I have never done it and never will!
Makes no sense. I mean if a guy has lots of sexual conquests he is a stud, everyone likes him and wants to be him. I never, EVER, heard a guy get slut shamed. If anything they recive high fives. And believe me they don't care if girls call them players, because that fame actually atracts more girls.
Pass to the girls side and if she has a lot of sexual conquests she is called a slut. Girls start to outcast her, guys look at her as damaged goods and not a high five in sight.
So what if a girl wants to have fun? That does not make her lose value as a potencial date! She can a have many past partners and be an incredible and loyal girlfriend.
More often than not guys who do this actually resent her for not for them and girls feel jealous they can't do the same. So girls have your fun and to hell what everyone thinks or says!
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I don't think that pointing out a fact of a thing, no matter what the thing is, equates with "shaming." That's dumb. If a person who happens to be short is called "short," that isn't "short-shaming," whatever the fuck that would even mean. If a girl is called a slut, and she IS a slut, and she views that as a negative, she always, you know... has the option to not be a slut. That's up to her. If a statement of fact is seen as "shaming," then the problem is with the fact itself, not the utterance of it.
Slut
(Noun)
-a woman who has many casual sexual partners.
Has another definition yet it’s not-so relevant.
It’s fairly common for the subject to be correlated to fashion choices despite it having no relation to it at all. ‘Slut’ has been used quite frequently by both women and men.
People who use this term to address women/men by their clothing of choice simply lack knowledge as we evidently know it equals to the individual’s high number of sexual partners.
But does the term apply to every semi-naked woman/men?
>Not really, unless you are wary of the number of casual sexual partners the individual has had.
E. g: It would be relevant to call a prostitute a ‘slut’ as they tend to have a high number of sexual partners.
Like @s2firestar suggested:
You don’t need to say anything unless it’s affecting you personally.
Shaming others is just hate. Why waste time with something so negative if you are trying to have a good day? It's good to be discerning, but judging other people for the choices they make and looking down on them is a form of disassociation (possibly linked to superiority complex) that is not helpful or beneficial to anyone. In fact, these imperfections and challenges that we face are what expand our soul and teach us deeper lessons. If someone has something to say about what others are doing, that person talking shit is just hiding from facing themselves in order to make themselves feel better. Find compassion for them, yourself and lets all just try to move on. We can all focus on bigger issues together <3
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I had a guy tell everybody I was a whore and convince 90% of them it was true when I was a virgin. I was 22 at the time and he wanted me for himself. I'm now 33 and still a virgin but nobody thinks I'm a slut cause the guy who slandered me left the country.
People shouldn't be ashamed of their clothes (or any way they choose to express themselves) but only of their behavior...
Only actions show who someone really is and if it's bad, then shame is a proper thingI never shamed sluts, I used them. Here's where issue en-lies with what people consider "slut-shaming". Girls who sleep around seem to deem judgement as slut-shaming, which is false on so many levels. We're all entitled to our judgement when it comes to choosing romantic partners. We also should use judgement to weed out those who are not worthy or compatible in whatever way. I slept around a ton in college, and I didn't cry when other girls saw it as a red flag and turn off. I accepted it for I accept reality, and reality says that people will judge you negatively if you sleep around. It's just the way the world works. Those girls saw me less suitable for a relationship as the chance for me to cheat is much higher tagged along with the chance of me having STD's and/or low morale. They didn't like the values that they saw I had, and therefore decided it's not a match. Oh fucking well. On to the next one. People who go out of their way to shame others in any way are typically insecure, but we need to change the definition of what actually constitutes "slut-shaming".
