Help ASAP, confusing guy?

[kass03]

If you need to see the images clearer just ask:) (that’s my story)

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Here it is... And grabbed his stuff. I begged him not to leave and he said he had to work early in the morning. So I followed him outside and asked “I don’t understand why you get so jealous over guys.” And he said you don’t have to understand, he got in his car and left.

[kboy808]

Totally agree with the comments made by these gentlemen. Clearly he doesn't know what he wants. He wants you to himself while playing the field in my eyes. thats why he gets jealous and comes back when your with another guy, just to fend him off, get you hooked on him again then flee. Find someone who actually wants to be with you! You deserve way better and trust me there's always going to be someone better so please don't settle for anything less!

[kass03]

Do you think he’s into me? And he’s keeping me as his second option?

[kboy808]

Yes I really think he's keeping you for attention. It's pretty much bait and hook. I'm sure he's doing it to other girls too. Sorry to say he's just keeping as a in-between person or a booty call. And he knows it. That is why he comes back when you find another guy. He doesn't want to loose that second option. I'm truly sorry if I hurt in anyway but I don't want to beat around the bush and sugar coat it with you. I'm doing it out of respect and I know love blinds you and makes you over look or makes you believe that it's actually not happening, when it actually is. That's my interpretation when they say "Love is Blind."

[kass03]

Oh you didn’t hurt me, I appreciate your honesty. It’s just he’s not like that. He doesn’t like sleeping around, he’s actually only been with 3 women. It’s just I think he has a small amount of feelings for me and he’s keeping me on the back burner so to speak

[kboy808]

Do you know that for sure? 100% he could be living 2 different lives. Or thats what he wants you to think. I'm sure he has feeling for you but just not in that way. More as an ftf sort of speakm

[kass03]

Yeah I know that for sure, and he’s not the type to use me as a f buddy, I know them trust me lol. It’s like my friend thinks he has a little bit of feelings for me and is too much of a coward to tell me. So he’s keeping me on the back burner until they develop

[kboy808]

But what is he doing without you? For the past few months he hasn't contacted you?

[kass03]

Working, hanging out with his guy friends. He pretty much worked doubles for 2 months. But I think he hanged out with S too

[kboy808]

Truthfully I think you should move on. Sooner the better. I'm sure you'll find someone better

[kass03]

But that’s the thing I don’t want too, I love him and he’s also my best friend. Do you think he has feelings for me and is confused?

[kboy808]

Only he can tell you that hun.

[scooogy]

If you want to confuse a guy, you can send him some "lorem ipsum", that's latin nonsense. :)

[yucychan]

I just feel this guy is not worth your attention. I get how some people need time to get their feelings in check, to know if they really have any feelings for the other person.
But don't you think you have given him enough time already? If he still can't decide what he want. Then it's time to move on.
Because you know what you want. And it's definitely not this bs that he is feeding you with.

[kass03]

Yeah it’s been a long time. But he’s going through a lot, and I know that’s no excuse but I want to give him a chance. Do you think he has feelings for me at all?

[yucychan]

@kass03
I mean he did say he doesn't have any feelings for you previously.
When a guy wants you, he will do everything to get you. The way he is going back and forth like that just makes me feel he doesn't really like you that much. Sure, it feels nice for him to have someone around but that's just it. You are just nice to have, but not compulsory. He doesn't feel the need to commit.

[taeh_ie2]

I think he’s into you, but he’s having hard time understanding his feelings towards you.

Sorry a lot is going on for you, hope things get better for you.

[taeh_ie2]

Have u guys sat down and talked about this?

[kass03]

Thank you so much for responding, I’ve tried but he’s like a puzzle and doesn’t directly say what he’s feeling. I haven’t heard from him in a week and it’s making me extremely worried. Should I be worried about S?

[taeh_ie2]

Np :), and I totally understand that your feeling rn and ik it sucks, but If u can’t get to talk to each other face to, face, write a text message telling him that u won’t be wait for him much longer, and if he want’s to continue the relationship he has to be real with u and his feelings.

Ik tough love, but he needs to grow up and handle it like one and ( no offense, I’m just coming from all good intentions)

[taeh_ie2]

And forgot to add, if he really cares about u and this relationship he will be willing to make that sacrifice. And if it doesn’t work out, let it go, learn and grow from that, come out stronger then before :)

[kass03]

I 100% agree, he’s being very immature for a 22 year old. Do you think it will work out between him and I, and I should give him some space?

[taeh_ie2]

How long has it been he hasn’t contacted u? and that’s great your handling it like an adult.

[taeh_ie2]

And I think It might work, if he is willing to put the effort and make it possible again. but then again a relationship is a two person thing not one sided.

[kass03]

Thank you so much🙂, it’s been a week. My friend J Snapchat him Thursday and he replied back and the second time he opened it and didn’t reply. So I tried sending him one and he opened it and didn’t say anything. But last week I wrote him a paragraph and sent it to him and he read it and didn’t say anything

[taeh_ie2]

Try to be patience as much as u can, guys don’t technically like being pushed to making decisions and I think It just adds up more pressure for them, but since the last time u contacted him was last week maybe not do it this week. and if u don’t mind sharing what did u tell him last week?( the paragraph)

[kass03]

Of course:)

[kass03]

I posted them:)

[kass03]

Nvm, how do I post a picture lol

[taeh_ie2]

U can try updating the question again, If u can.

[kass03]

It won’t let me:(, but it’s basically about how I don’t appreciate him acting this way, and I don’t understand all of this and that I care about him

[taeh_ie2]

Yeah Give him some time alone, so don’t text him this week, and If your plaining to text him the message I was talking about, try being gentle about it since he seems a little broken rn, but also prove your point without sounding aggressive.

So just come in with a vibe, of coming in all clean, no bad intentions, drama free just trying to clear up the bull crap.

[kass03]

Thank you so much, you are amazing😊. I’m going to give him some space and wait until a week to message him again. So I can work and better myself:) I’ll definitely keep you updated

[Anonymous]

What is ASAP?

[kass03]

As soon as possible

[Jmmmfi4]

thats weird