He suggested to hang out but didn't give me any time or place. I didn't say no but I didn't continue the topic because I thought he would suggest what/when. Then I asked if he wants to hang out. He did the same thing I did, he said yes but in a confusing way so that I don't know if the yes is about my hang out question or something else I wrote. One day he ignores me next day he flirts or stares. Sometimes he kind of avoids me. Then again stares from the corner of his eye. What's going on? Should I move on? It's just that I think he wouldn't suggest to meet up if he wasn't interested in the first place.
Maybe he's shy and is thinking you'll make a move. Maybe he fears rejection and is waiting for a sure thing.
If you're really interested, try inviting him out to something specific "grab a coffee Friday afternoon" if he says he can't make it, ask him when can work.
If this trend continues, move on.
I had this happen with a coworker, she kept asking me to go for dinner. I gave her times and places, and closer to the dates she canceled. Happened about 4 times, and I just stopped talking to her... I later found out that she was telling other coworkers that I was the one asking her out and harassing her.
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He is probably not sure if you want to or not so if you like you can just suggest something somewhere.
Just wait for him to show interest again. If he suggests hanging out ask the time and place. Keep communication clear in the future.
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When you're in love don't take advice from people sitting at work hating their life. You know what to do.
Stop playing games. both of you
Move on. He sounds like a time waster.
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