Can you see a girl as dating material if you two start off as a casual hookup? (Page 3)
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It actually the best way to fall in love, being intimate to slowly discover the other and if everything is aligns you can build something serious.
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Possible but unlikely. That said, it's really all about how the both of you feel about eachother. Where you're at in terms of what you want and what you are ready to have in a relationship context.
It wouldn't ruin her chances of becoming something more with me, but I wouldn't have any reason to pursue something more with her. I'm already getting sex with her, and the freedom to do whatever I want, so it's kinda like... why would I bother?
This situation makes me think he likely sees you as lower than what he deserves. It can work out if you're lucky but you'll have to beat out the other girls he's sleeping with.
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Sorry that's it's kind of harsh. That's a good sign that you didn't react with anger though (you might be a keeper).
If you think about it though many more guys want casual sex than women (we'd both agree I think). So men statistically have to take what they can get due to the greater difficulty. Girls are generally more picky about guys they'll do that with. What this can lead to is the most desirable guys (your guy maybe) being able to have his casual sex with multiple women. That isn't always the case, but he may just want to sleep around and maybe if you're the lucky one, you'll could be his pick one day.
😆 I don't know man. I'm treading lightly on the whole thing
How long have you been hanging out?
I don't know I'm kind of the jealous type. I prefer girls that make me wait a little while (Not too long of course.) If it was a quick hook-up I may cause me to be more suspicious and that wouldn't be a good start to any relationship.
No. Im only going to get intimate with someone I have feelings for.
Depends on her history. If I'm her first or it was a very unusual circumstance then okay. But if this is something she has done before, especially if it's with anything even remotely approaching regularity, then I'm grossed out.
I tried this with my ex
She is my ex because we had sex way too quickly and a year in she realized she didn't love me
Yes, yes and yes.
Listen girls you're not slutty if you fuck first night. If guys are looking for someone to date they'll date you if not they won't call you up. Lot of the time guys get attached to their booty calls and it'll be unrequited
I don't do hookups, but if I did then it would instantly disqualify her.