If a girl is the "dominant" in a relationship, would you date her? (Page 3)
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Dominant in bed, yeah. Dominant in general, I'm not so sure about that. Giving up control can be a turn on for me, but I don't think I could give it up 24/7 and "let her wear the pants". At a certain point I'd want to take back the reigns and demonstrate some leadership.
I wouldn't feel comfortable in that relationship to be honest. But it depends on the person. You are the same age as my girlfriend sister, strong athletic girl for her age and it's always challenging me on stuff. From arm wrestling to chess. I guess there are more girls like you two nowadays.
But tell me why don't you like a strong guy by your side?
Maturity plays major role here. I was married to a VERY dominating woman... I was #3... And found out why. Now some 20 years later I may see myself needing that direction at times... but the belittling and constantly embarrassing behavior she would display, no matter the situation or occasion reminds me why it didn't work. by the way, she's on #9 as I write this...
Not that I think women should be submissive, but for me personally, no. I'm dominant myself so that constant power struggle gets really annoying. Some people say they want an even relationship, those I'm convinced don't exist. It might not be blatantly obvious who's more dominant but someone always is
I prefer someone who wants to be my equal: we rely on each other, give each other attention and support, and make decisions through communication and consensus. If I can't have that, I'll settle for a partner who's submissive. I can't see myself being happy in a relationship with a dominant woman.
No doesn't work for me, unless it keeps the girl from nagging about stuff. If she can separate the tasks and take the lead regarding much of stuff, and also take the responsibility of those decisions then ok.
Sexually, no, that's a hard limit for me.
Although I've never really seen dominant girls, they just act bossy and lack leadership and just think they're dominant. Basically just want stuff done a certain way without much reasoning, work or effort from their side.
Do want yes or hell fucking yes either way its still yes i would me the way i am procrastinator, no sense of time, no structure in my life i need a woman to step up and tell me get your shit lets go now kind of woman and i dont want a suggestive kind i mean i need a direct woman a. (dictator woman)
I don't like being the protected, I like being the protector, both when it comes to relationships and friendships. That doesn't mean that I can't appreciate what someone else does for me, but if I don't get to do it for THEM, then I will feel useless.
I don't mind a bit of dominance but in my ideal relationship we would occasionally swap "dominance".
I understand, why you don't like the continuous overprotection and honestly I'd want to feel affection, protected and supported sometimes and other times I want to give those to others.
I don't know if I'd like full dominance but I can definitely get behind a share of dominance.
For me personally at this point in my life I want a woman like that, I have always been the one who always give and give and give and give and all the women did not provide me with stability, love, care in return. So yeah maybe this kind of woman would prove that she is 100% invested in this as much as me not one sided