Would you dump your partner if they had a drunken one-night stand that they swore was a mistake?

Would you dump your partner if they had a drunken one-night stand that they swore was a mistake?

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  • I'd be very heartbroken and I wouldn't have trust for that person but I wouldn't dump them if he were truly sorry, wanted to fix things and swore to not drink to get drunk (I wouldn't even want to get involved with a person that heavily drinks anyway)
    If he said he was sorry but didn't really seem to mean it and didn't seem like he wanted to fix things, only wants me to forgive him so he doesn't feel like shit for cheating then I would dump him.

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  • Why did my partner go out with another guy and get drunk? She knew what she was doing. That is simply not something that you do if you want to be loyal to your partner.

    I would dump her ass in a New York second!

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  • Those who make this mistake, have a habit of making this mistake again and again.

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  • hell yes. no mistake there. how convenient to blame the alcohol

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  • Honestly possibly not

    My thing with cheating is it shows they don’t want the relationship and I don’t want someone who doesn’t want me. However under the influence- while it’s dumb and annoying and if they did not take steps to make sure no repeat id dump them but once-eh don’t care🤷‍♀️

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    • I meant to restless at the end it’s also the fact bc they were drunk.. it wasn’t like “oh I’m so miserable but I’m a coward I’ll just cheat instead of breaking up “

      Just a dumb accident ONCE 😡 they get once.

  • I personally wouldn't. I would be hurt, and I would tell him not to get that drunk again when I'm not around, but I would forgive him just once. We would have to talk about why he thinks he did it, and exactly how drunk he was.

    Truthfully, drunk people can't make their own decisions. The decision to get that drunk is theirs, but if they didn't know this was going to happen and they were somehow pressured into it I wouldn't hold it against them.

    If it happened again, that's a problem.

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  • most likely yes. i have actually done this. i tend to think that unless a person is blackout drunk the act of cheating tends to stem from something within (unfaithfulness, dissatisfaction in the relationship, etc) and really the drunken cheating becomes more of their inhibitions being lowered enough to act on those inner urges

    i am married now so i guess i would have to think harder as we have children and i wouldn't want to break-up my family

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  • Yes I would dump her.
    Getting drunk and hooking Up is a choice.

    I was Shitfaced many Times and blacked Out only twice where I couldn't remember what the hell happened Last night.
    If I was in a relationship rn then I wouldn't drink as heavy anymore.

    People Just are afraid to admit that they fucked Up and blame alcohol.

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  • Ah, the famous excuse of blaming alcohol for cheating. Nope. He still had a choice. He decided to go out, get drunk and sleep with someone else. Nope, still cheating. I wouldn't forgive him.

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  • Unless he was drugged or didn’t know his limitations (it could happen), then yes. Yes I would dump him. Being drunk is no excuse to cheat. It’s just not. You should know better.

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  • Most likely, but not because she cheated, but because it usually means she doesn't love me, what I mean is, doing the cheating on that way means something is lacking and if she arrives over there without saying me nothing there are many chances it goes bad whatever I do.

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  • You cannot cheat "by mistake". It's always a choice. Alcohol isn't an excuse.

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  • Nope. I'm not an insecure ninny. People naturally are sexually attracted to more than one person at a time. It happens. As long as we talked about it and it didn't carry on or continue, sure I'd forgive her. Wouldn't be happy about it though.

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  • Absolutely. Being drunk has nothing to do with it. If you believe being drunk is an excuse then they should never drink even one sip ever again because it makes them out of control. So do you really believe that? Smh.

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  • Yes. If there's a possibility they could become intimate with someone else when drunk, hell, then it's time to go!

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  • I can't really answer without knowing what kind of partnership it was.

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    • Take it to be your wife

    • Yes, because the trust would be gone. I would forgive her, and not hold a grudge, but I wouldn't want her back.

  • Yeah, easily. She should've known what her limitations were before she started drinking. Wanting to (and going through with) fucking somebody, isn't an accident.

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  • Yes I would dump them with a quickness. That’s not an accident, they do it once they’ll do it again. I don’t take kindly to people who would jeopardize my health and safety.

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  • Yea. No matter how drunk I am my pants don't just magically come off. I go find my woman if I'm drunk and horny.

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  • Yes. It was a mistake that they consciously decided to make. Alcohol is not an excuse.

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  • Depends on the situation but most likely dump them. If married and have kids... they’re go to rehab for alcohol and sex addiction hahaha

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  • I would leave her, if she doesn't have control on her actions having after alcohol then why did she had it and what if it happens again in future and she blames it on alcohol

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  • Unless someone drugged and they didn't know what they were doing, yes, I think I would dump them. I don't sleep with random men if I am drunk...

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  • Yes. Cheating is cheating. Drunk or sober, it doesn't matter!

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  • Getting drunk on Alcohol is no excuse to do what you did so I'll drop her like a bad habit as soon as she is sober again to hear me out

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  • That would depend on many other factors, it's not cut and dry.

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  • Friendzone and move on with life since she shows she doesn't really love me in the right way.

    The more exuses the more full of shit they are.

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  • Of course, since she shouldn’t even be having sex before marriage in the first place.

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  • I would give her a second chance, but she’d need to stop drinking.

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  • Yes because being drunk actually influences the brain to tell the truth so based on that its not a mistake

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  • The real question is. Can you live with and trust that person the rest of your life and never bring it up again? If not then yeah you need to dump em

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  • Yup... to the curb. Do it once, they'll do it again. Then again, that's just the one time you know about.

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  • I would because it’s there choice and counts as cheating!!! lol and I really don’t like drunk people..

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  • I wouldn't date someone who had the habit of getting insanely drunk. I'd prefer someone who doesn't drink or drinks rarely

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  • Setting up a one night stand isn’t a “mistake.” Spilling your beer when you’re drunk is a mistake. Calling up a booty call, an old girlfriend, or picking someone up at the bar you’re at, setting up transportation for them to get there, picking up whatever contraceptive, waiting for them to get there, getting over to a bed (or bathroom stall), foreplay, then sticking your noodle into a clam takes so much time and effort (ESPECIALLY ON TOP OF BEING DRUNK and attempting all this) that I’m amazed anyone can call it a mistake with a straight face

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  • Yeah ofc, its not even a question for me. Being drunk is not an excuse.

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  • you mean they drunkenly cheated? then yeah. if it was before we were together, it's fine.

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  • Absolutely. Alcohol may be the reason they followed through, but it is no excuse.

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  • Yes, I'd definitely dump them. Alcohol doesn't justify anything.

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  • In an open relationship no. In an exclusive probably

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  • Everything good or mistaken is a choice. Conscious or subconscious...

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  • I would cause even when drunk I know what’s going on.

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  • Well I wouldn't date a drunkard. Unless we get drunk occasionally

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  • yes cuz they made the chouce to get to drunk an let it happen

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  • I would dump him!!! Period!.

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  • Lmfaoooo he can catch these hands also wtf 😭😂

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  • Yes I’d dump his ugly cheating ass for sure 👋🏽

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  • There's the door. Goodbye.

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  • Yeah

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  • Nothing really happens by mistake

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  • Yes.

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  • Absolutely.

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  • Yes drunk or not doesn’t even matter

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