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Would a person with a mixed-race child keep you from dating them? (Page 4)
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No. Race is not a factor for me when considering who I will date, that holds equally true for their children’s race.
I can already imagen all the "are you sure you're the father" questions. I don't think I would date a single mother if I'm honest.
I am a child of interracial marriage and my parents and brothers get that all the time. I'm their child and sister.
Someone having a child in the first place would be a non-negotiable deal-breaker for me. No way in hell I'd raise another man's child.
No not at all. I wouldn’t really be interested in dating someone with a child/ children.
Well you have a lot of coward, closet racist on here... will say hi to your face and talk about them to their backs... also very immature. But then again preference is preference, no matter how racist the reason...
playback, I want you to reread that and judge yourself.
@StingRayxoxo no, it's good to see all the racist, immature people out here. You know half the population if not more is still in this kind of ignorant mindset. I glad you asked this. Just because it's a preference, doesn't mean it's right to be in that thought process or state of mind when it comes to race. It also shows, we are still a long way off from being decent human beings..
I don't know why I hope for things to be different. I put too much hope that there are big hearts out there and then I get so down when I'm wrong. I try not to hate but i have so much anger towards people that hate for no reason.
Well that's when you need to be the bigger person.. understand that people only are out for themselves. I will help anyone that needs help, but as soon as they show me there true colors, I do not accept that negativity around me. Keep that big heart you have, but approach everyone with caution until they prove to you that they can be decent human beings
Thanks, darlin.
I wouldn’t really want to raise another persons kid regardless of race. I’m interested in starting my own family, not picking up where someone else left off.
Yes!
The human race is destined to be homogeneous. One could argue we already ARE genetically, cuz we are ALL human & can reproduce with ANY human!
That said, I would love a mixed race child, like any of my children! by the way, IMHO, mixed race children are usually more beautiful than 'mono-race' children! LOL!
Not if it's with a black dude , not that I'm against women liking black men but a lot of them lie to white men to get into a relationship and then cheat on them with black men
If she has a mixed kid and wants to date me it's a sign that she looking for someone to take care of the kid while she and the father of the kid can have fun
Yes it's extremely racist of me but that's what it is if you have a mixed kid asked the actual father to take care of the kid
I'm assuming that you have a mixed kid too stingray?
Why are you assuming that?
It's common women who love black men just use white men either to make their racist family happy , for financial stability or to take care of the kid while the mother and the actual father have fun
Also why do you care do you have a mixed child?
Plus over my time you did once state that you have a husband and the you asked this question so I think your husband is black
I have never had a husband. I think you are thinking of the wrong person
I asked this question because of something another user said to me about a woman he wouldn't touch because she has mixed kids. I care because skin color does not assign value or determine a person's values.
Hmm ok boyfriend? I'm new in this site , look if you take offence with my comment I'm sorry but it's my opinion it doesn't mean I treat white women who date black men as outcasts ( even tho it looks like it )
But from the way white women who prefer black men treat us you know like second option or a walking ATM or some weak incel who is only good enough if he is rich or some guy she can friend zone and make him take of care things I'm not that
Also I really think that you are the one with a mixed kid and that someone is yourself
I also like add that I know it's racist but it is what it is and I think that many white men are like that so don't waste your time on us
I'm sure it doesn't but remember the woman had sex with man of another race , a race with completely different features from , I'll automatically think " oh she is has mixed kid so she likes black guys I guess I have no chance then " also " oh she has a kid , she is probably married "
Plus porn has a role to play in the racism it states that white men are completely uselss human beings who are only good enough for financial stability and taking care of the white women's kid while she and the father have fun
So that's no matter how much you say colour doesn't matter , it still matters
You're way off base. I'm not going to correct it though. I don't look at race. I look at a person's moral compass. Yours is weak.
Well no point trying to make you understand but here is the the thing the best way to survive in a cruel world is to live without a moral compass
No, I'd still date them, assuming I was older though cause at my age, I'm not dating someone with a kid.
Them havinga child would affect my decision. Them having a mixed child would not.
It's not got much to do with whether i want to date a woman with a child or not. Children are a responsibility, children always come first. And kids need stability. They don't need adults coming in and out of their lives. I wouldn't get involved with a woman with children for this reason unless i really thought it was going somewhere. This is why i respect womwn that say "you won't be meeting my kids unless our relationship progresses to a point where i think there's a future between us". It tells me she's protecting her kids like a mom should. And i'm sure that isn't easy.
Someone that already had a kid would make me not date them
Nah, I wouldn't date them just because they have a child. I know that I could never love them as much as I would my own flesh and blood and that would only make it bad for everyone in the relationship.
What difference does it make? If I love the woman, I would love the child, so the child's make up would , and should be irrelevant. What possible reason would there be for not liking mother or child due to racial make up? Only bigots worry about such things.
I think mixed race is beautiful. I don't mind dating a single mom.
A person with any child would keep me from dating them.
If you mean I wouldn’t date someone because of their mixed race child, then no.
All I can say is humans are humans, we all look different but some resemble and some twin but there should be no discrimination.
Why does it matter the race of the child? My boyfriend is black and has a son and maybe in the future I'll have a mixed child with him.
Both my children are, depending on how you define race, "mixed" so I certainly wouldn't object to dating someone like me in that respect.
Personally, I love children. All children. Having them won't keep me away, it never will. I don't care if they're sick, mentally ill, mixed, different race, etc. Children deserve to be loved.