Should a guy ask for a kiss or just go for it? (Page 2)

Question

I know we always see in the movies how it happens. It is purely body language and they just go in, but is this always realistic? Is getting actual consent better?

markscott · Answer

I've never asked for consent to kiss a girl. It has always come from body language and mutual feelings.

browneyes13 · Answer

Personally, I hate being asked. I feel like I make it obvious if I’m interested so a guy shouldn’t just read my body language and go for it.

baseballnerd24 · Answer

In today’s hyper sensitive climate and culture. You should always ask

GuidoThePizzaMaker · Answer

Go for it  Asking kills the moment  Worst case scenario she turns her head or slaps you

PeacefulRainDrop · Answer

I have only had one guy ask me and I thought it was the sweetest thing ever!

Maggsxo · Answer

I know every girl would to expect the guy to kiss first. But theirs nothing wrong with the girl kissing first aswell. Go girl!

Tracey426 · Answer

Go for it, once it's obvious there's mutual attraction.

Truthatanycost · Answer

What you need to realize is what you do is perfectly fine, until it isn't.

TheKack · Answer

I have always asked for a first kiss. With the modern climate, it shows me that it's much more important to do that. Beyond the first kiss, I just let them happen.

El_Heffe · Answer

I've never asked but never missed 'the moment' of either the first or the 15th. A few times I have been the person receiving the kiss which I recall fondly.

Samantha2448 · Answer

Asking let's the girls know that you care about what she is okay with

slatyb · Answer

Mostly body language but some women aren't good at letting the guy know. In that case just ask.

LeeLadDaBadLad · Answer

So basically just go for it but make sure the lady is actually in to you

itsthatgurl · Answer

Asking is lame. Just do it but make sure you do read her body language and the mood.

Anonymous · Answer

if ur ugly its assault 😂 same goes for throwing stones at my window at night. i am calling thee po-lice! 😂 make sure u know my felings beforehand then keep eye contact before kissing, then lean closer. if i lean forward then u can. even if i dont pull away make sure u hold back and wait for the lean forward.

Browneye57 · Answer

If you PAY ATTENTION you'll know - you don't need to ask.  Dear god, 33 and you're asking this? Where the fuck is your GAME?

xxrockmexx · Answer

You know when a girl wants to kiss you but, to protect yourself from the #metoo you should ask.

13IsALuckyNumber · Answer

It depends on the girl. If you know them well enough to want to kiss them then you should know them well enough to know how they would want to be kissed.

Passinggas · Answer

You need to get a bilateral consent form signed, notarized and filed with the sheriff's office.

DreamyDeity · Answer

Definitely just go for it everyone sends off body language and vibes read The Vibes what's the worst that can happen you get the cheek. Nothing ruins the moment more and than a boy asking for permission. Confidence in a man goes a long way.

ashley1996 · Answer

I've been asked and thats the only reason he got a kiss 😏

Cacacacacacar · Answer

You should ask for consent. That way, no money-hungry divas can use it against you in court. ;P

Jigor · Answer

Just realize the girl touch of your care and with tender notes of your deep love go for a kiss, no need for permission if you both are in relationship or just friends. Tender touch and love is divine, I think so.

Texaskid1 · Answer

First you grab her by the pussy. If she does not resist than you go in for the kiss.

BestUserName100 · Answer

Like 60 percent at let them go the rest if they want.

mateynine · Answer

Ask and make sure you get both written, video consent, and video observation of the act so that you don't get charged with rape.

janna_jcb · Answer

I personally like it when a guy asks if he can kiss me before we have our first kiss. After that first kiss asking can be a turn off.

Longyanyar · Answer

Go for it (but slowly and demonstratively). If the girl/guy don't want it, she/he just pull him back. Asking ruin the instant I think

Zachpat3213 · Answer

Everybody always tells me to go for it but I asked the only time I did it. I just like to know if she’s feeling it as well or is it gonna be awkward afterwards if she wasn’t.

Anonymous · Answer

Just go for it. I think it's a turn off when he asks first. If the moment is right you can feel it

Anonymous · Answer

In my opinion, in order to support the #metoo movement, we should ask prior to any physical touch. Including holding hands.

leestella1999 · Answer

Go for it. My boyfriend just go for it because he taught i was going to leave him.

br33zyyx0x0 · Answer

I think they should go for it if they know how the girl is feeling lol

frerardsprincess · Answer

I’d say for me to ask the first time but after we’ve done it a bunch just go for it

MisterAnon69 · Answer

The fact that you are 33 and don’t know this is just sad

GD360 · Answer

You got to feel that out in the moment, can't really say what to do. Let the moment tell you

esotericstory · Answer

Yeah sure why not, she can still reject it, she's not a child.

zagor · Answer

I would say go for it, but first have a pretty good feeling that it's wanted. And remember that alcohol can cloud your judgment on such matters.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m not gonna lie being back here makes me cringe a bit because back then before people would lie about rape and shit and the metoo bullshit LOVE use to be LOVE not a fucking statistic for people to use in politics

Mother_of_All · Answer

either way for me. although I would love it more if he just kissed me without asking first (when we both like each other of course)

Pulimuli · Answer

I dont ever think I've asked a woman before kissing her neither has a woman asked me before kissing me Its pretty obvious when someone wants it

bladedshard · Answer

Might as well go for it. Asking is a turn off and getting rejected lets you know she isn't interested.

MoscowMitch · Answer

Lean in really slowly and if she leans in too you can kiss her. If she moves her back forget the whole thing. Body language doesn't have to be hard to read.

genericname85 · Answer

ask if you don't wanna end up with a restraining order in this day and age...

MsJiff · Answer

Just go for it!!! That's how I met my now husband:)

CaptainSmartass · Answer

I'd play it safe and ask. You can't be too cautious these days... Simples...

ultimega · Answer

It depends with the type of girl your dealing with. I'd feel out the vibe first then decide

God-vs-Satan · Answer

Go for it and risk a slap if she isn't into it. It is a risk vs reward type deal.

Hazelstar · Answer

Just go for it... You get that kind of vibes when you want to kiss

codycccccccccc · Answer

First 12 yes after that body language should suffice

Anonymous · Answer

Ask me first. Otherwise it’s a fine way to lose those lips.

Dolemite510 · Answer

If she seems like she wants u to kiss her just go for it, asking for a kiss makes vagina’s dry up 🤣🤣

βιυεsκγs · Answer

Observe her body language. If she seems into just do it. If she doesn’t want to she’ll pull away, so just stop. 😊

Anonymous · Answer

I asked a girl i just met about sex because I was horrified of metoo movement. She thought i was weird for asking not taking like man, so she said no!. Next day she told her gang friends i was weird. She told them she was safe.. Scary😱

Lauren-green · Answer

Don't ask, it ruins the mood, just do it.

iamLaTiNaAa · Answer

Depends on chemistry between you two, if you just notes she likes you too go for it, but if you are not sure maybe ask first except that you are trying to be cute or whatever, in that case ask

AdamNeedsHelp · Answer

My first relationship my girlfriend asked me to kiss her. Which I did but I like someone to kiss me first, that way ik that it's ok to kiss back. Takes the stress out of it.

Anonymous · Answer

" If no meant no every guy would die a virgin. No means work on the neck, the nipples and try back in 5 minutes". - Daniel Tosh

pizzalovershouse · Answer

depends usely best to mention it 1st say are hood night kisses a yes or no on a great date

candyaurora · Answer

If he is my husband I won't mind at all if he suddenly went for it infact would find it pretty hot😁

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