Does being 5'5 and having a baby face make a guy undateable?

[Anonymous]

Does being 5'5 and having a baby face make a guy undateable?

[Киттйлинк]

Not entirely... but with those qualities your higher chances were between middle school and high school... innfact those characteristics are at the top during those years.. cause later on in life, it is mostly tallness and masculinity that will catch a woman’s attention... guy’s like hat tend to have the best luck during school years and the worst luck ifnthey didn’t get to stay with their high school sweetheart during later years.

That’s just my observation.

[Asker]

Lol looks like I'm pretty screwed then

[Киттйлинк]

No it doesn’t.. it just means in general from my perspective in how I see world around me, you had higher chances... but again that’s just how I see it personally.., why? Because when I was younger I did not care for height at all it never even crossed my mind.. i would just fall for cute faces.. now as I get older I see hat I personally find myself attracted to mature manly faces not cute or sweet handsome faces, it looks like cute in a non sexual way and also height and weight... thin is very off putting to me and much more if he is low in height...

Now having said that, it doesn’t mean allllllll girls all, over think the same at all.. so from my perspective I think your chances were higher before, but by no means does it imply that you have no chance at all. Don’t be negative, it is just an opinion, do not let it out you down.. just like perhaps you wouldn’t date an extra fat girl or similar, there are also girls that wouldn’t date a shorter looking guy as oppose to a taller one but there’s always people who would!

In anycase, stimulate a girl’s mind, and you’ll have her. Trust it!

[jennifer_bloom]

I know a female hedge fund trader who is fit and only dates guys with baby faces.

[iduhaveuser]

How tall is she by the way

[jennifer_bloom]

@iduhaveuser I don't know cause she is my friend's friend but in photos they have of each other she looks around her height which is probably 5"4 or 5"5

[Drowningkingfish]

Not undatable, just less respectable from a leadership point of view. People want tall intimidating leaders who give quite a scare to though as who disobey, but still have regard for others and know their own boundary’s.

Trust me, some girls will find it adorable some will not. Trust me I’ve met people who were shorter than that had a baby face but yet had a girlfriend, you have to prompt your best traits from internally.

[Anonymous]

I know a guy who is much shorter, has a baby face and is fat and always dated hot girls and even fucked his friend's mom who is a milf. But he's very loud and charismatic and I remember feeling intimidated by him before I knew him.

[Logorithim]

I wouldn't think so, especially if you have other qualities to compensate.

[Anonymous]

Ok, I'm going anonymous since I consider myself a shy person even on the web. I'm already petite 5'2 and in my college residence there are two cuties, men around my height and with cute baby faces, I know they are checking me out. and.. the best part is I love the staring since its mutual. I find them cute and sexy in a mischievous way.

[jamesjd101]

I feel the same at 5'8. Although height obviously reduces chances as near enough everyone does have height preferences. As for babyface, I feel this is a problem for me although we'll get the benefits when we're older 😋

[Melshmallow046]

My dad is 5'8" and my mom is 5'6", they've been happily married for 33 years now :)

[thealias]

Nope... I don't know from experience other than I have a few short friends, but everyone has a different preference at the end of the day!

[Anonymous]

Of course not. Someone who really loves you for who you are won’t care about superficial things like height or how you look. They will love you no matter what because they love you for who you are as a whole person.

[iduhaveuser]

The thing is would a woman even bother to get to know a short guy anyway? No. Not unless she runs out of choices of tall men with good personality or has been mistreated by taller men. That's a fact. A reality.
Also still a girl who herself is 5'6+ wouldn't want to be with such height guy , no matter how nice personality he has.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m 5’7 and my boyfriend (the only person I’ve ever dated) is shorter than me and I honestly don’t care I love him for who he is. I went out with him when he asked because I knew him well enough to know I liked him as a person and that he would treat me with respect and care. My point is that anyone who wouldn’t give you a chance just because you’re not tall, doesn’t deserve you. There are girls out there that won’t care about height and will fall in love with who you are as a person.

[Opinion Owner]

@iduhaveuser

[iduhaveuser]

How much shorter is he and do you ever wish / feel he was at least few inches taller than you?
And initially were you hesitant / reluctant to be with him in relationship because it would look odd and socially unacceptable?

[Opinion Owner]

@iduhaveuser
He’s not much shorter than me probably an inch maybe 2 and no I don’t wish he was taller than me ever because I love him how he is. My only thing is he demands I never wear heels to fancy events which I don’t like them so I wouldn’t wear them anyways. I’m just saying if you ever date a girl your height or taller be considerate of each other. Like I won’t wear super high heels because I know it makes my boyfriend uncomfortable, but if u want to wear shorter ones I will because him saying not to makes me feel bad about how tall I am. I was never reluctant to be in a relationship with him because I got to know him before and I loved his personality and who I am around him. He brings out the best in me and I never cared. If it was odd because nothing else matters when you find someone you work well with and really love. Honestly if you are a genuinely sweet guy any girl would be lucky to have you. Height is trivial, just be who you are and the right girl will realize your worth.

[jonnyboyyyyy]

This is me bro! That's why I don't shave. I'm a little taller but look 12! 😂 hope you get yourself a nice girl bud

[FriedPickles1218]

There are actually some girls who do prefer short guys, as long as they are still taller than them. Even so, you'd be surprised at just how many women date guys shorter than them in real life.

[justiiceiisbliind]

i dont think so. im 5'0 and babyfaced and yet I've had girlfriends and boyfriends out the ass

[TomGarand]

What worked for you?

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

There's no one who's truly undateable. Having a harder time attracting women, perhaps, but you're not out of the game.

[morimeme1]

No, trash personality is the only thong that makes a guy "undatable".

