Seems to me it should depend on their overall circumstances. Sometimes you can get a real catch is someone is temporarily down on their luck and others won't date them for that reason.
I'm surprised at womens' answers. doesn't line up with what I know or have seen. try meeting a gal out and about and have her qualify you... what do you do... and say you dont have a job. you are done right there I'd bet unless you are an amazing communicator.
hahahah good joke... I actually know this very attractive greek man... like very handsome yet he doesn't get nearly as many girls as he should, because he doesn't care about money...
he went back to Greece to work at the farms... but I've seen significantly less attractive men have women all over him... cause he was rich
Depends why. Because while I'm all for being for love, I want a guys whose dependable and secured in his life. Not some deadbeat wanting to mooch off people. If I have a car, place of my own, and stable job, it'd be nice to have a guy setting the same standards of life too. But if he quit and is looking then I suppose, so long as he's driven to do something with his life.
I've dated a guy who was unemployed. He kept getting jobs and losing them so that was quite frustrating. We never really went out and he had barely any money, but would somehow find some cash. It didn't really affect our relationship but I do prefer to date a guy who has a job because it shows stability and the ability to keep a job! When I date someone, I look towards the future and if they're unemployed, it's a lot harder to buy a house for example!
Yes I would and just when I first meet him. I am a guy pretending to be a girl so please believe me lol. Serious note though most these girls also think you're talking about being with a guy who had a job first but somewhere during their relationship he ends up losing his job lol.
Gonna have to say you ladies are dumb... Someone who does bot have a job when you meet is very likely to have issues keeping jobs... Specially since most who dont smoke weed so they can't pass a piss or hair test or simply want a job where they dont work most the time
As long as he is doing something to improve his situation, I don't care. But if he is whiny or lazy and just complaining instead of taking some action that's a big no.
The results here are refreshing but in my experience it's the opposite. Has any women here actually done this or do you just think you would be okay with this?
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Once he showed ambition and effort, we all have crappy times through life.
No way you would do that. It is easy saying it here , but not so easy actually doing it. There is a good reason he is in that condition. Probably mental illness.
@Poormanscomedian well I have done so there, my boyfriend was unemployed when I meet him for 5 months. Now has a great job. You know people do become unemployed they go on the social welfare for a bit get around 190 euro a week it’s not like they’re living off crumbs.
@Poormanscomedian what the hell are you on about being homeless and being unemployed are two different things. I was unemployed for a whole year did that stop people wanting to go out with me, no.
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