I just want to know.. how's their feelings.. people who suffering in STD and how about their relationship.. or another perspective from people who just know about it on first date..
Not only would I not date anyone with STD/STI but I would also ensure that I am not befriended with that person.
My health and life is way too precious for me to even contemplate taking a risk. If I had a friend with STD, I would have to sever this friendship at once. A handshake or a peck on the cheek could in theory be sufficient enough to be infected and that is a risk I am not willing to take.
I would rather live with not friends than with some that I have to fear could potentially kill me.
Since I am not into dating or intimate relations, I remove 2 sources of danger simultaneously.
Nope. Not worth my health. And before i have sex for the first time, my partners taking an std test and I have to see that results, I don't even mind taking one myself for fairness reasons.
No. And I wouldn’t date someone with a high body count either as they are more likely to have an STD. Condoms are not perfect or provide enough protection as they have broken on me. And oral sex with someone like that is just asking for throat cancer or something later.
Hell no. I take responsibility and get tested whenever I sleep with a woman. Sure as heck don't want to stick it in and get something incurable. As a man, you have to treat your dick like your best friend when it comes to sex. Respect and care.
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It's so funny all the people saying no I guarantee that many of you who have said no do in fact have an std even if you think you don't remember this std antibodies can take months to show up in your blood so just because you got tested now and it came back negative doesn't mean anything because you could go back in a year and test positive
DEAR anonymous, you are talking out of your butt hole, if nothing has shown up after 6 months then you can be very certain you have nothing. Ask your GP. Even so I would neer knowingly touch or date anyone infected, let alone screw them.
I've survived losing a couple organs, fought a strep b infection for 2 1/2 years and other things. I'm not I could take the risk to my immune system to be honest.
Yes, so long as it’s curable, and I got the sense that they weren’t a complete moron. Everyone makes mistakes, but if it’s a repeating thing, I would probably not want to get involved.
Just see them as people that is bearing their consequences of their action. That all. I treat them like normal people but will never date one. It is my choice and I have the right to not like them for romantic interess.
I've never had an STD, because I have never had a hook up. And I waited for marriage. I would not date a girl with an STD. The exception might be if she got it from her husband.
only if it's one that isn't permanent. also i wouldn't have sex with them while they're having it. i know shit happens but if they have something serious/permanent, i'll keep them at a distance.
It’s about trust and education about the STD in question. Trust that your partner will tell you they have an STD and know which one then education on how to prevent it from spreading. I’ve had two gfs that have herpes and both were honest up front and both were under a Drs care with meds to control it and prevent it’s contagion
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