[iduhaveuser]

The thing is would a woman even bother to get to know a short guy anyway? No. Not unless she runs out of choices of tall men with good personality or has been mistreated by taller men. That's a fact. A reality.
Also still a girl who herself is 5'6+ wouldn't want to be with such height guy , no matter how nice personality he has.

[morimeme1]

I don't really know about that, the coolest guys I've met have been pretty short and I have had crushes on them but gave up and closed that section because I am 5'9 and have been told that to shorter guys I look like a giant and they would be too embarassed to date me anyways.

[morimeme1]

I don't really get why the short girls discriminate against short guys, they date tall gauys and ruin it for people like me.

[iduhaveuser]

they date tall gauys and ruin it for people like me. 😛😝😂🤣😁😋 Lol. So you dislike the competition the short girls increase in the tall men section 😋
It's so because the short girls already are somewhat insecure about it deep down, although since the are females it doesn't really matter/effect their social and relationship values as it does to short men. Hence these short women want tall men. For short men it really sucks since the short girls are more compatible with them but they don't want them while the tall girls, like you, obviously would not want to be with a shorter man because it isn't compatible and practically possible.
by the way are the short men insecure and intimidated by your tall frame? If the men were comfortable with it would you be comfortable and okay in being with a shorter man?

[morimeme1]

If the society didn't make such a huge deal about it and he showed that he could still be the man in the relationship and treat me appropriately then yeah, my current boyfriend is exactly my height so it becomes a bit awkward when I wear heels, it has to do more with my insecurity about men being intimidated and leaving than them actually being that way.

[iduhaveuser]

You do feel that your current guy feels insecure and intimidated by you whenever you wear heels and tower over him?

[morimeme1]

He tells me he doesn't care about it and I know he is not the type to care about such things, but still I have this inner bad voice that just says I'm no good that way.

[slatyb]

Nope. My 5-5 prematurely bald friend has a lovely girlfriend.

[Alice2398]

Does being a 5ft woman with a baby face make you undateable?

[Sambelfast85]

I'm my eyes that would make you more attractive

[Alice2398]

@Sambelfast85 you like kids or something?

[Sambelfast85]

No I just think smaller girls are more attractive.

[Alice2398]

@Sambelfast85 soz that came of rude before

[Sambelfast85]

Your ok lol. I didn't take offence 😘😘

[iduhaveuser]

Things are very different for women and men.

[iduhaveuser]

You would wear heels easily and being short doesn't matter for girls

[Alice2398]

@iduhaveuser guys can get theses shoes now with secret heels in them. Honestly girls aren't as shallow as you think, I even know some girls who prefer short guys

[iduhaveuser]

Guys wearing secret heels is absolutely FAKE advertising. at least women have heels that's clearly visible and hence everyone knows that the girl is short but wearing heels. If guy has hidden heels , what if he removed shoes or wore some other normal heeled shoes? It would be a drastic change of height and people wouldn't like this at all.
Very very rare girls like someone shorter than her. Even short girls want someone average, why would someone tall want someone shorter. Girls have a tendency to want someone at least their height or taller

[Anonymous]

Not really. if you`re a white boy, especially if you got long straight hair, you`ll always find one. Since that is what girls now a days obsess over

[Forgotmyfirstaccount]

No there are women that prefer a baby face
And I'm 5.2 I would think you were tall at 5.5

[iduhaveuser]

You would wear heels easily and being short doesn't matter for girls

[Forgotmyfirstaccount]

@iduhaveuser it does matter though I have been rejected a few times because I'm too short

[iduhaveuser]

I never thought women could be rejected for being short. Wow.
You approached men and they turned you down for being short?

[Forgotmyfirstaccount]

@iduhaveuser yes I've seen my sisters getting turned down because of their height

[Mullakkajokes]

Depends on where are you from. But I think you definitely attract some woman

[Giggletr0n]

No but it won't be easy to find a woman that can 100% look past it

[Setmefree]

not at all
I was that kinda girls who was always into tall guys but I fell in love with who is just like u
but unfortunately he thinks I dont like him bc of that

[iduhaveuser]

How tall are you and did he approached you or you approach him?
Seem he still is insecure about it and feels that you don't like that things about him although you are still in relationship with him.
That's how being a short man effects the psychology of men

[Setmefree]

@iduhaveuser im not tall im 5.4 myself
and my biggest wish right now is that things get ok between me and him
cuz he doesn't approach me directly
see if the girl u like throw any hints she likes u after u have let her know u wan her
and then ask her out

[iduhaveuser]

So he approached you indirectly through some common friends?
And you have some hints to him later on?
What type of hint do women give?

[Setmefree]

@iduhaveuser not through friends
u can watch her activity on social media
or if she acts kinda awkward around u specially if she's not normally like that
if she comes jealous over u
and other stuff
just persue her

[iduhaveuser]

If she is awkward around me then j would assume she dislikes me 😐

[GigiK]

Certainly not, these factors alone shouldn’t hinder any guy in the dating world as long as he’s confident and talking to the right girls

[iduhaveuser]

The thing is would a woman even bother to get to know a short guy anyway? No. Not unless she runs out of choices of tall men with good personality or has been mistreated by taller men. That's a fact. A reality.
Also still a girl who herself is 5'6+ wouldn't want to be with such height guy , no matter how nice personality he has.

[GigiK]

There are plenty of short girls...

[Dr_Sommer]

With the current hipergamia societal pressure, yes... he is very likely not acceptable for majority of women.

[Sambelfast85]

5.5 is small for a guy

[Asker]

Ya I know it's depressing and emasculating

[Sambelfast85]

Not I'm all cases. Smaller guys can have nice bodies to.