I think people who do it are very insecure in their own life or just egotistical. It's easier to put the focus on others by shaming them instead of dealing with their own shame or insecurities. And then you got the egotistical people that think everyone should be like them because after all, they think they are fabulous. For some reason they can't seem to understand that people are different. There are guys out there that find a sexually free woman who likes to wear tight clothes that show cleavage as beautiful, sexy, and attractive. Then there's guys that find a conservative woman as beautiful, sexy, and attractive. The point is there is plenty of what you guys like out there to where you don't have to act so butthurt and shaming that we aren't all what you are attracted too. And for the ladies I'm glad you think how you are is fabulous. You should be happy with yourself. But don't be egotistical about it to where you think every other woman should be like you to the point you shame her choices. My best advice to those who get shamed. Whoever is shaming you, you can't take them serious. They have issues that cause them to do it. So feel sorry for them that they are so closed minded and unable to see beyond themselves.
I get everyone has the right to make their own choices in life and do as they please, including sex. But at the same time I'm not a fan of sluts and if you expect to be allowed to do as you please then you must be willing to let others do as they please. Even if this means shaming people for being sluts.
For me I don't like slutty women and have no interest in dating them. So slut shaming has a purpose. It is a good way of letting me know of a woman's sexual past without wasting my time getting involved. I can know before had she has slept around and I then know not to waste my time on her. It also helps as a deterrent for younger women not to sleep around. Since they know that they will be shamed for it. Since, to me at least, it seems like there are way to many slutty women now days. It's hard to find a decent girl who hasn't given herself to even guy she had even a slight interest in. I want more decent, less slutty women. Since now it seems like those women are as about as common as seeing a mythical creature. Odds are if you meet a girl now she has a slutty background, it leads to a lot of wasted time by us guys getting to know them only to find out they are sluts and not what we want. So I'm all for slut shaming. If they can't handle being labeled as such then they should have made better decisions and thought about that before being a slut.I think "slut shaming" is Orwellian new speak. It is not intended to describe something so much as push an ideology. The term was concocted to pander to women and use them as political pawns. It works like this. Some communist realizes that women get flack about being sluts , he also realizes it's something women complain about. He sees an opportunity to get women on his side, get them out knocking on doors, bringing his doctrine into their homes, teaching it to their children. So he takes a simple human foible rooted in nature and human evolution and makes a political issue out of it. The heroic Marxist out to change the cruel , crude and primitive world with his superior mentality and new way of living. This scoundrels most powerful weapon is false empathy, he'll go right for the biggest THOT who probably gets "slut shamed" quite a bit ( because she's got it coming). He'll tell her how unfair it all is and let her cry on his shoulder, become her best friend. Just imagine , a vile murderer capable of almost anything playing the comforter. It's an almost comical situation if it didn't actually represent predator and prey. When he's done with the dumb THOT she'll be out on the street dressed in black hurling Molotov cocktails at the police, she might even pick up a rifle and use that so sure she has become of her belief in the fundamental evil of the society she lives in.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3qkf3bajd4&t=173sI think it's funny when manwhores have a problem if a woman wants to whore out like them. Like you can't have your cake and eat it too either you want girls to be easy to sleep with you or you want girls to not be easy. I realize as women we need to avoid manwhores they try anything to get in your pants lie, be rude, manipulate you. I honestly think if a woman or a man is willing to sleep with a stranger I wouldn't really trust them when they say "I love you" because if you slept with 100 people how am I different? how I know you not just saying that so I be 101? then you ghost me and ignore me and never speak to me again?
any shaming whether it is done to poke at someone's sexual preferences/history or whether it is done at looks or mental state, it is wrong and the only one's who need to be shamed are those who do it to belittle and berate others cos they get some kinds of enjoyment out of it or simply cos they got refused... which oddly enough I've seen that happen all too often where a guy/girl will shame someone cos even though they had an active sex life (whoopee do), they weren't attracted to them or something that those types did or said came across as unappealing... so automatically they are a slut or a piece of shit...
people have more chance at getting along with someone if they didn't try and berate themClothes... eh... it's all relative and if you deviate from social norms... its realistic to expect to be judged. E. g. ordinary western wear in an extreme Islamic state. As to whether it's a good thing... I dont want to see naked people.. so I suppose a limit must be drawn.
