Do you feel ASHAMED of being single? (Page 2)

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Do you feel ASHAMED of being single?

sophie2002 · Answer

I love being single even though i might feel lonely or sad sometimes but at the end of the day I'm happy that I'm single and i don't have to worry about someone else when I'm having difficulty taking care of myself.

Holy_Ghost_Fire · Answer

Yes mainly. I feel shame that I can't attract a woman to me and the 1 woman I like best here already has a boyfriend or husband she met before me.

Naxwi · Answer

I have been single for a couple years now. Not having found someone I want to be with is nothing to be ashamed of in my opinion. Instead I just work on myself. It's not that I don't want a relationship. I think I would actually be pretty good at it.

PinkMichae · Answer

I wasn't ashamed of being single. I just had fun and made the most of it until fun led to a love connection. Being single or being in a relationship has its pros and cons.

Moonchild714 · Answer

No, but still amazed that in 6.5 weeks I will no longer be single. After a lifetime of Vowing to NEVER get Married, I fell in Love with 2 guys, a Man and his Son.

Sharknado88 · Answer

I wouldn't say ashamed because I have actually enjoyed being single very much, but it's more of a curiousity thing cause I have been single my whole life. It's one thing I hope to experience one day with the right person!

WhoStoleMySock · Answer

The only reason I feel a bit negative about being single is the fact that a fair few people have openly told me, "How are you single?" "You're a catch!" Etc. which then makes me start to think why I am single, because if unavailable people see me being relationship material, why don't all the single people? So in that case, I feel a bit ashamed that something isn't right.

NineBreaker · Answer

Not at all. I think it's better to be single than dating the wrong person. I think that some people care more about avoiding being single than the quality of who they're dating or are in a relationship with.

AshleyMadison00 · Answer

Means I'm not falling for anything that comes my way

Shark_61695 · Answer

I don't generally feel much and don't see the point in being ashamed about not having any friends or being in a relationship.

naughty_cat · Answer

nope I live for myself and only myself,, no late phone calls no texting or video calls,, and I can save a lot of money for eating more.,

laurieluvsit · Answer

No, but I am still hurting that i didn't get the boy that I really wanted :(

2os4ngeles · Answer

Not really ashamed. It would be nice to have someone. I don't think being single necessarily means there is anything wrong with you. Or that being in a relationship necessarily means that you are a healthy, balanced individual.

richardsnarky · Answer

Yes. It makes me feel like something is wrong with me and that I’m unlovable. On top of that, I had two (narcissistic) guys at my former job that always made fun of me for being single.

ohshee · Answer

Im not Ashamed of it ,, i dont like being single at all but thats the way it is at the moment and im looking for snd online hot and passion lover and im not Ashamed of that either

Emerald5 · Answer

No, I don't see any reason to be ashamed of it. If the time comes, I will be destined to find my partner. For now, I can do what I want and when I want to without worrying.

NyxGaia · Answer

Just because I have a kid with him. Even tho I wasn't happy in the relationship and he wasn't for me I still feel ashamed that I had to give up on the family. Its a bit deeper.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

When I was single I wasn't ashamed of being single, I was disappointed that I had no one ask me out.

doctorwhofan23 · Answer

I am single but I am wanting to find a relationship.

Melshmallow046 · Answer

Not single, but I was perfectly content with it when I was.

Anonymous · Answer

I’ve been single for 3 months. My company Christmas party is coming up in December and I’ve decided I’m not going this year. I always feel awkward being one of few single people there (single last year) . I tried to fake it until I made it. But people still pick up on how it bothers me.

Anonymous · Answer

Im A private person. Even when I was in a relationship nobody knew except my closest friends who also don’t judge me for being single. I’m young, good looking, well liked, doing pretty okay in my life and I know that I am single because I don’t like anybody. Nothing to be ashamed of. Now it would be different fin i was out here friending to have a boyfriend but I’m literally chilling

Chevy990 · Answer

I'm kinda Both, in one side I've never had a couple, and people notice and still single, but also I've never been with someone awful unlike others so...

RawIronhide · Answer

I wasn't untill other people started pointing it out. My dad made me set up a dating profile... Ouch!

TsundereMatrix · Answer

My family sometimes makes me feel ashamed of being single because they keep trying to find guys for me to date and they aren’t my type

Just_a_human · Answer

No because there's nothing wrong with being single and I feel like being around one person all the time is draining

SarahsSummer · Answer

not single but even when I was, I was never ashamed of that fact. As if being single is somehow wrong. Being single is not wrong.

Meditatingsquirrel79 · Answer

I am okay being single. No nagging, more money in my wallet, I get to do more stuff on my own. Once in a relationship or married, you're locked in a prison cell.

TyPilot · Answer

UGH! I am so MUCH bothered and ashamed of being Single! Reason being:
Younger Brothers of mine are getting Girlfriends, not to mention friends and others...
I feel so UGLY! I feel so unloved! I hate being alone.

