested

He's too scared to ask you out

[FunkyMonkee]

You're FAR from ugly and have a killer body!! So, I seriously doubt that's it! Did he try making a play for you a few months ago? I'm thinking maybe he did and you kept not going for it and he got tired of trying and figures you're no longer worth the trouble anymore.
Are you any good with that guitar? I kick ass on drums.

[KezHarris]

Check out my guitar videos on instagram its @keziharris or on youtube: keziah harris

[KezHarris]

And thank you so much!! It means a lot to me!

[FunkyMonkee]

Cool stuff!! This was my last guitarist. He just died a year ago.
https://youtu.be/bOTI9K7oADs
And this is me on drums long before he joined the band.
https://youtu.be/PbxPw4_T1Cg

[KezHarris]

Thats amazing!! 😮😮

[FunkyMonkee]

If you mean, Pete, yeah! He was the best guitarist I've ever worked with! He had what could be called a phonographic memory. Once he learned how to play a song he could never forget it. That's why he was in 6 or 7 bands at the same time. A few years ago, he opened for The Monkees!!
If you meant my band's song or my drumming, thanks again!! There's a good bit more of our stuff on YT.

[KezHarris]

Yeah, you seem really cool

[FunkyMonkee]

Thank you!! I try! And back at ya!

[rapfan107]

Maybe he was just being friendly and you misread the situation and when is starring at you maybe he was just checking out your booty that's what guys do I'm the gym

[KezHarris]

Well, he did say to me "you jave a nice bum" and kept making lustful faces at me

[KezHarris]

Im sure if he was just being friendly he wouldn't be saying that to me 😂

[rapfan107]

Lol wow well I think he was hitting on you but he wasn't interested on dating you just your bum don't over think it

[KezHarris]

Yeah thats probably true

[rapfan107]

Yeah guys like that just want one thing from you. Don't worry about you'll find a guy that wants more than your bum lol

[KezHarris]

Yeah i hope so 😂

[rapfan107]

Oh you will trust me. You're a very attractive girl with nice bums that's gonna attack a lot more guys. If was your age is be interested. Just look at your fee so many thirty guys showing interest

[KezHarris]

Aw thanks :)

[rapfan107]

Nah 5 bucks and kiss compliments are not free ok jk😜

[KezHarris]

😂😂

[rapfan107]

Are you making fun of me 😠

[rapfan107]

Thanks girl😜

[BriaToWet]

Maybe he has a new gym crush? Or maybe he has a girlfriend now & can’t flirt anymore?

[KezHarris]

I asked him if he's got a girlfriend and he said no. His friends told me that he doesn't talk to other girls.

[azzntittiz]

Go away boy crazy Becky.

[jaejaeraa]

You can find someone better then that guy. Also cudos on you for asking him out.

[KezHarris]

Thanks. I asked him casually though. And he said "why me?" So maybe he thought i was joking?

[jaejaeraa]

If you aren't sure. Ask him again in a confidant tone and see his answer.

[KezHarris]

Yeah maybe. I think i'll wait until he shows interest. Or is uhat a bad idea?

[jaejaeraa]

That is a bad idea, find someone who's interested in you now. Today.

[KezHarris]

Oh. Thats hard. All guys do is stare at me and act weird. I dont thinj theyre that interested in me

[jaejaeraa]

Ask out the guys or gals you like. They'll love the initiative.

[Anonymous]

It's not that he's not interested, he's just probably not interested enough to invest any time into you. This can be confusing because most of the signs will be there.

[DesertCreature]

Meh move on, why waste time on someone who you have to so complex with on such a simple thing?

[Skali9119Liska]

You look great, I don’t know why he wouldn’t be interested 😉

[Just_A_Guy2018]

Once you are of legal age it will be different, you are to great of a risk.

[KezHarris]

In england, the legal age is 16!

[Just_A_Guy2018]

maybe so, but perception wise it is a total different beast.

[KezHarris]

Yeah maybe

[Just_A_Guy2018]

how long till you turn 18?

[KezHarris]

In December

[Just_A_Guy2018]

Let him know. Might lift his spirits and get things going again.

[KezHarris]

I told him but he still said that im too young

[Just_A_Guy2018]

That is his preference to have, just move onto another chap.

[KezHarris]

Yeah. And the weird thing is that he gets angry when i talk to other guys

[Just_A_Guy2018]

To bad for him, talk away and explore, have fun, dream, play.

[KezHarris]

Yeah lol

[James981]

You’re very attractive but you probably showed him you were easy to be with so he lost interest.

[KezHarris]

I never messaged him or talked to him first, until the last few days. I tried not to seem easy

[James981]

Well then he probably thinks you're not interested lol

[KezHarris]

Yeah maybe. But i casually asked him out today and sort of got rejected but he still stares a lot

[James981]

Then he’s a f***ing perv who has no self esteem and is shocked that you asked him out.

[KezHarris]

Yeah i think thats accurate! 😂👏🏻 I've finally figured him out. A pervert with no self esteem!

[James981]

Well there you have it😂😂

[James981]

I followed you too by the way

[KezHarris]

I followed u back!

[KezHarris]

Do u think i might still have a chance with this guy?

[Anonymous]

The amount of reasons why he doesn't want to makes it impossible to really know.

[stuie74]

What a waste to mess about, you are beautiful xx

[hotwheels83]

You are absolutely gorgeous!!

[FunnyFacts]

Ask him out instead

[KezHarris]

I already did, but he said "why me?" And then said that im too young for him even tho the legal age in england is 16!

[FunnyFacts]

Just wait for the right guy. You are young, just be patient.

[KezHarris]

Yeah thank you

[FunnyFacts]

Happy to help

[FunkyMonkee]

Tell him, "`Cause I wanna jump your bones!!!"

[KezHarris]

Yeah he probably just wants sex. Maybe i should ask him for sex 😂😂😂

[KezHarris]

Do you think there was a possibility that he thought i was joking or taking the piss when i asked him out?

[Ppolatt]

Can u follow me?

[azzntittiz]

Go away with your penis.