As for the acting like a slut/sleeping around. It's a double standard that's been there since the beginning of time. Guys get to be guys and need "sluts" to mess around with and "good girls" to marry at the end of the day. Do I think it's right? Absolutely not. But neither is poverty, war or any of the myriad issues that seem to come with being human...Slut shaming for reasons like clothes or dating count is assumptuous, but assumptions based on observation are all people have to judge by really, if they dont know the person. That being said, slut shaming for this reason can be rude and excessive. It is jumping the gun and judging someone you don't know. So you should be careful about that, even if they do dress like a slut. Sometimes they're just teases or want attention or don't realize it, you know?
Slut shaming because a girl is a slut? Well that makes sense. If they're a slut I assume they expect to be slut shamed. That's kind of part of the territory. I mean, if you're doing something shameful, and people catch on, then I would hope you do get shamed at least a little bit. Going so far as to be violent or sexually assault the lady is just too far though. It's called free speech not free for all. Violence is never okay I that situation.
Slut shaming for getting rejected is just pathetic. And that's coming from me.I don't condone slutting oneself out, male or female. However a study shows the more promiscuous a girl is the more likely she is to end up getting divorced within 5 years. The best investment is to find a girl who's been with 0 or 1 partner, and at a reasonable age. Truly a rarity in these days.
economictruthsblog.wordpress.com/.../Girls shouldn't be slut shamed at all anymore, they don't deserve it & unfortunately they've had way more than enough of it. While Guys are still not getting slut shamed enough, not as much as they deserve! so yeah, manwhores need to be slut shamed more, more systematically, effectively and efficiently!
I don't care about it.
Society is going to ridicule whatever doesn't conform to the behavior of the time. It is what it is. If you want to dress in a certain way, be it with exposed skin for a fur suit, doesn't matter, just be prepared for ridicule. You do you, but don't expect society to not judge you, because that's not how people operate.I think it's narrow minded bullshit. Don't judge a book by it's cover and all that. You don't know what kind of life that person has lived just by focusing on a number, or on the shape of their shirt.
Slut shaming as reaction to rejection is just pathetic. How on earth does saying no make someone slutty?If you don’t like sluts you don’t like good sex. All women are sluts. Let them be sexual so we can benefit from their freedom to fuck us. Instead we slut shame women and bam, it just gets harder and harder to find a girl for more and more guys. Just embrace that shit. Women are whores. It’s beautiful. You could have your own little dirty fuckin whore breaking her neck on your dick every night but you’re a little bitch who cries that women like sex because they don’t want sex with YOU. But I’m fucking these hoes. It ain’t hard. They want to fuck. They want to get dominated and held down and choked and slapped and have their pussies beat the fuck down with dick! That’s the god damn truth and how could you be upset about that? You want women to not want sex? Well how will we fuck them then? Oh I see, you want socialism sex. You want to even distribute the pussy because you can’t get it in your own.
(Not saying this to you OP)Honestly it's hilarious like I'm a slut if I have sex with a guy but if a guy goes and sleeps with 20 different girls his pals pat him on the back. I don't care who people sleep with and they shouldn't care who I do either
I think shaming someone for it is wrong however there is nothing wrong with not wanting to date them. I personally don't consider girls who've been with more than 3 guys to be girlfriend material, that doesn't mean I shame them. I just wouldn't be in a committed relationship with them
If you're NOT a slut, then just ignore it. Say you're not a slut ONCE, walk away, & leave it at that. If you ARE a slut, then you've clearly made that life choice & are most likely not ashamed of it. If so, then why are you paying any attention to the haters?
It's very concieted and selfish to think that anyone should be allowed to act or dress however they feel like. Plus, with that kind of logic, you can't then go attack a guy for being naked infront of children. That type of contradiction in logic can only infer that one is even more selfish and concieted than whats already apparent.
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