How do guys feel about a woman who is “a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed”?

[Anonymous]

Like, the woman seems innocent, almost naive. But then in bed she’s a total freak?

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Do guys actually dig that?

[ShortCircuit]

I certainly love a lady in the streets, but as for the latter part of the phrase, that would depend on your definition of a "freak". I won't tolerate the addition of a third party in our sex life. I also have no interest in anything that involves feces or urine, because I find it disgusting. Anything in the way of BDSM that results in welts, bruises, or other lasting marks is too extreme for my taste. Lastly, I am strictly dominant and have no interest in a woman that is anything but submissive. Beyond these things, she can be as "freaky" as she wishes--but I felt the need to clarify my boundaries.

[Asker]

I’m dominant outside of bed, and submissive in bed. When I say dominant, I mean compared to other girls I’m more firm and don’t let people tell me what to do, even my boyfriend. We have to do stuff together, and not as a leadership dynamic.

In bed... that changes completely. LOL.

[ShortCircuit]

I'm all for an equal dynamic in relationships, but in my experience, women have exploited this "equal" relationship dynamic to disrespect their partners. I won't stand for that.

[Asker]

No, that’s not equal then.

[ShortCircuit]

My point exactly.

[Asker]

But I’m in no way submissive outside of bed. Hell no

[ShortCircuit]

My philosophy is that relationships are formed by give and take. A relationship is equal as long as both partners give as much as they take. Theoretically, two partners can be equal if they each give nothing and take nothing, and this is the route most people go when they speak of "equality". However, I think that defeats the purpose of a relationship. I'd much prefer that there be lots of giving and taking.

In other words, I expect my partner to be considerate, caring, and physically affectionate--but for the sake of equality I return the favor. I also favor strict boundaries when it comes to loyalty, but of course, I hold myself to the same restrictions.

[JxrdN]

You missed your opportunity the make your question rhyme 🙁

[Asker]

Lmao. Sheets 😭*

[JxrdN]

I can die in peace now.

[DublinRollerGirl]

No, they hate freaks.

[codycccccc]

There fun tell you realise there using lying and manipulate behavior and natural charm to fool the world all 3 of witch are indicators of a psychopath

[Asker]

Lol.

[uraslave]

I mean yeah. Any man that wants their girl slutting it up for anyone but them has issues in my opinion

[Asker]

I’m talking about that total change from being all shy and then into a wild bitch lmao 😂

[uraslave]

I would dig it honestly

[Reggieray]

You don't have to appear naive, just classy.

[Lance1965]

They are the best women.

[thebigc]

Sounds pretty good to me

[dev765]

That's what a lot of us want.

[Anonymous]

That is the perfect woman.

[jajajja3nn22]

They don’t like it