Personally, I'm mostly fine if my SO sees other guys while were in a relationship so long as she doesn't lie or get sneaky or neglect me. So long as I know she's committed to me, I'm mostly fine if she if she gets a little on the side. TBH, I only get a bit jealous but mostly turned on at the thought of my SO having sex with other guys. I've never once ended a relationship over cheating. I just think it's okay for a woman to want to explore her sex life outside a relationship w/o fear of getting dumped or thought of as a slut. However, if a serious relationship develops with another guy, I'm fine with it so long as we establish some rules first.
I know I'm a little unusual with my opinions, but I understand that people could be perfectly happy with their relationship but sometimes just want to get with someone else, so why not allow for a little leeway every once in a while? I actually think it's healthy for women to date other guys while in a relationship and to have sex with other guys.
I think most women wouldn't do these things in a serious relationship. However, I would like to hear your thoughts on the issue, especially the women. Are you in a happy relationship but still see other guys? Do you date guys outside your relationship? How does your SO take it? Would you see other guys on the side if you knew your guy supported this? And to women currently in happy LTRs who have a side guy: does your main guy know? How would he react? Is it done openly or kept discreet?
