Girl I'm casually seeing is starting to get offended by my lack of affection. It took me years to hold my ex's hand in public. At least a year to even come close to holding her after sex. I've been seeing girl for a couple months and she wants to cuddle after sex and always grabs on to me in public. It's not that I don't like her, but I just don't feel comfortable quite yet. I'm not on that level with her yet, and she's having some difficulty understanding that for some reason. I don't think that I'm too abnormal here, but I want to hear some other opinions.