So now im a treesh and thot for not saying it back?

[JadaJackson]

I was with this boy and he told me he loves me. I kinda just skirted around it and started talking about other stuff. During all of tgis I was trying to break up with him and he thought by saying he loves me I would just forgive him for the way he treats me. So anyways I text me boy best friend and I tell him what happened. All I said is that he said he loves me but I dont love him. I have feelings for him bur its not love. So now my boy best friend texts the guy I was tryna break up with and says all this stuff I said but he twisted it saying that I said stuff that I didn't even say. I just dont really understand why he felt the need to do all of this. Now they're both calling me a treesh a thot and a bitch just for saying that I didn't love him. I just dont get it. And advice on how to handle this?

[CherryRoseChampange]

Yes, your boy best friend isn't your friend. Excuse my language but he's a bitch himself. He probably liked you or was only befriending you for a personal agenda anyway. Don't tell him anything else. The other guy, well say your piece then leave it there. If you still have text history of what you originally said to the guy friend, screenshot it and send it I've as proof then leave it be and cut ties with both them

Remind him that he should respect you for being honest about your feelings and what you want for yourself and if being true to yourself and a respectable girl makes you a thot to him he was never worth your time anyway. He taught you a lesson on the man you don't want to date.

Then leave it be. Don't entertain those butthurt assholes. Keep it pushing.

[CherryRoseChampange]

PS: Never let these guys take you out of character from being the woman you are. Hold your head high and nip shit in the bud early on. Also make sure you always address your man or the people you have issues with overall. Never let your friends do it for you and if you text a friend something out of trust always screenshot for insurance. People will try to dim your light our put you out there but stay too steps ahead and always have some insurance somehow and be level headed with decisions okay? Take care of yourself

[JadaJackson]

Thank you that actually made me feel a lot better about the whole thing

[CherryRoseChampange]

You're welcome, it happens to a lot of us. Teaches you who truly ate your friends and etc. Don't worry, you know you aren't what they say so don't even let it affect you. And sorry for typos lol. I was typing fast and my autocorrect is hell.

[CherryRoseChampange]

*are

[Adrian12345]

Them calling you treesh (a girl who hugs someone different all the time, aka a player)
and
thot (a girl who sends out nudes of herself)
are two names that don't apply to you. So it sounds like they're just name-calling, possibly because:
your boy's best friend may be a troublemaker (his twisting/distorting what you said)
and
your boy may be mad at you because you don't love him back and (if he was trying to control you/manipulate you by saying he loves you,) his manipulation didn't work. I don't blame you for not loving him back if he's the kind of person who lashes out with hurtful name-calling because you don't do what he wants.

My advice: avoid both of them.

[Ephemera1]

So basically you slept with a guy that you didn't love? Then "your best friend" who's actually really good friends with the guy you slept with and not your friend, is calling you a hoe with him?

Didn't see that coming.

[Curmudgeon]

Just when I learned THOT, now they have "Treesh"?