Is it an instant turnoff when you see your date's apartment messy? (Page 2)

[lanabug]

Yes but it also depends on why it’s messy. Like if it’s messy because he’s too busy with school, work, depressed, etc then it’s not really a turn off. If we plan on living together some day then we need to keep our place clean.

[emmily2396]

Messy no, dirty yes.. therr is a difference between not being organized and washing your sheets once a year.
I am not very organized but I try to keep the stuff I misplace clean.

[Anonymous]

I'd sooner a girl living in a clean trailer then a trashed house. One has misfortune but is still hygienic and trying to make the most of a bad situation, the other lives in a house and lives like a hog and needs to sort her shit out.
But if a man's house is a mess he needs a woman who is clean and if his house is clean and doesn't have a woman he is not going to put up with some messy woman else she'll be on the street

[vjones819]

I’m messy myself.. so I hate to be a hypocrite! But not a turnoff.. it would just bother me if it’s too dirty like if it’s grimy, unnecessarily dirt.

[helva]

If it's only messy now and then I would not see a problem.
If it's Always messy I would try to convince my partner to put things why they belong.

If it's dirty it would defentively be a turnoff.

[Mikey_Ramone]

Not if she wants to stay that way. Then I can find another date. Personal hygiene and generally it's what we all need. We cannot, obviously, sit on the floor eating our meal while it's dirty as fuck.

[pervertedjester]

That is a clean room according to my brothers. I don't go to there place that often because of that kind of thinking, so I doubt I'd do it for someone else.

[luvstoned4him]

we can hangout but not until he cleans that mess up.

I expect that life can get crazy and things won't always be organised but not on a regular.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

I'd have to fight the urge to clean it 😂 if it was messy like that all the time, it would be a turnoff

[ghostqueen]

Yes, even if I'm just going over to a friend's house. You don't need a 20 person cleaning staff but the whole pig lifestyle isn't cute.

[Anonymous]

Yes for me it is, I don’t even have to see her apartment, just seeing her car alone is. I know not all women are like this but a lot of women I know have trashy cars as far as clothes, shoes, food wrappers.

[sp33d]

Oh brother. If her place looked so messy that's going to set off some major flares..

That's not likely, though. I think there's a strong chance that if she did live like this, she wouldn't be the kind of outgoing person I'd be interested in.

[TripleAce]

Depends lol
Sometimes it’s sexy like just seeing all her stuff there. Maybe you might cAtch a pair of panties

[Bananaman177]

If it's so messy that random 10 year old boys are hanging out in it, yeah, it's time to have an intervention or something...

[thechesseman]

I really don't care. I'm not dating piles of garbage, I'm dating the person. I've cleaned out some real shit holes before for work, can't imagine any room would take longer than 2 hours to clean.

[xTom98]

Im a very Tidy and organized person, so yeah. I hate it when its super messy and dirty.

[markscott]

It's a turn off if it's real messy. I don't have a problem with it looking lived in.

[Davis04]

Definitely still hang with them after I help them clean their dirty as apartment / place!!

[Gothd011]

Yes very much so. And cancels out any plans for that night and possible for all...

[mono_gram]

I wouldn’t say it’s an instant turnoff, but my neat-freak self would be pretty botherd by it.