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For you only, seems to be you are looking for someone who fits your standards and to judge him blindly before ever talk to him.. your looking for someone whom you accept, not vis verse..
@Juaitem Yes, when you are screening people for a first date, you are determining whether they meet your standards. Some things are deal breakers, most things are not deal breakers. That's how it works.
No, judging the outer frame, or a bad habit without even contact to know whom you are talking to, is always a "forever alone path".. What would you do, if she hide it for a while, then after you find out about smoking you are IN LOVE? Are you gonna push her away? Or because of your feelings you're gonna try even to solve it or to live with it? We gooo back to zero.. it's all about letting yourself to accept things you don't like... not to put a standard code like your buying a robot with a restrict specifications..
@Juaitem I can not compromise my health over smoke.I had one date, went well... then second date, found out he smokes. i as in his car and i started coughing and whezzing... so yes, some things are deal breakers...
@Juaitem If you want whoever comes along regardless of her habits, education, behavior, etc., you are free to do whatever you want. Most people do not date in that fashion; they have some minimum standards, there are some deal breakers, and not everyone gets a first date. That's the way the rest of the world operates.
@OlderAndWiser also don't deniy the fact that no body is perfect, even you, if you snore! shall she wake away and leave you? Or buy a 2$ device is better?
Sorry to tell you this: you know nothing about the rest of the world, you judge upon your smaaaaaall examples..
I didn't say that i want whoever comes to me.. no.. definitely not.. but because you said you'll not allow the date to start even.. you saw only one bad habit, maybe she has a billion beautiful and worthy habits in her.. this is my point..
@Juaitem Okay. I'll send all the smokers your way.
I don't like somkers, but it's better if you see the good things before denying everything, then you can change the smoking habit or decrease it o limit it or live with it..
@Juaitem Start dating a smoker then tell her that she must change for you. Get back to me in a few months and tell me how that worked out.
If i find three beautiful habits in her, I'll ignore the smoking, because we are nottttt perfect, and who looks for perfection he will NEVER get it, but before this, I dated my wife 3 years, shhee is a smokerrr,, not anymore,, but because I found too many things in her, and I accepted the other side, she accepts a lot from me, and she always knew my opinion about smoking, so as a gift she gave me a 'smoking quitting gift' the time she had a positive pregnancy test... till this moment.. because i accepted heeeerrrr.. you will never accept.. live alone forever.. by the way she's reading know and she's very happy for what i said..😅😅😅
@Juaitem You were lucky. . . and I am not alone. The deal breakers are very few and don't eliminate many women from consideration by me.
@Juaitem stfu moron
That sucks the would be hard for me I hate the smell and the cigarette smoke smell gets into everything
Yeah I started to realise my clothes stink of smoke now. But he is trying to quit and doing pretty well atm actually 😊
That's good he'll get it. It just takes time
Yeah, honestly dont know whether to choose yes or no.
Also I just realized the poll is useless because the question in the title, and the question in the body of the post are worded opposite. No way to know who answered what way. I answered "yes" it is a dealbreaker, but I answered wrong if going by the other question.
Not so special when you're burying your SO first