"The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else" - True or False? (Page 2)
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I'm going with yes because that method works for me. When I decided to stay single after a relationship, the moving on process took too long and switched from voluntary single to involuntary single.
False. It's not fair at all to the one you use to forget your Ex. Using people is not fun or cool. Grief should be healthy. Focus on yourself for a while.
It's always worked for me. It's almost like it wakes me up and I can think clearer
Flase and unhealthy. The best way to get over someone is to face the problem and loss head on.
I suppose that might "mask the pain" for a short while, but you'd still have to have closure before REALLY moving onward. And while pleasant, that really isn't closure.
False. All it does is hurt another. It doesn't get you over them.
False, it's just a temporary replacement, once your little fun is over you're there like fuck what now
true, but not just anyone... and its hard to find that other someone
The quickest way to forget someone is to meet someone else and move on. However simply attaching yourself to the first woman that comes along is usually a bad move. Take your time and choose wisely.
False dude, it's like saying to forget someone you drink a bottle of whiskey/rum/vodka/gin your mourning by distracting yourself in a toxic way that doesn't let you truly mourn
Maybe try no strings attached sex but no rebound relationship
False. It actually makes you feel worse since the comparisons come in if you jump at it too soon after a break up.
False. You're just camouflaging feelings. People are flawed and i find the best way to get over someone is just remind myself of all their bad points anytime i find myself missing them.
Maybe not like the same day, but yes - after you’ve grieved a little bit it helps to stop ruminating and enjoy the scene again.
Not really - the best way is to get out and meet people though!
Only if the attachment to the first one was primarily physical.
True if you need to avoid having your ex end up back in the sack with you. And also true regardless but she might be a rebound... it really does help
It helps. As far as revenge on the ex, the best revenge is living well. Also it bears sitting at home overthinking
It beats sitting home
Live your feelings, mourne the relationship, otherwise you won't learn how to make a relationship better.
I think it's true. Sex is half of a relationship, so doing it with someone other is already half way done.