Do you think I should take a chance and give my number to my crushtomer?

[Anonymous]

I've been working at a new job for a month now, and met this regular who comes in mostly thursdays and fridays in the mornings. And everytime he comes in, we have small talks like how are you's how's the days. And sometimes its just random talks. And recently i came downstairs and he was already there when he noticed me he said how are you, i told him i was good and more awake. Then he said i was always in a good smiley mood, and i told him sometimes. And he said i was just good at hiding it. And ever since he said i haven't really stopped thinking about it. And im just wondering if i should just give him my number and see what happens.. i mean it would be pretty awkward if he didn't text But also he could stop coming in. I just dont wanna miss my chances of something good happening you know.

[smg99]

I love the wording , ‘crushtomer’.
Yes just take a leap of faith you’ll never know is a good hope and prospect to harbor as a dream.

But if you didn’t you’d always be mentally preoccupied by this. Your work suffers so does self care and family time.

You’ll be distracted.

Hand the number and say call if you have any requirements or orders you know upto you.

Casual shrug your shoulders smile like it were platonic.
Compliment back and not to make it sound scary on what he chooses at checkout. Strike a convo brief though.

By the way you didn’t specify the nature of your job. Safe suggestions I may give you.
Afterall an over thinker feels for your hopes as I myself did take a plunge. Even if mine was in and still is grey zoned , I feel sexier and bolder with that off the hat risk.

[Asker]

Im a barista and he's become a regular customer. I always hand him his food and was thinking of just writting my number down on his to-go bag

[smg99]

You could yes on his mug. Your name and phone. You’re charming.

[smg99]

Sounds saucy I wish to hear how it went too ok?

[Asker]

I dont see him again until Thursday but i think i will do it! Im scared of the backlash tho, if he doesn't end up calling or texting.

[smg99]

If he doesn’t then he’s a loser who later will realize no one paid him that special attention anyway.

[smg99]

You come off bolder sexier than he does in a not desirable reply. It emboldens you and you may then deserve better in that case.

Mine didn’t work but he always stands, stares and smiles or smirks.
In a negative situation regain power by ignoring him equally.
Getting sexier , touching your neck , sighing, stretching and opening your eyes seductively like you were actually being kissed on the neck.

In front of him. This applies for Luke warm to positive replies the stretching out not the neglect.

When you risk always have a back up to regain 10x seductive power and general power as your back up.

[humptydumpty01]

Oh I see what you did there
"Crushtomer" good one

[Anonymous]

Are you just horny or need attention?

[Asker]

wtf how is what i asked seeking attention or if that makes me horny! They are far more worst things being asked