AlphaBob · Answer

I shouldn't but I do. That's because of condom companies not producing a large enough condom for people like me that is available in retail stores in Canada. Couldn't slip a condom on when I was 16 so I should have naturally stayed with my girlfriend seeing as this was the first time I faced this issue. However I broke up with her and slooted around I ended up having Chlamadia for a very long time because I didn't know what to do when you got an STI it was a very painful year.

illwillbill · Answer

Because I was raised and brought up to be a man that provides for his family his wife and kids and takes care of whats his. So now I find myself at 38 being single again it's like a kick between the legs I wasn't good enough I didn't do this enough or that enough. Hertz that's a person you love would rather be by their self or with somebody else than you.

markscott · Answer

When I was single, I never felt shame for being single. There is nothing wrong with being single. In fact, there are many good things about being single.

JSmuve · Answer

Not ashamed, just awkward and maybe a little self-conscious.

Smiley_face101 · Answer

My family triez to tell me something is wrong with me but I know that I the time I am single is a time I can dedicate to work on my self and improve my self for my future boyfriend

nerms123 · Answer

Not ashamed. Being in a relationship and being single can both suck sometimes lol

SweedyPie · Answer

Ashamed no. Do I want oxytocin, yes. Do I think it's gonna happen anytime soon? Nope.

kyatra · Answer

It's just where I happen to be right now. I'd rather be single than in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship

Nik1hil · Answer

No!.. 😝😝 I just keep my soda and popcorn ready on standby..  And wait until a couples quarrel begins..  Then I get cozy and enjoy the entertainment.. In 3D.. Usually in parks 🤣🤣

Bman4907 · Answer

When someone finds out that you have been single for years, it makes you look like you have a disease that can be passed through the air. I always hear the don't worry, you'll find somebody.

anxiety_boss · Answer

When I’m alone no, in fact I love it. But when I’m out in public and I see other couples, that’s when I start feeling bad

UnknownBartley · Answer

Nah, not ashamed... when single you enjoy different things to when you're in a relationship... I just try to enjoy myself before I get in to another relationship

Jjpayne · Answer

I totally am, I feel like a discarded toy that no girl wants as I see other girls clinging to other guys :(

sawno · Answer

Not of the fact i am single right now, but the fact i have been single for so long is something people often frowned upon.

yoganshB · Answer

Not ashamed but it will surely be better when I'll be with my love. That's only possible when I'll find my love. Until than I'm satisfied with being a single man.

ImagineSketchy · Answer

No? That would be odd. It isn't a mandatory thing, nor is it something that people look down upon you because of it. I'm fine being single. It is mostly my choice, but I don't think I can love.

Shamalien · Answer

I did for a really long time. Now I don't feel ashamed but I can't help but get a little sad when people talk about their SO around me. My logical mind keeps me on my path but were I slave to emotions I'd run out and find someone immediately

veebee14 · Answer

No being single doesn’t mean lonely or sad it’s just enjoying your “me” time And bettering yourself

JohnAlaska43 · Answer

Not ashamed. But its not easy when your the only single guy in your friends group. It can be very lonely to see others in love.

iwantabeme · Answer

I'm not ashamed my choice, I don't want to just find anything I'm looking for my girl, it will be worth the wait

TylerC137 · Answer

No, because in my mind it honestly doesn't matter. You can still be happy and single. Everyone is going to die alone anyway.

Teahappy · Answer

I don't understand why that would make me feel ashamed. I've been single for 3 years and it's funny to me. I just find it hilarious.

jesskrs101 · Answer

Yes and no, depends on the day and when I go on fb seeing all of my friends getting married or engaged.

natasha3012 · Answer

Nope... Never... In fact I am happy I am out of all the drama that comes along with it

Janneman96 · Answer

Not after my first relationship. Being alone feels a lot better than being in a toxic relationship. And I like to be free to flirt with girls in the club.

Asirea · Answer

I don't know if this is abnormal or not, but I am actually happily single.

YetiG · Answer

Ashamed? No why would I be ashamed Lonely? Very much so, but that's just because I haven't put myself out there

thewoodsman · Answer

I'm not ashamed at all being single has been some of the best time of my life. I'm not even concerned anymore about trying to find a women

Shafaq_Mahnoor96 · Answer

No I don't feel ashamed of being single at all. Though it does kind of suck and get to me sometimes when I see other people in relationships already.

Ashleyyyyysimpson · Answer

Nope. I am more ashamed of being in a toxic relationship, knowing it hurt me but i still continue to accept it. At least single, ur emotional health is better but at times u will feel lonely, that is when family and close friends come into mind.

lifelearner011 · Answer

I'm not ashamed, yet am tired of being kind of "left out" because of it.

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