Girls, Ladies, could you be in a committed long-term relationship with a guy who is only 5-6 inches if everything outside of sex is good?

[Anonymous]

I haven’t always been the best person in relationships, but lately I feel like I’ve gotten much better and am ready for a serious one. I had a coworker tell me I’m “hubby material” because of my demeanor, work ethic, appearance, and emotional intelligence, but I’ve never felt that the girls I end up with feel the same. One reason is probably because I move too fast sexually, but I feel like because I’m not the biggest size-wise, if anything goes wrong in a relationship a woman is quicker to move on from me. When I see girls from the past, there are some who still show to be interested if I make the move and jump through a hurdle or two (if they’re not seriously dating). Where as with other guy friends that are more “blessed”, they have girls who will stop talking to them for various reasons but then end up reaching back out themselves within days or weeks for what seems to be just for the sex.

If the sex is good, yes

Hell no

Yes, but I’d consider cheating

Not sure (please feel free to explain)

[SueShe]

I am fully aware that men place such an immense importance on their penile attachment. For what?

You use it less than one single percent of your adult awake time, yet it is so important to you that you get phobias, anxiety and panic attacks if that one single percent is not dominating your entire life. Poor mankind (I am referring to men and not the entire humanity).

If I was interested in being in a relation, then this little detail would be way on the bottom of my priorities because I do favor the intellect, character and personality over the penile attachment anytime. Sex is not what should rule a relation but for most men, it is unfortunately how it is.

[PrettyPriya]

Only 5-6”? 😱 <——— I found this guy in my emoji keyboard to demonstrate the horror a girl would face with a normal sized penis.

He reminds me of a painting I once saw (online).

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Ah, the Scream by Edvard Munch. Yes, that is scary indeed :-) (the paining AND the large penis)

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe Yes, that is the painting I am referring to. The emoji is the closest I could find. My best guess is A***e has stolen it from the artist. 😞

[Asker]

I might just be in my head, for the most part my sexual relations have been good but lately I’ve been more interested in a serious relationship, and of the last two girls I took serious, one at times said she “couldnt feel me” unless she drank, and the other went back to her ex after telling me she was going to be celibate for a while

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Thank goodness, it has been retrieved and the world lives happily ever after.

I hope you are not suffering from the big heat wave I just read about. Hydrate and keep in the shade. Those early Antarctic heat waves are murderous :(

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe oh my goodness it has been simply miserable. One step outside the igloo and my hair does tricks all on its own.

There does not seem to be an end in sight either.

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Just be super cautious when you are going out. We would not want to have to cancel Kos and Santorini next year, would we?

[Asker]

I get that y’all are having fun with this and it’s not nearly as serious to you as it is to me, but could you please private message each other instead of having unhelpful dialog under this post please

[SueShe]

Of course. My apologies.

[PrettyPriya]

@asker congratulations. You might be the first to understand this, I hope. Penis size isn’t a serious issue to girls.

Now, I hope this is what you meant by your last reply. Honestly, we get bombarded by “is X” okay?”.

STOP WORRYING ABOUT IT. You are fine.

[WonderBell99]

Yes, I would be in a committed, long term relationship with a guy who is 5 - 6 inches.

Why do you place such a colossal importance on the size of your penis? It is not the size of your 'wand' that counts, it is how you make use of it.

Are you good at foreplay? Do you know how to pleasure a woman? If you are in a relationship with someone, it is best to ask them about their kinks (if they have any) or what arouses them. This will help you improve your sexual performance.
Sex is 70% foreplay and 30% actual sex. Even if you cannot make her orgasm, you could always rely on oral sex.

I, personally, do not care much about the size of his penis. In fact, I care more about good facial structure, hygiene, emotional intelligence, the ability to hold intellectual conversations and character. The average length of an erect penis is 5.1 - 5.5 inches. Kindly stop mulling over this. The size of your penis is of little importance when choosing a long term partner.

[Asker]

I’m good at foreplay, and have been told my sex is really good as well. I think I’ve just struggled finding women who I see myself with long-term, and the ones I do see myself with long-term haven’t worked out. A lot of girls just want flings with me but end up moving on to other guys after a month or two. I’m probably just in my head a bit

[WonderBell99]

Then why are you worried? I don't think you have anything to worry about.

It may just be the women you choose. If you want something long term, you need to filter out these ladies who just want flings and make it immensely clear that you are only looking for a relationship and not something casual.

Yes, it is most likely just in your head. Don't mull over this. You were told by one of your co-workers that you were "husband material", were you not? Take that compliment and keep searching for women who are compatible with you. You need better standards, that is all.

[PrettyPriya]

SueShe and I have turned this into an art discussion. First time for everything. 😊

[Asker]

Thank you, will do

[WonderBell99]

@Asker No problem. Have a great day :)

[WonderBell99]

@PrettyPriya Indeed :)

[WonderBell99]

Thank you for the MHO!

[PrettyPriya]

You’re welcome

[WonderBell99]

@PrettyPriya Lmfaooo

[Secret6620]

I'm not worried about his penis until after marriage so my answer is yes.

Dick size really doesn't matter if you're a good/nice guy

[Anonymous]

The fact you are even asking this question is enough to turn me off. Grow up!