You're forced to put it first no matter if you want it or not if you don't you'll get fired. Personally I would prefer to put boyfriend before career but it aren't possible.
It depends but ultimately no. I dont think there's a time when a relationship is more important than doing your job. You have to find someone who accepts your priorities.
There's nothing wrong with it. Everyone has their own list of priorities. It's not my place to tell you what you should put first.
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I don't, I am very focused on my career and can't devote the time to a relationship so just have a couple fwbs to satisfy my sexual cravings which keeps me happy and I can better focus on my job and life without relationship complications
Depends. Would you rather have lots of money and be alone with no family, or make a modest living but have a caring family? That's what it usually comes down to.
Everybody has their priorities. If you don't make your SO one they won't be one. That does not mean you have to give up on your career. Try for BALANCE. Seriously.
I did it.. for 15 years.. I got burned by it. Im left with nothing because of it
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Hell yeah, because if someone honestly truly wholeheartly loves a person they'd ALWAYS put them first no matter what. Something like your job shouldn't be more important than your significant other.
Marriage is a relationship, the defintion of a relationship doesn't say, "only boyfriend and girlfriends. The actual defintion is, "the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected". Soo marriage counts, gotta be specific.
If the relationship is working out then that person should always come first. So lets say you have EXTREMLY important plans with your significant other and last minute they got called into work to make some extra cash, they didn't have to go. Would you mind if they chose work over you?
My boyfriend has responsibilities and I understand that. He has to do everything for himself. We can go on a date some other time plus that’s extra money he can spend on me.
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You're forced to put it first no matter if you want it or not if you don't you'll get fired. Personally I would prefer to put boyfriend before career but it aren't possible.
Yes if your stringing that person along with the idea of a future with you.
What do you mean?
Well if you put your career ahead of your relationship your relationship won't go the distance as nobody likes to be 2nd best.
I think that a career is more important than a relationship, but a marriage is more important than advancement.
It depends but ultimately no. I dont think there's a time when a relationship is more important than doing your job. You have to find someone who accepts your priorities.
There's nothing wrong with it. Everyone has their own list of priorities. It's not my place to tell you what you should put first.
I don't, I am very focused on my career and can't devote the time to a relationship so just have a couple fwbs to satisfy my sexual cravings which keeps me happy and I can better focus on my job and life without relationship complications
Sounds selfish when you put it that way. More like the guy you are with shouldn't expect you to put your life on hold for him. That's better
Depends, if you are single, the career comes before the relationship.
If you are already in a relationship, it would be VERY wrong of you to hurt that person over a career
Depends. Would you rather have lots of money and be alone with no family, or make a modest living but have a caring family?
That's what it usually comes down to.
Everybody has their priorities. If you don't make your SO one they won't be one. That does not mean you have to give up on your career.
Try for BALANCE. Seriously.
I said yes, but it really depends on the relationship.
i thought relationships are a form of career for girls? 😂
Umm no
That's why we have MGTOW and it got out of hand.
And that's why its alright to stay single as a guy. Enjoy the resources. No parasites involved 😉
If you're married, then your priority should be on your husband/wife. If not, then career.
As one of the biggest problems in relationships is money, putting the career first can in the long run be best for a relationship.
Its smarter and preferred. Career over man not unless he a millionaire
Sometimes yes. It depend how much you value relationship :)
No, but it's also ok if they want to leave you because of it.
I did it.. for 15 years.. I got burned by it. Im left with nothing because of it
Hell yeah, because if someone honestly truly wholeheartly loves a person they'd ALWAYS put them first no matter what. Something like your job shouldn't be more important than your significant other.
Okay but love does not pay the bills honeybun. What if you and that man break up?
Then thats diffent, I thought you meant like married. Ik love doesn't pay the bills but family is important, spouses are important.
I said relationship...
Marriage is a relationship, the defintion of a relationship doesn't say, "only boyfriend and girlfriends. The actual defintion is, "the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected". Soo marriage counts, gotta be specific.
I know the definition. That’s why I said relationship. Any relationship
If the relationship is working out then that person should always come first. So lets say you have EXTREMLY important plans with your significant other and last minute they got called into work to make some extra cash, they didn't have to go. Would you mind if they chose work over you?
Nope. Cause I understand that you have to work to pay the bills. We can always postpone.
Yeah but something are too important to postpone, like he could work another day
My boyfriend has responsibilities and I understand that. He has to do everything for himself. We can go on a date some other time plus that’s extra money he can spend on me.
Fine true, but in some situtions a guy shouldn't put his job before his partner.
I guess🤷♀️
You sound just like purple babe lol
who? Hm whoever that is they sound very smart
Girl I know it’s you 😂
confused?
It's not wrong, but there is a tradeoff so you need to determine what's more important for you.